Part I
Of the Propriety of Action
Consisting of Three Sections
Section I
Of the Sense of Propriety
Chap. I
Of Sympathy
How selfish soever man may be supposed, there are evidently
some principles in his nature, which interest him in the fortune
of others, and render their happiness necessary to him, though he
derives nothing from it except the pleasure of seeing it. Of this
kind is pity or compassion, the emotion which we feel for the
misery of others, when we either see it, or are made to conceive
it in a very lively manner. That we often derive sorrow from the
sorrow of others, is a matter of fact too obvious to require any
instances to prove it; for this sentiment, like all the other
original passions of human nature, is by no means confined to the
virtuous and humane, though they perhaps may feel it with the
most exquisite sensibility. The greatest ruffian, the most
hardened violator of the laws of society, is not altogether
without it.
As we have no immediate experience of what other men feel, we
can form no idea of the manner in which they are affected, but by
conceiving what we ourselves should feel in the like situation.
Though our brother is upon the rack, as long as we ourselves are
at our ease, our senses will never inform us of what he suffers.
They never did, and never can, carry us beyond our own person,
and it is by the imagination only that we can form any conception
of what are his sensations. Neither can that faculty help us to
this any other way, than by representing to us what would be our
own, if we were in his case. It is the impressions of our own
senses only, not those of his, which our imaginations copy. By
the imagination we place ourselves in his situation, we conceive
ourselves enduring all the same torments, we enter as it were
into his body, and become in some measure the same person with
him, and thence form some idea of his sensations, and even feel
something which, though weaker in degree, is not altogether
unlike them. His agonies, when they are thus brought home to
ourselves, when we have thus adopted and made them our own, begin
at last to affect us, and we then tremble and shudder at the
thought of what he feels. For as to be in pain or distress of any
kind excites the most excessive sorrow, so to conceive or to
imagine that we are in it, excites some degree of the same
emotion, in proportion to the vivacity or dulness of the
conception.
That this is the source of our fellow-feeling for the misery
of others, that it is by changing places in fancy with the
sufferer, that we come either to conceive or to be affected by
what he feels, may be demonstrated by many obvious observations,
if it should not be thought sufficiently evident of itself. When
we see a stroke aimed and just ready to fall upon the leg or arm
of another person, we naturally shrink and draw back our own leg
or our own arm; and when it does fall, we feel it in some
measure, and are hurt by it as well as the sufferer. The mob,
when they are gazing at a dancer on the slack rope, naturally
writhe and twist and balance their own bodies, as they see him
do, and as they feel that they themselves must do if in his
situation. Persons of delicate fibres and a weak constitution of
body complain, that in looking on the sores and ulcers which are
exposed by beggars in the streets, they are apt to feel an
itching or uneasy sensation in the correspondent part of their
own bodies. The horror which they conceive at the misery of those
wretches affects that particular part in themselves more than any
other; because that horror arises from conceiving what they
themselves would suffer, if they really were the wretches whom
they are looking upon, and if that particular part in themselves
was actually affected in the same miserable manner. The very
force of this conception is sufficient, in their feeble frames,
to produce that itching or uneasy sensation complained of. Men of
the most robust make, observe that in looking upon sore eyes they
often feel a very sensible soreness in their own, which proceeds
from the same reason; that organ being in the strongest man more
delicate, than any other part of the body is in the weakest.
Neither is it those circumstances only, which create pain or
sorrow, that call forth our fellow-feeling. Whatever is the
passion which arises from any object in the person principally
concerned, an analogous emotion springs up, at the thought of his
situation, in the breast of every attentive spectator. Our joy
for the deliverance of those heroes of tragedy or romance who
interest us, is as sincere as our grief for their distress, and
our fellow-feeling with their misery is not more real than that
with their happiness. We enter into their gratitude towards those
faithful friends who did not desert them in their difficulties;
and we heartily go along with their resentment against those
perfidious traitors who injured, abandoned, or deceived them. In
every passion of which the mind of man is susceptible, the
emotions of the by-stander always correspond to hat, by bringing
the case home to himself, he imagines should be the sentiments of
the sufferer.
Pity and compassion are words appropriated to signify our
fellow-feeling with the sorrow of others. Sympathy, though its
meaning was, perhaps, originally the same, may now, however,
without much impropriety, be made use of to denote our
fellow-feeling with any passion whatever.
Upon some occasions sympathy may seen to arise merely from
the view of a certain emotion in another person. The passions,
upon some occasions, may seem to be transfused from one man to
another, instantaneously and antecedent to any knowledge of what
excited them in the person principally concerned. Grief and joy,
for example, strongly expressed in the look and gestures of any
one, at once affect the spectator with some degree of a like
painful or agreeable emotion. A smiling face is, to every body
that sees it, a cheerful object; as a sorrowful countenance, on
the other hand, is a melancholy one.
This, however, does not hold universally, or with regard to
every passion. There are some passions of which the expressions
excite no sort of sympathy, but before we are acquainted with
what gave occasion to them, serve rather to disgust and provoke
us against them. The furious behaviour of an angry man is more
likely to exasperate us against himself than against his enemies.
As we are unacquainted with his provocation, we cannot bring his
case home to ourselves, nor conceive any thing like the passions
which it excites. But we plainly see what is the situation of
those with whom he is angry, and to what violence they may be
exposed from so enraged an adversary. We readily, therefore,
sympathize with their fear or resentment, and are immediately
disposed to take part against the man from whom they appear to be
in so much danger.
If the very appearances of grief and joy inspire us with some
degree of the like emotions, it is because they suggest to us the
general idea of some good or bad fortune that has befallen the
person in whom we observe them: and in these passions this is
sufficient to have some little influence upon us. The effects of
grief and joy terminate in the person who feels those emotions,
of which the expressions do not, like those of resentment,
suggest to us the idea of any other person for whom we are
concerned, and whose interests are opposite to his. The general
idea of good or bad fortune, therefore, creates some concern for
the person who has met with it, but the general idea of
provocation excites no sympathy with the anger of the man who has
received it. Nature, it seems, teaches us to be more averse to
enter into this passion, and, till informed of its cause, to be
disposed rather to take part against it.
Even our sympathy with the grief or joy of another, before we
are informed of the cause of either, is always extremely
imperfect. General lamentations, which express nothing but the
anguish of the sufferer, create rather a curiosity to inquire
into his situation, along with some disposition to sympathize
with him, than any actual sympathy that is very sensible. The
first question which we ask is, What has befallen you? Till this
be answered, though we are uneasy both from the vague idea of his
misfortune, and still more from torturing ourselves with
conjectures about what it may be, yet our fellow-feeling is not
very considerable.
Sympathy, therefore, does not arise so much from the view of
the passion, as from that of the situation which excites it. We
sometimes feel for another, a passion of which he himself seems
to be altogether incapable; because, when we put ourselves in his
case, that passion arises in our breast from the imagination,
though it does not in his from the reality. We blush for the
impudence and rudeness of another, though he himself appears to
have no sense of the impropriety of his own behaviour; because we
cannot help feeling with what confusion we ourselves should be
covered, had we behaved in so absurd a manner.
Of all the calamities to which the condition of mortality
exposes mankind, the loss of reason appears, to those who have
the least spark of humanity, by far the most dreadful, and they
behold that last stage of human wretchedness with deeper
commiseration than any other. But the poor wretch, who is in it,
laughs and sings perhaps, and is altogether insensible of his own
misery. The anguish which humanity feels, therefore, at the sight
of such an object, cannot be the reflection of any sentiment of
the sufferer. The compassion of the spectator must arise
altogether from the consideration of what he himself would feel
if he was reduced to the same unhappy situation, and, what
perhaps is impossible, was at the same time able to regard it
with his present reason and judgment.
What are the pangs of a mother, when she hears the moanings
of her infant that during the agony of disease cannot express
what it feels? In her idea of what it suffers, she joins, to its
real helplessness, her own consciousness of that helplessness,
and her own terrors for the unknown consequences of its disorder;
and out of all these, forms, for her own sorrow, the most
complete image of misery and distress. The infant, however, feels
only the uneasiness of the present instant, which can never be
great. With regard to the future, it is perfectly secure, and in
its thoughtlessness and want of foresight, possesses an antidote
against fear and anxiety, the great tormentors of the human
breast, from which reason and philosophy will, in vain, attempt
to defend it, when it grows up to a man.
We sympathize even with the dead, and overlooking what is of
real importance in their situation, that awful futurity which
awaits them, we are chiefly affected by those circumstances which
strike our senses, but can have no influence upon their
happiness. It is miserable, we think, to be deprived of the light
of the sun; to be shut out from life and conversation; to be laid
in the cold grave, a prey to corruption and the reptiles of the
earth; to be no more thought of in this world, but to be
obliterated, in a little time, from the affections, and almost
from the memory, of their dearest friends and relations. Surely,
we imagine, we can never feel too much for those who have
suffered so dreadful a calamity. The tribute of our
fellow-feeling seems doubly due to them now, when they are in
danger of being forgot by every body; and, by the vain honours
which we pay to their memory, we endeavour, for our own misery,
artificially to keep alive our melancholy remembrance of their
misfortune. That our sympathy can afford them no consolation
seems to be an addition to their calamity; and to think that all
we can do is unavailing, and that, what alleviates all other
distress, the regret, the love, and the lamentations of their
friends, can yield no comfort to them, serves only to exasperate
our sense of their misery. The happiness of the dead, however,
most assuredly, is affected by none of these circumstances; nor
is it the thought of these things which can ever disturb the
profound security of their repose. The idea of that dreary and
endless melancholy, which the fancy naturally ascribes to their
condition, arises altogether from our joining to the change which
has been produced upon them, our own consciousness of that
change, from our putting ourselves in their situation, and from
our lodging, if I may be allowed to say so, our own living souls
in their inanimated bodies, and thence conceiving what would be
our emotions in this case. It is from this very illusion of the
imagination, that the foresight of our own dissolution is so
terrible to us, and that the idea of those circumstances, which
undoubtedly can give us no pain when we are dead, makes us
miserable while we are alive. And from thence arises one of the
most important principles in human nature, the dread of death,
the great poison to the happiness, but the great restraint upon
the injustice of mankind, which, while it afflicts and mortifies
the individual, guards and protects the society.
Chap. II
Of the Pleasure of mutual Sympathy
But whatever may be the cause of sympathy, or however it may
be excited, nothing pleases us more than to observe in other men
a fellow-feeling with all the emotions of our own breast; nor are
we ever so much shocked as by the appearance of the contrary.
Those who are fond of deducing all our sentiments from certain
refinements of self-love, think themselves at no loss to account,
according to their own principles, both for this pleasure and
this pain. Man, say they, conscious of his own weakness, and of
the need which he has for the assistance of others, rejoices
whenever he observes that they adopt his own passions, because he
is then assured of that assistance; and grieves whenever he
observes the contrary, because he is then assured of their
opposition. But both the pleasure and the pain are always felt so
instantaneously, and often upon such frivolous occasions, that it
seems evident that neither of them can be derived from any such
self-interested consideration. A man is mortified when, after
having endeavoured to divert the company, he looks round and sees
that nobody laughs at his jests but himself. On the contrary, the
mirth of the company is highly agreeable to him, and he regards
this correspondence of their sentiments with his own as the
greatest applause.
Neither does his pleasure seem to arise altogether from the
additional vivacity which his mirth may receive from sympathy
with theirs, nor his pain from the disappointment he meets with
when he misses this pleasure; though both the one and the other,
no doubt, do in some measure. When we have read a book or poem so
often that we can no longer find any amusement in reading it by
ourselves, we can still take pleasure in reading it to a
companion. To him it has all the graces of novelty; we enter into
the surprise and admiration which it naturally excites in him,
but which it is no longer capable of exciting in us; we consider
all the ideas which it presents rather in the light in which they
appear to him, than in that in which they appear to ourselves,
and we are amused by sympathy with his amusement which thus
enlivens our own. On the contrary, we should be vexed if he did
not seem to be entertained with it, and we could no longer take
any pleasure in reading it to him. It is the same case here. The
mirth of the company, no doubt, enlivens our own mirth, and their
silence, no doubt, disappoints us. But though this may contribute
both to the pleasure which we derive from the one, and to the
pain which we feel from the other, it is by no means the sole
cause of either; and this correspondence of the sentiments of
others with our own appears to be a cause of pleasure, and the
want of it a cause of pain, which cannot be accounted for in this
manner. The sympathy, which my friends express with my joy,
might, indeed, give me pleasure by enlivening that joy: but that
which they express with my grief could give me none, if it served
only to enliven that grief. Sympathy, however, enlivens joy and
alleviates grief. It enlivens joy by presenting another source of
satisfaction; and it alleviates grief by insinuating into the
heart almost the only agreeable sensation which it is at that
time capable of receiving.
It is to be observed accordingly, that we are still more
anxious to communicate to our friends our disagreeable than our
agreeable passions, that we derive still more satisfaction from
their sympathy with the former than from that with the latter,
and that we are still more shocked by the want of it.
How are the unfortunate relieved when they have found out a
person to whom they can communicate the cause of their sorrow?
Upon his sympathy they seem to disburthen themselves of a part of
their distress: he is not improperly said to share it with them.
He not only feels a sorrow of the same kind with that which they
feel, but as if he had derived a part of it to himself, what he
feels seems to alleviate the weight of what they feel. Yet by
relating their misfortunes they in some measure renew their
grief. They awaken in their memory the remembrance of those
circumstances which occasioned their affliction. Their tears
accordingly flow faster than before, and they are apt to abandon
themselves to all the weakness of sorrow. They take pleasure,
however, in all this, and, it is evident, are sensibly relieved
by it; because the sweetness of his sympathy more than
compensates the bitterness of that sorrow, which, in order to
excite this sympathy, they had thus enlivened and renewed. The
cruelest insult, on the contrary, which can be offered to the
unfortunate, is to appear to make light of their calamities. To
seem not to be affected with the joy of our companions is but
want of politeness; but not to wear a serious countenance when
they tell us their afflictions, is real and gross inhumanity.
Love is an agreeable; resentment, a disagreeable passion; and
accordingly we are not half so anxious that our friends should
adopt our friendships, as that they should enter into our
resentments. We can forgive them though they seem to be little
affected with the favours which we may have received, but lose
all patience if they seem indifferent about the injuries which
may have been done to us: nor are we half so angry with them for
not entering into our gratitude, as for not sympathizing with our
resentment. They can easily avoid being friends to our friends,
but can hardly avoid being enemies to those with whom we are at
variance. We seldom resent their being at enmity with the first,
though upon that account we may sometimes affect to make an
awkward quarrel with them; but we quarrel with them in good
earnest if they live in friendship with the last. The agreeable
passions of love and joy can satisfy and support the heart
without any auxiliary pleasure. The bitter and painful emotions
of grief and resentment more strongly require the healing
consolation of sympathy.
As the person who is principally interested in any event is
pleased with our sympathy, and hurt by the want of it, so we,
too, seem to be pleased when we are able to sympathize with him,
and to be hurt when we are unable to do so. We run not only to
congratulate the successful, but to condole with the afflicted;
and the pleasure which we find in the conversation of one whom in
all the passions of his heart we can entirely sympathize with,
seems to do more than compensate the painfulness of that sorrow
with which the view of his situation affects us. On the contrary,
it is always disagreeable to feel that we cannot sympathize with
him, and instead of being pleased with this exemption from
sympathetic pain, it hurts us to find that we cannot share his
uneasiness. If we hear a person loudly lamenting his misfortunes,
which, however, upon bringing the case home to ourselves, we
feel, can produce no such violent effect upon us, we are shocked
at his grief; and, because we cannot enter into it, call it
pusillanimity and weakness. It gives us the spleen, on the other
hand, to see another too happy or too much elevated, as we call
it, with any little piece of good fortune. We are disobliged even
with his joy; and, because we cannot go along with it, call it
levity and folly. We are even put out of humour if our companion
laughs louder or longer at a joke than we think it deserves; that
is, than we feel that we ourselves could laugh at it.
Chap. III
Of the manner in which we judge of the propriety or impropriety
of the affections of other men, by their concord or dissonance
with our own.
When the original passions of the person principally
concerned are in perfect concord with the sympathetic emotions of
the spectator, they necessarily appear to this last just and
proper, and suitable to their objects; and, on the contrary,
when, upon bringing the case home to himself, he finds that they
do not coincide with what he feels, they necessarily appear to
him unjust and improper, and unsuitable to the causes which
excite them. To approve of the passions of another, therefore, as
suitable to their objects, is the same thing as to observe that
we entirely sympathize with them; and not to approve of them as
such, is the same thing as to observe that we do not entirely
sympathize with them. The man who resents the injuries that have
been done to me, and observes that I resent them precisely as he
does, necessarily approves of my resentment. The man whose
sympathy keeps time to my grief, cannot but admit the
reasonableness of my sorrow. He who admires the same poem, or the
same picture, and admires them exactly as I do, must surely allow
the justness of my admiration. He who laughs at the same joke,
and laughs along with me, cannot well deny the propriety of my
laughter. On the contrary, the person who, upon these different
occasions, either feels no such emotion as that which I feel, or
feels none that bears any proportion to mine, cannot avoid
disapproving my sentiments on account of their dissonance with
his own. If my animosity goes beyond what the indignation of my
friend can correspond to; if my grief exceeds what his most
tender compassion can go along with; if my admiration is either
too high or too low to tally with his own; if I laugh loud and
heartily when he only smiles, or, on the contrary, only smile
when he laughs loud and heartily; in all these cases, as soon as
he comes from considering the object, to observe how I am
affected by it, according as there is more or less disproportion
between his sentiments and mine, I must incur a greater or less
degree of his disapprobation: and upon all occasions his own
sentiments are the standards and measures by which he judges of
mine.
To approve of another man's opinions is to adopt those
opinions, and to adopt them is to approve of them. If the same
arguments which convince you convince me likewise, I necessarily
approve of your conviction; and if they do not, I necessarily
disapprove of it: neither can I possibly conceive that I should
do the one without the other. To approve or disapprove,
therefore, of the opinions of others is acknowledged, by every
body, to mean no more than to observe their agreement or
disagreement with our own. But this is equally the case with
regard to our approbation or disapprobation of the sentiments or
passions of others.
There are, indeed, some cases in which we seem to approve
without any sympathy or correspondence of sentiments, and in
which, consequently, the sentiment of approbation would seem to
be different from the perception of this coincidence. A little
attention, however, will convince us that even in these cases our
approbation is ultimately founded upon a sympathy or
correspondence of this kind. I shall give an instance in things
of a very frivolous nature, because in them the judgments of
mankind are less apt to be perverted by wrong systems. We may
often approve of a jest, and think the laughter of the company
quite just and proper, though we ourselves do not laugh, because,
perhaps, we are in a grave humour, or happen to have our
attention engaged with other objects. We have learned, however,
from experience, what sort of pleasantry is upon most occasions
capable of making us laugh, and we observe that this is one of
that kind. We approve, therefore, of the laughter of the company,
and feel that it is natural and suitable to its object; because,
though in our present mood we cannot easily enter into it, we are
sensible that upon most occasions we should very heartily join in
it.
The same thing often happens with regard to all the other
passions. A stranger passes by us in the street with all the
marks of the deepest affliction; and we are immediately told that
he has just received the news of the death of his father. It is
impossible that, in this case, we should not approve of his
grief. Yet it may often happen, without any defect of humanity on
our part, that, so far from entering into the violence of his
sorrow, we should scarce conceive the first movements of concern
upon his account. Both he and his father, perhaps, are entirely
unknown to us, or we happen to be employed about other things,
and do not take time to picture out in our imagination the
different circumstances of distress which must occur to him. We
have learned, however, from experience, that such a misfortune
naturally excites such a degree of sorrow, and we know that if we
took time to consider his situation, fully and in all its parts,
we should, without doubt, most sincerely sympathize with him. It
is upon the consciousness of this conditional sympathy, that our
approbation of his sorrow is founded, even in those cases in
which that sympathy does not actually take place; and the general
rules derived from our preceding experience of what our
sentiments would commonly correspond with, correct upon this, as
upon many other occasions, the impropriety of our present
emotions.
The sentiment or affection of the heart from which any action
proceeds, and upon which its whole virtue or vice must ultimately
depend, may be considered under two different aspects, or in two
different relations; first, in relation to the cause which
excites it, or the motive which gives occasion to it; and
secondly, in relation to the end which it proposes, or the effect
which it tends to produce.
In the suitableness or unsuitableness, in the proportion or
disproportion which the affection seems to bear to the cause or
object which excites it, consists the propriety or impropriety,
the decency or ungracefulness of the consequent action.
In the beneficial or hurtful nature of the effects which the
affection aims at, or tends to produce, consists the merit or
demerit of the action, the qualities by which it is entitled to
reward, or is deserving of punishment.
Philosophers have, of late years, considered chiefly the
tendency of affections, and have given little attention to the
relation which they stand in to the cause which excites them. In
common life, however, when we judge of any person's conduct, and
of the sentiments which directed it, we constantly consider them
under both these aspects. When we blame in another man the
excesses of love, of grief, of resentment, we not only consider
the ruinous effects which they tend to produce, but the little
occasion which was given for them. The merit of his favourite, we
say, is not so great, his misfortune is not so dreadful, his
provocation is not so extraordinary, as to justify so violent a
passion. We should have indulged, we say; perhaps, have approved
of the violence of his emotion, had the cause been in any respect
proportioned to it.
When we judge in this manner of any affection, as
proportioned or disproportioned to the cause which excites it, it
is scarce possible that we should make use of any other rule or
canon but the correspondent affection in ourselves. If, upon
bringing the case home to our own breast, we find that the
sentiments which it gives occasion to, coincide and tally with
our own, we necessarily approve of them as proportioned and
suitable to their objects; if otherwise, we necessarily
disapprove of them, as extravagant and out of proportion.
Every faculty in one man is the measure by which he judges of
the like faculty in another. I judge of your sight by my sight,
of your ear by my ear, of your reason by my reason, of your
resentment by my resentment, of your love by my love. I neither
have, nor can have, any other way of judging about them.
Chap. IV
The same subject continued
We may judge of the propriety or impropriety of the
sentiments of another person by their correspondence or
disagreement with our own, upon two different occasions; either,
first, when the objects which excite them are considered without
any peculiar relation, either to ourselves or to the person whose
sentiments we judge of; or, secondly, when they are considered as
peculiarly affecting one or other of us.
1. With regard to those objects which are considered without
any peculiar relation either to ourselves or to the person whose
sentiments we judge of; wherever his sentiments entirely
correspond with our own, we ascribe to him the qualities of taste
and good judgment. The beauty of a plain, the greatness of a
mountain, the ornaments of a building, the expression of a
picture, the composition of a discourse, the conduct of a third
person, the proportions of different quantities and numbers, the
various appearances which the great machine of the universe is
perpetually exhibiting, with the secret wheels and springs which
product them; all the general subjects of science and taste, are
what we and our companion regard as having no peculiar relation
to either of us. We both look at them from the same point of
view, and we have no occasion for sympathy, or for that imaginary
change of situations from which it arises, in order to produce,
with regard to these, the most perfect harmony of sentiments and
affections. If, notwithstanding, we are often differently
affected, it arises either from the different degrees of
attention, which our different habits of life allow us to give
easily to the several parts of those complex objects, or from the
different degrees of natural acuteness in the faculty of the mind
to which they are addressed.
When the sentiments of our companion coincide with our own in
things of this kind, which are obvious and easy, and in which,
perhaps, we never found a single person who differed from us,
though we, no doubt, must approve of them, yet he seems to
deserve no praise or admiration on account of them. But when they
not only coincide with our own, but lead and direct our own; when
in forming them he appears to have attended to many things which
we had overlooked, and to have adjusted them to all the various
circumstances of their objects; we not only approve of them, but
wonder and are surprised at their uncommon and unexpected
acuteness and comprehensiveness, and he appears to deserve a very
high degree of admiration and applause. For approbation
heightened by wonder and surprise, constitutes the sentiment
which is properly called admiration, and of which applause is the
natural expression. The decision of the man who judges that
exquisite beauty is preferable to the grossest deformity, or that
twice two are equal to four, must certainly be approved of by all
the world, but will not, surely, be much admired. It is the acute
and delicate discernment of the man of taste, who distinguishes
the minute, and scarce perceptible differences of beauty and
deformity; it is the comprehensive accuracy of the experienced
mathematician, who unravels, with ease, the most intricate and
perplexed proportions; it is the great leader in science and
taste, the man who directs and conducts our own sentiments, the
extent and superior justness of whose talents astonish us with
wonder and surprise, who excites our admiration, and seems to
deserve our applause: and upon this foundation is grounded the
greater part of the praise which is bestowed upon what are called
the intellectual virtues.
The utility of those qualities, it may be thought, is what
first recommends them to us; and, no doubt, the consideration of
this, when we come to attend to it, gives them a new value.
Originally, however, we approve of another man's judgment, not as
something useful, but as right, as accurate, as agreeable to
truth and reality: and it is evident we attribute those qualities
to it for no other reason but because we find that it agrees with
our own. Taste, in the same manner, is originally approved of,
not as useful, but as just, as delicate, and as precisely suited
to its object. The idea of the utility of all qualities of this
kind, is plainly an after-thought, and not what first recommends
them to our approbation.
2. With regard to those objects, which affect in a particular
manner either ourselves or the person whose sentiments we judge
of, it is at once more difficult to preserve this harmony and
correspondence, and at the same time, vastly more important. My
companion does not naturally look upon the misfortune that has
befallen me, or the injury that has been done me, from the same
point of view in which I consider them. They affect me much more
nearly. We do not view them from the same station, as we do a
picture, or a poem, or a system of philosophy, and are,
therefore, apt to be very differently affected by them. But I can
much more easily overlook the want of this correspondence of
sentiments with regard to such indifferent objects as concern
neither me nor my companion, than with regard to what interests
me so much as the misfortune that has befallen me, or the injury
that has been done me. Though you despise that picture, or that
poem, or even that system of philosophy, which I admire, there is
little danger of our quarrelling upon that account. Neither of us
can reasonably be much interested about them. They ought all of
them to be matters of great indifference to us both; so that,
though our opinions may be opposite, our affections may still be
very nearly the same. But it is quite otherwise with regard to
those objects by which either you or I are particularly affected.
Though your judgments in matters of speculation, though your
sentiments in matters of taste, are quite opposite to mine, I can
easily overlook this opposition; and if I have any degree of
temper, I may still find some entertainment in your conversation,
even upon those very subjects. But if you have either no
fellow-feeling for the misfortunes I have met with, or none that
bears any proportion to the grief which distracts me; or if you
have either no indignation at the injuries I have suffered, or
none that bears any proportion to the resentment which transports
me, we can no longer converse upon these subjects. We become
intolerable to one another. I can neither support your company,
nor you mine. You are confounded at my violence and passion, and
I am enraged at your cold insensibility and want of feeling.
In all such cases, that there may be some correspondence of
sentiments between the spectator and the person principally
concerned, the spectator must, first of all, endeavour, as much
as he can, to put himself in the situation of the other, and to
bring home to himself every little circumstance of distress which
can possibly occur to the sufferer. He must adopt the whole case
of his companion with all its minutest incidents; and strive to
render as perfect as possible, that imaginary change of situation
upon which his sympathy is founded.
After all this, however, the emotions of the spectator will
still be very apt to fall short of the violence of what is felt
by the sufferer. Mankind, though naturally sympathetic, never
conceive, for what has befallen another, that degree of passion
which naturally animates the person principally concerned. That
imaginary change of situation, upon which their sympathy is
founded, is but momentary. The thought of their own safety, the
thought that they themselves are not really the sufferers,
continually intrudes itself upon them; and though it does not
hinder them from conceiving a passion somewhat analogous to what
is felt by the sufferer, hinders them from conceiving any thing
that approaches to the same degree of violence. The person
principally concerned is sensible of this, and at the same time
passionately desires a more complete sympathy. He longs for that
relief which nothing can afford him but the entire concord of the
affections of the spectators with his own. To see the emotions of
their hearts, in every respect, beat time to his own, in the
violent and disagreeable passions, constitutes his sole
consolation. But he can only hope to obtain this by lowering his
passion to that pitch, in which the spectators are capable of
going along with him. He must flatten, if I may be allowed to say
so, the sharpness of its natural tone, in order to reduce it to
harmony and concord with the emotions of those who are about him.
What they feel, will, indeed, always be, in some respects,
different from what he feels, and compassion can never be exactly
the same with original sorrow; because the secret consciousness
that the change of situations, from which the sympathetic
sentiment arises, is but imaginary, not only lowers it in degree,
but, in some measure, varies it in kind, and gives it a quite
different modification. These two sentiments, however, may, it is
evident, have such a correspondence with one another, as is
sufficient for the harmony of society. Though they will never be
unisons, they may be concords, and this is all that is wanted or
required.
In order to produce this concord, as nature teaches the
spectators to assume the circumstances of the person principally
concerned, so she teaches this last in some measure to assume
those of the spectators. As they are continually placing
themselves in his situation, and thence conceiving emotions
similar to what he feels; so he is as constantly placing himself
in theirs, and thence conceiving some degree of that coolness
about his own fortune, with which he is sensible that they will
view it. As they are constantly considering what they themselves
would feel, if they actually were the sufferers, so he is as
constantly led to imagine in what manner he would be affected if
he was only one of the spectators of his own situation. As their
sympathy makes them look at it, in some measure, with his eyes,
so his sympathy makes him look at it, in some measure, with
theirs, especially when in their presence and acting under their
observation: and as the reflected passion, which he thus
conceives, is much weaker than the original one, it necessarily
abates the violence of what he felt before he came into their
presence, before he began to recollect in what manner they would
be affected by it, and to view his situation in this candid and
impartial light.
The mind, therefore, is rarely so disturbed, but that the
company of a friend will restore it to some degree of
tranquillity and sedateness. The breast is, in some measure,
calmed and composed the moment we come into his presence. We are
immediately put in mind of the light in which he will view our
situation, and we begin to view it ourselves in the same light;
for the effect of sympathy is instantaneous. We expect less
sympathy from a common acquaintance than from a friend: we cannot
open to the former all those little circumstances which we can
unfold to the latter: we assume, therefore, more tranquillity
before him, and endeavour to fix our thoughts upon those general
outlines of our situation which he is willing to consider. We
expect still less sympathy from an assembly of strangers, and we
assume, therefore, still more tranquillity before them, and
always endeavour to bring down our passion to that pitch, which
the particular company we are in may be expected to go along
with. Nor is this only an assumed appearance: for if we are at
all masters of ourselves, the presence of a mere acquaintance
will really compose us, still more than that of a friend; and
that of an assembly of strangers still more than that of an
acquaintance.
Society and conversation, therefore, are the most powerful
remedies for restoring the mind to its tranquillity, if, at any
time, it has unfortunately lost it; as well as the best
preservatives of that equal and happy temper, which is so
necessary to self-satisfaction and enjoyment. Men of retirement
and speculation, who are apt to sit brooding at home over either
grief or resentment, though they may often have more humanity,
more generosity, and a nicer sense of honour, yet seldom possess
that equality of temper which is so common among men of the
world.
Chap. V
Of the amiable and respectable virtues
Upon these two different efforts, upon that of the spectator
to enter into the sentiments of the person principally concerned,
and upon that of the person principally concerned, to bring down
his emotions to what the spectator can go along with, are founded
two different sets of virtues. The soft, the gentle, the amiable
virtues, the virtues of candid condescension and indulgent
humanity, are founded upon the one: the great, the awful and
respectable, the virtues of self-denial, of self-government, of
that command of the passions which subjects all the movements of
our nature to what our own dignity and honour, and the propriety
of our own conduct require, take their origin from the other.
How amiable does he appear to be, whose sympathetic heart
seems to reecho all the sentiments of those with whom he
converses, who grieves for their calamities, who resents their
injuries, and who rejoices at their good fortune! When we bring
home to ourselves the situation of his companions, we enter into
their gratitude, and feel what consolation they must derive from
the tender sympathy of so affectionate a friend. And for a
contrary reason, how disagreeable does he appear to be, whose
hard and obdurate heart feels for himself only, but is altogether
insensible to the happiness or misery of others! We enter, in
this case too, into the pain which his presence must give to
every mortal with whom he converses, to those especially with
whom we are most apt to sympathize, the unfortunate and the
injured.
On the other hand, what noble propriety and grace do we feel
in the conduct of those who, in their own case, exert that
recollection and self-command which constitute the dignity of
every passion, and which bring it down to what others can enter
into! We are disgusted with that clamorous grief, which, without
any delicacy, calls upon our compassion with sighs and tears and
importunate lamentations. But we reverence that reserved, that
silent and majestic sorrow, which discovers itself only in the
swelling of the eyes, in the quivering of the lips and cheeks,
and in the distant, but affecting, coldness of the whole
behaviour. It imposes the like silence upon us. We regard it with
respectful attention, and watch with anxious concern over our
whole behaviour, lest by any impropriety we should disturb that
concerted tranquillity, which it requires so great an effort to
support.
The insolence and brutality of anger, in the same manner,
when we indulge its fury without check or restraint, is, of all
objects, the most detestable. But we admire that noble and
generous resentment which governs its pursuit of the greatest
injuries, not by the rage which they are apt to excite in the
breast of the sufferer, but by the indignation which they
naturally call forth in that of the impartial spectator; which
allows no word, no gesture, to escape it beyond what this more
equitable sentiment would dictate; which never, even in thought,
attempts any greater vengeance, nor desires to inflict any
greater punishment, than what every indifferent person would
rejoice to see executed.
And hence it is, that to feel much for others and little for
ourselves, that to restrain our selfish, and to indulge our
benevolent affections, constitutes the perfection of human
nature; and can alone produce among mankind that harmony of
sentiments and passions in which consists their whole grace and
propriety. As to love our neighbour as we love ourselves is the
great law of Christianity, so it is the great precept of nature
to love ourselves only as we love our neighbour, or what comes to
the same thing, as our neighbour is capable of loving us.
As taste and good judgment, when they are considered as
qualities which deserve praise and admiration, are supposed to
imply a delicacy of sentiment and an acuteness of understanding
not commonly to be met with; so the virtues of sensibility and
self-command are not apprehended to consist in the ordinary, but
in the uncommon degrees of those qualities. The amiable virtue of
humanity requires, surely, a sensibility, much beyond what is
possessed by the rude vulgar of mankind. The great and exalted
virtue of magnanimity undoubtedly demands much more than that
degree of self-command, which the weakest of mortals is capable
of exerting. As in the common degree of the intellectual
qualities, there is no abilities; so in the common degree of the
moral, there is no virtue. Virtue is excellence, something
uncommonly great and beautiful, which rises far above what is
vulgar and ordinary. The amiable virtues consist in that degree
of sensibility which surprises by its exquisite and unexpected
delicacy and tenderness. The awful and respectable, in that
degree of self-command which astonishes by its amazing
superiority over the most ungovernable passions of human nature.
There is, in this respect, a considerable difference between
virtue and mere propriety; between those qualities and actions
which deserve to be admired and celebrated, and those which
simply deserve to be approved of. Upon many occasions, to act
with the most perfect propriety, requires no more than that
common and ordinary degree of sensibility or self-command which
the most worthless of mankind are possest of, and sometimes even
that degree is not necessary. Thus, to give a very low instance,
to eat when we are hungry, is certainly, upon ordinary occasions,
perfectly right and proper, and cannot miss being approved of as
such by every body. Nothing, however, could be more absurd than
to say it was virtuous.
On the contrary, there may frequently be a considerable
degree of virtue in those actions which fall short of the most
perfect propriety; because they may still approach nearer to
perfection than could well be expected upon occasions in which it
was so extremely difficult to attain it: and this is very often
the case upon those occasions which require the greatest
exertions of self-command. There are some situations which bear
so hard upon human nature, that the greatest degree of
self-government, which can belong to so imperfect a creature as
man, is not able to stifle, altogether, the voice of human
weakness, or reduce the violence of the passions to that pitch of
moderation, in which the impartial spectator can entirely enter
into them. Though in those cases, therefore, the behaviour of the
sufferer fall short of the most perfect propriety, it may still
deserve some applause, and even in a certain sense, may be
denominated virtuous. It may still manifest an effort of
generosity and magnanimity of which the greater part of men are
incapable; and though it fails of absolute perfection, it may be
a much nearer approximation towards perfection, than what, upon
such trying occasions, is commonly either to be found or to be
expected.
In cases of this kind, when we are determining the degree of
blame or applause which seems due to any action, we very
frequently make use of two different standards. The first is the
idea of complete propriety and perfection, which, in those
difficult situations, no human conduct ever did, or ever can
come, up to; and in comparison with which the actions of all men
must for ever appear blameable and imperfect. The second is the
idea of that degree of proximity or distance from this complete
perfection, which the actions of the greater part of men commonly
arrive at. Whatever goes beyond this degree, how far soever it
may be removed from absolute perfection, seems to deserve
applause; and whatever falls short of it, to deserve blame.
It is in the same manner that we judge of the productions of
all the arts which address themselves to the imagination. When a
critic examines the work of any of the great masters in poetry or
painting, he may sometimes examine it by an idea of perfection,
in his own mind, which neither that nor any other human work will
ever come up to; and as long as he compares it with this
standard, he can see nothing in it but faults and imperfections.
But when he comes to consider the rank which it ought to hold
among other works of the same kind, he necessarily compares it
with a very different standard, the common degree of excellence
which is usually attained in this particular art; and when he
judges of it by this new measure, it may often appear to deserve
the highest applause, upon account of its approaching much nearer
to perfection than the greater part of those works which can be
brought into competition with it.
Section II
Of the Degrees of the different Passions which are consistent
with Propriety
Introduction
The propriety of every passion excited by objects peculiarly
related to ourselves, the pitch which the spectator can go along
with, must lie, it is evident, in a certain mediocrity. If the
passion is too high, or if it is too low, he cannot enter into
it. Grief and resentment for private misfortunes and injuries may
easily, for example, be too high, and in the greater part of
mankind they are so. They may likewise, though this more rarely
happens, be too low. We denominate the excess, weakness and fury:
and we call the defect stupidity, insensibility, and want of
spirit. We can enter into neither of them, but are astonished and
confounded to see them.
This mediocrity, however, in which the point of propriety
consists, is different in different passions. It is high in some,
and low in others. There are some passions which it is indecent
to express very strongly, even upon those occasions, in which it
is acknowledged that we cannot avoid feeling them in the highest
degree. And there are others of which the strongest expressions
are upon many occasions extremely graceful, even though the
passions themselves do not, perhaps, arise so necessarily. The
first are those passions with which, for certain reasons, there
is little or no sympathy: the second are those with which, for
other reasons, there is the greatest. And if we consider all the
different passions of human nature, we shall find that they are
regarded as decent, or indecent, just in proportion as mankind
are more or less disposed to sympathize with them.
Chap. I
Of the Passions which take their origin from the body
1. It is indecent to express any strong degree of those
passions which arise from a certain situation or disposition of
the body; because the company, not being in the same disposition,
cannot be expected to sympathize with them. Violent hunger, for
example, though upon many occasions not only natural, but
unavoidable, is always indecent, and to eat voraciously is
universally regarded as a piece of ill manners. There is,
however, some degree of sympathy, even with hunger. It is
agreeable to see our companions eat with a good appetite, and all
expressions of loathing are offensive. The disposition of body
which is habitual to a man in health, makes his stomach easily
keep time, if I may be allowed so coarse an expression, with the
one, and not with the other. We can sympathize with the distress
it in the which excessive hunger occasions when we read the
description of journal of a siege, or of a sea voyage. We imagine
ourselves in the situation of the sufferers, and thence readily
conceive the grief, the fear and consternation, which must
necessarily distract them. We feel, ourselves, some degree of
those passions, and therefore sympathize with them: but as we do
not grow hungry by reading the description, we cannot properly,
even in this case, be said to sympathize with their hunger.
It is the same case with the passion by which Nature unites
the two sexes. Though naturally the most furious of all the
passions, all strong expressions of it are upon every occasion
indecent, even between persons in whom its most complete
indulgence is acknowledged by all laws, both human and divine, to
be perfectly innocent. There seems, however, to be some degree of
sympathy even with this passion. To talk to a woman as we would
to a man is improper: it is expected that their company should
inspire us with more gaiety, more pleasantry, and more attention;
and an intire insensibility to the fair sex, renders a man
contemptible in some measure even to the men.
Such is our aversion for all the appetites which take their
origin from the body: all strong expressions of them are
loathsome and disagreeable. According to some ancient
philosophers, these are the passions which we share in common
with the brutes, and which having no connexion with the
characteristical qualities of human nature, are upon that account
beneath its dignity. But there are many other passions which we
share in common with the brutes, such as resentment, natural
affection, even gratitude, which do not, upon that account,
appear to be so brutal. The true cause of the peculiar disgust
which we conceive for the appetites of the body when we see them
in other men, is that we cannot enter into them. To the person
himself who feels them, as soon as they are gratified, the object
that excited them ceases to be agreeable: even its presence often
becomes offensive to him; he looks round to no purpose for the
charm which transported him the moment before, and he can now as
little enter into his own passion as another person. When we have
dined, we order the covers to be removed; and we should treat in
the same manner the objects of the most ardent and passionate
desires, if they were the objects of no other passions but those
which take their origin from the body.
In the command of those appetites of the body consists that
virtue which is properly called temperance. To restrain them
within those bounds, which regard to health and fortune
prescribes, is the part of prudence. But to confine them within
those limits, which grace, which propriety, which delicacy, and
modesty require, is the office of temperance.
2. It is for the same reason that to cry out with bodily
pain, how intolerable soever, appears always unmanly and
unbecoming. There is, however, a good deal of sympathy even with
bodily pain. If, as has already been observed, I see a stroke
aimed, and just ready to fall upon the leg, or arm, of another
person, I naturally shrink and draw back my own leg, or my own
arm: and when it does fall, I feel it in some measure, and am
hurt by it as well as the sufferer. My hurt, however, is, no
doubt, excessively slight, and, upon that account, if he makes
any violent out-cry, as I cannot go along with him, I never fail
to despise him. And this is the case of all the passions which
take their origin from the body: they excite either no sympathy
at all, or such a degree of it, as is altogether disproportioned
to the violence of what is felt by the sufferer.
It is quite otherwise with those passions which take their
origin from the imagination. The frame of my body can be but
little affected by the alterations which are brought about upon
that of my companion: but my imagination is more ductile, and
more readily assumes, if I may say so, the shape and
configuration of the imaginations of those with whom I am
familiar. A disappointment in love, or ambition, will, upon this
account, call forth more sympathy than the greatest bodily evil.
Those passions arise altogether from the imagination. The person
who has lost his whole fortune, if he is in health, feels nothing
in his body. What he suffers is from the imagination only, which
represents to him the loss of his dignity, neglect from his
friends, contempt from his enemies, dependance, want, and misery,
coming fast upon him; and we sympathize with him more strongly
upon this account, because our imaginations can more readily
mould themselves upon his imagination, than our bodies can mould
themselves upon his body.
The loss of a leg may generally be regarded as a more real
calamity than the loss of a mistress. It would be a ridiculous
tragedy, however, of which the catastrophe was to turn upon a
loss of that kind. A misfortune of the other kind, how frivolous
soever it may appear to be, has given occasion to many a fine
one.
Nothing is so soon forgot as pain. The moment it is gone the
whole agony of it is over, and the thought of it can no longer
give us any sort of disturbance. We ourselves cannot then enter
into the anxiety and anguish which we had before conceived. An
unguarded word from a friend will occasion a more durable
uneasiness. The agony which this creates is by no means over with
the word. What at first disturbs us is not the object of the
senses, but the idea of the imagination. As it is an idea,
therefore, which occasions our uneasiness, till time and other
accidents have in some measure effaced it from our memory, the
imagination continues to fret and rankle within, from the thought
of it.
Pain never calls forth any very lively sympathy unless it is
accompanied with danger. We sympathize with the fear, though not
with the agony of the sufferer. Fear, however, is a passion
derived altogether from the imagination, which represents, with
an uncertainty and fluctuation that increases our anxiety, not
what we really feel, but what we may hereafter possibly suffer.
The gout or the tooth-ach, though exquisitely painful, excite
very little sympathy; more dangerous diseases, though accompanied
with very little pain, excite the highest.
Some people faint and grow sick at the sight of a chirurgical
operation, and that bodily pain which is occasioned by tearing
the flesh, seems, in them, to excite the most excessive sympathy.
We conceive in a much more lively and distinct manner the pain
which proceeds from an external cause, than we do that which
arises from an internal disorder. I can scarce form an idea of
the agonies of my neighbour when he is tortured with the gout, or
the stone; but I have the clearest conception of what he must
suffer from an incision, a wound, or a fracture. The chief cause,
however, why such objects produce such violent effects upon us,
is their novelty. One who has been witness to a dozen
dissections, and as many amputations, sees, ever after, all
operations of this kind with great indifference, and often with
perfect insensibility. Though we have read or seen represented
more than five hundred tragedies, we shall seldom feel so entire
an abatement of our sensibility to the objects which they
represent to us.
In some of the Greek tragedies there is an attempt to excite
compassion, by the representation of the agonies of bodily pain.
Philoctetes cries out and faints from the extremity of his
sufferings. Hippolytus and Hercules are both introduced as
expiring under the severest tortures, which, it seems, even the
fortitude of Hercules was incapable of supporting. In all these
cases, however, it is not the pain which interests us, but some
other circumstances. It is not the sore foot, but the solitude,
of Philoctetes which affects us, and diffuses over that charming
tragedy, that romantic wildness, which is so agreeable to the
imagination. The agonies of Hercules and Hippolytus are
interesting only because we foresee that death is to be the
consequence. If those heroes were to recover, we should think the
representation of their sufferings perfectly ridiculous. What a
tragedy would that be of which the distress consisted in a colic.
Yet no pain is more exquisite. These attempts to excite
compassion by the representation of bodily pain, may be regarded
as among the greatest breaches of decorum of which the Greek
theatre has set the example.
The little sympathy which we feel with bodily pain is the
foundation of the propriety of constancy and patience in enduring
it. The man, who under the severest tortures allows no weakness
to escape him, vents no groan, gives way to no passion which we
do not entirely enter into, commands our highest admiration. His
firmness enables him to keep time with our indifference and
insensibility. We admire and entirely go along with the
magnanimous effort which he makes for this purpose. We approve of
his behaviour, and from our experience of the common weakness of
human nature, we are surprised, and wonder how he should be able
to act so as to deserve approbation. Approbation, mixed and
animated by wonder and surprise, constitutes the sentiment which
is properly called admiration, of which, applause is the natural
expression, as has already been observed.
Chap. II
Of those Passions which take their origin from a particular turn
or habit of the Imagination
Even of the passions derived from the imagination, those
which take their origin from a peculiar turn or habit it has
acquired, though they may be acknowledged to be perfectly
natural, are, however, but little sympathized with. The
imaginations of mankind, not having acquired that particular
turn, cannot enter into them; and such passions, though they may
be allowed to be almost unavoidable in some part of life, are
always, in some measure, ridiculous. This is the case with that
strong attachment which naturally grows up between two persons of
different sexes, who have long fixed their thoughts upon one
another. Our imagination not having run in the same channel with
that of the lover, we cannot enter into the eagerness of his
emotions. If our friend has been injured, we readily sympathize
with his resentment, and grow angry with the very person with
whom he is angry. If he has received a benefit, we readily enter
into his gratitude, and have a very high sense of the merit of
his benefactor. But if he is in love, though we may think his
passion just as reasonable as any of the kind, yet we never think
ourselves bound to conceive a passion of the same kind, and for
the same person for whom he has conceived it. The passion appears
to every body, but the man who feels it, entirely disproportioned
to the value of the object; and love, though it is pardoned in a
certain age because we know it is natural, is always laughed at,
because we cannot enter into it. All serious and strong
expressions of it appear ridiculous to a third person; and though
a lover may be good company to his mistress, he is so to nobody
else. He himself is sensible of this; and as long as he continues
in his sober senses, endeavours to treat his own passion with
raillery and ridicule. It is the only style in which we care to
hear of it; because it is the only style in which we ourselves
are disposed to talk of it. We grow weary of the grave, pedantic,
and long-sentenced love of Cowley and Petrarca, who never have
done with exaggerating the violence of their attachments; but the
gaiety of Ovid, and the gallantry of Horace, are always
agreeable.
But though we feel no proper sympathy with an attachment of
this kind, though we never approach even in imagination towards
conceiving a passion for that particular person, yet as we either
have conceived, or may be disposed to conceive, passions of the
same kind, we readily enter into those high hopes of happiness
which are proposed from its gratification, as well as into that
exquisite distress which is feared from its disappointment. It
interests us not as a passion, but as a situation that gives
occasion to other passions which interest us; to hope, to fear,
and to distress of every kind: in the same manner as in a
description of a sea voyage, it is not the hunger which interests
us, but the distress which that hunger occasions. Though we do
not properly enter into the attachment of the lover, we readily
go along with those expectations of romantic happiness which he
derives from it. We feel how natural it is for the mind, in a
certain situation, relaxed with indolence, and fatigued with the
violence of desire, to long for serenity and quiet, to hope to
find them in the gratification of that passion which distracts
it, and to frame to itself the idea of that life of pastoral
tranquillity and retirement which the elegant, the tender, and
the passionate Tibullus takes so much pleasure in describing; a
life like what the poets describe in the Fortunate Islands, a
life of friendship, liberty, and repose; free from labour, and
from care, and from all the turbulent passions which attend them.
Even scenes of this kind interest us most, when they are painted
rather as what is hoped, than as what is enjoyed. The grossness
of that passion, which mixes with, and is, perhaps, the
foundation of love, disappears when its gratification is far off
and at a distance; but renders the whole offensive, when
described as what is immediately possessed. The happy passion,
upon this account, interests us much less than the fearful and
the melancholy. We tremble for whatever can disappoint such
natural and agreeable hopes: and thus enter into all the anxiety,
and concern, and distress of the lover.
Hence it is, that, in some modern tragedies and romances,
this passion appears so wonderfully interesting. It is not so
much the love of Castalio and Monimia which attaches us in the
Orphan, as the distress which that love occasions. The author who
should introduce two lovers, in a scene of perfect security,
expressing their mutual fondness for one another, would excite
laughter, and not sympathy. If a scene of this kind is ever
admitted into a tragedy, it is always, in some measure, improper,
and is endured, not from any sympathy with the passion that is
expressed in it, but from concern for the dangers and
difficulties with which the audience foresee that its
gratification is likely to be attended.
The reserve which the laws of society impose upon the fair
sex, with regard to this weakness, renders it more peculiarly
distressful in them, and, upon that very account, more deeply
interesting. We are charmed with the love of Phaedra, as it is
expressed in the French tragedy of that name, notwithstanding all
the extravagance and guilt which attend it. That very
extravagance and guilt may be said, in some measure, to recommend
it to us. Her fear, her shame, her remorse, her horror, her
despair, become thereby more natural and interesting. All the
secondary passions, if I may be allowed to call them so, which
arise from the situation of love, become necessarily more furious
and violent; and it is with these secondary passions only that we
can properly be said to sympathize.
Of all the passions, however, which are so extravagantly
disproportioned to the value of their objects, love is the only
one that appears, even to the weakest minds, to have any thing in
it that is either graceful or agreeable. In itself, first of all,
though it may be ridiculous, it is not naturally odious; and
though its consequences are often fatal and dreadful, its
intentions are seldom mischievous. And then, though there is
little propriety in the passion itself, there is a good deal in
some of those which always accompany it. There is in love a
strong mixture of humanity, generosity, kindness, friendship,
esteem; passions with which, of all others, for reasons which
shall be explained immediately, we have the greatest propensity
to sympathize, even notwithstanding we are sensible that they
are, in some measure, excessive. The sympathy which we feel with
them, renders the passion which they accompany less disagreeable,
and supports it in our imagination, notwithstanding all the vices
which commonly go along with it; though in the one sex it
necessarily leads to the last ruin and infamy; and though in the
other, where it is apprehended to be least fatal, it is almost
always attended with an incapacity for labour, a neglect of duty,
a contempt of fame, and even of common reputation.
Notwithstanding all this, the degree of sensibility and
generosity with which it is supposed to be accompanied, renders
it to many the object of vanity. and they are fond of appearing
capable of feeling what would do them no honour if they had
really felt it.
It is for a reason of the same kind, that a certain reserve
is necessary when we talk of our own friends, our own studies,
our own professions. All these are objects which we cannot expect
should interest our companions in the same degree in which they
interest us. And it is for want of this reserve, that the one
half of mankind make bad company to the other. A philosopher is
company to a philosopher, only. the member of a club, to his own
little knot of companions.
Chap. III
Of the unsocial Passions
There is another set of passions, which, though derived from
the imagination, yet before we can enter into them, or regard
them as graceful or becoming, must always be brought down to a
pitch much lower than that to which undisciplined nature would
raise them. These are, hatred and resentment, with all their
different modifications. With regard to all such passions, our
sympathy is divided between the person who feels them, and the
person who is the object of them. The interests of these two are
directly opposite. What our sympathy with the person who feels
them would prompt us to wish for, our fellow-feeling with the
other would lead us to fear. As they are both men, we are
concerned for both, and our fear for what the one may suffer,
damps our resentment for what the other has suffered. Our
sympathy, therefore, with the man who has received the
provocation, necessarily falls short of the passion which
naturally animates him, not only upon account of those general
causes which render all sympathetic passions inferior to the
original ones, but upon account of that particular cause which is
peculiar to itself, our opposite sympathy with another person.
Before resentment, therefore, can become graceful and agreeable,
it must be more humbled and brought down below that pitch to
which it would naturally rise, than almost any other passion.
Mankind, at the same time, have a very strong sense of the
injuries that are done to another. The villain, in a tragedy or
romance, is as much the object of our indignation, as the hero is
that of our sympathy and affection. We detest Iago as much as we
esteem Othello; and delight as much in the punishment of the one,
as we are grieved at the distress of the other. But though
mankind have so strong a fellow-feeling with the injuries that
are done to their brethren, they do not always resent them the
more that the sufferer appears to resent them. Upon most
occasions, the greater his patience, his mildness, his humanity,
provided it does not appear that he wants spirit, or that fear
was the motive of his forbearance, the higher their resentment
against the person who injured him. The amiableness of the
character exasperates their sense of the atrocity of the injury.
Those passions, however, are regarded as necessary parts of
the character of human nature. A person becomes contemptible who
tamely sits still, and submits to insults, without attempting
either to repel or to revenge them. We cannot enter into his
indifference and insensibility. we call his behaviour
mean-spiritedness, and are as really provoked by it as by the
insolence of his adversary. Even the mob are enraged to see any
man submit patiently to affronts and ill usage. They desire to
see this insolence resented, and resented by the person who
suffers from it. They cry to him with fury, to defend, or to
revenge himself. If his indignation rouses at last, they heartily
applaud, and sympathize with it. It enlivens their own
indignation against his enemy, whom they rejoice to see him
attack in his turn, and are as really gratified by his revenge,
provided it is not immoderate, as if the injury had been done to
themselves.
But though the utility of those passions to the individual,
by rendering it dangerous to insult or injure him, be
acknowledged; and though their utility to the public, as the
guardians of justice, and of the equality of its administration,
be not less considerable, as shall be shewn hereafter; yet there
is still something disagreeable in the passions themselves, which
makes the appearance of them in other men the natural object of
our aversion. The expression of anger towards any body present,
if it exceeds a bare intimation that we are sensible of his ill
usage, is regarded not only as an insult to that particular
person, but as a rudeness to the whole company. Respect for them
ought to have restrained us from giving way to so boisterous and
offensive an emotion. It is the remote effects of these passions
which are agreeable; the immediate effects are mischief to the
person against whom they are directed. But it is the immediate,
and not the remote effects of objects which render them agreeable
or disagreeable to the imagination. A prison is certainly more
useful to the public than a palace; and the person who founds the
one is generally directed by a much juster spirit of patriotism,
than he who builds the other. But the immediate effects of a
prison, the confinement of the wretches shut up in it, are
disagreeable; and the imagination either does not take time to
trace out the remote ones, or sees them at too great a distance
to be much affected by them. A prison, therefore, will always be
a disagreeable object; and the fitter it is for the purpose for
which it was intended, it will be the more so. A palace, on the
contrary, will always be agreeable; yet its remote effects may
often be inconvenient to the public. It may serve to promote
luxury, and set the example of the dissolution of manners. Its
immediate effects, however, the conveniency, the pleasure, and
the gaiety of the people who live in it, being all agreeable, and
suggesting to the imagination a thousand agreeable ideas, that
faculty generally rests upon them, and seldom goes further in
tracing its more distant consequences. Trophies of the
instruments of music or of agriculture, imitated in painting or
in stucco, make a common and an agreeable ornament of our halls
and dining-rooms. A trophy of the same kind, composed of the
instruments of surgery, of dissecting and amputation-knives, of
saws for cutting the bones, of trepanning instruments, etc. would
be absurd and shocking. Instruments of surgery, however, are
always more finely polished, and generally more nicely adapted to
the purposes for which they are intended, than instruments of
agriculture. The remote effects of them too, the health of the
patient, is agreeable; yet as the immediate effect of them is
pain and suffering, the sight of them always displeases us.
Instruments of war are agreeable, though their immediate effect
may seem to be in the same manner pain and suffering. But then it
is the pain and suffering of our enemies, with whom we have no
sympathy. With regard to us, they are immediately connected with
the agreeable ideas of courage, victory, and honour. They are
themselves, therefore, supposed to make one of the noblest parts
of dress, and the imitation of them one of the finest ornaments
of architecture. It is the same case with the qualities of the
mind. The ancient stoics were of opinion, that as the world was
governed by the all-ruling providence of a wise, powerful, and
good God, every single event ought to be regarded, as making a
necessary part of the plan of the universe, and as tending to
promote the general order and happiness of the whole: that the
vices and follies of mankind, therefore, made as necessary a part
of this plan as their wisdom or their virtue; and by that eternal
art which educes good from ill, were made to tend equally to the
prosperity and perfection of the great system of nature. No
speculation of this kind, however, how deeply soever it might be
rooted in the mind, could diminish our natural abhorrence for
vice, whose immediate effects are so destructive, and whose
remote ones are too distant to be traced by the imagination.
It is the same case with those passions we have been just now
considering. Their immediate effects are so disagreeable, that
even when they are most justly provoked, there is still something
about them which disgusts us. These, therefore, are the only
passions of which the expressions, as I formerly observed, do not
dispose and prepare us to sympathize with them, before we are
informed of the cause which excites them. The plaintive voice of
misery, when heard at a distance, will not allow us to be
indifferent about the person from whom it comes. As soon as it
strikes our ear, it interests us in his fortune, and, if
continued, forces us almost involuntarily to fly to his
assistance. The sight of a smiling countenance, in the same
manner, elevates even the pensive into that gay and airy mood,
which disposes him to sympathize with, and share the joy which it
expresses; and he feels his heart, which with thought and care
was before that shrunk and depressed, instantly expanded and
elated. But it is quite otherwise with the expressions of hatred
and resentment. The hoarse, boisterous, and discordant voice of
anger, when heard at a distance, inspires us either with fear or
aversion. We do not fly towards it, as to one who cries out with
pain and agony. Women, and men of weak nerves, tremble and are
overcome with fear, though sensible that themselves are not the
objects of the anger. They conceive fear, however, by putting
themselves in the situation of the person who is so. Even those
of stouter hearts are disturbed; not indeed enough to make them
afraid, but enough to make them angry; for anger is the passion
which they would feel in the situation of the other person. It is
the same case with hatred. Mere expressions of spite inspire it
against nobody, but the man who uses them. Both these passions
are by nature the objects of our aversion. Their disagreeable and
boisterous appearance never excites, never prepares, and often
disturbs our sympathy. Grief does not more powerfully engage and
attract us to the person in whom we observe it, than these, while
we are ignorant of their cause, disgust and detach us from him.
It was, it seems, the intention of Nature, that those rougher and
more unamiable emotions, which drive men from one another, should
be less easily and more rarely communicated.
When music imitates the modulations of grief or joy, it
either actually inspires us with those passions, or at least puts
us in the mood which disposes us to conceive them. But when it
imitates the notes of anger, it inspires us with fear. Joy,
grief, love, admiration, devotion, are all of them passions which
are naturally musical. Their natural tones are all soft, clear,
and melodious; and they naturally express themselves in periods
which are distinguished by regular pauses, and which upon that
account are easily adapted to the regular returns of the
correspondent airs of a tune. The voice of anger, on the
contrary, and of all the passions which are akin to it, is harsh
and discordant. Its periods too are all irregular, sometimes very
long, and sometimes very short, and distinguished by no regular
pauses. It is with difficulty, therefore, that music can imitate
any of those passions; and the music which does imitate them is
not the most agreeable. A whole entertainment may consist,
without any impropriety, of the imitation of the social and
agreeable passions. It would be a strange entertainment which
consisted altogether of the imitations of hatred and resentment.
If those passions are disagreeable to the spectator, they are
not less so to the person who feels them. Hatred and anger are
the greatest poison to the happiness of a good mind. There is, in
the very feeling of those passions, something harsh, jarring, and
convulsive, something that tears and distracts the breast, and is
altogether destructive of that composure and tranquillity of mind
which is so necessary to happiness, and which is best promoted by
the contrary passions of gratitude and love. It is not the value
of what they lose by the perfidy and ingratitude of those they
live with, which the generous and humane are most apt to regret.
Whatever they may have lost, they can generally be very happy
without it. What most disturbs them is the idea of perfidy and
ingratitude exercised towards themselves; and the discordant and
disagreeable passions which this excites, constitute, in their
own opinion, the chief part of the injury which they suffer.
How many things are requisite to render the gratification of
resentment completely agreeable, and to make the spectator
thoroughly sympathize with our revenge? The provocation must
first of all be such that we should become contemptible, and be
exposed to perpetual insults, if we did not, in some measure,
resent it. Smaller offences are always better neglected; nor is
there any thing more despicable than that froward and captious
humour which takes fire upon every slight occasion of quarrel. We
should resent more from a sense of the propriety of resentment,
from a sense that mankind expect and require it of us, than
because we feel in ourselves the furies of that disagreeable
passion. There is no passion, of which the human mind is capable,
concerning whose justness we ought to be so doubtful, concerning
whose indulgence we ought so carefully to consult our natural
sense of propriety, or so diligently to consider what will be the
sentiments of the cool and impartial spectator. Magnanimity, or a
regard to maintain our own rank and dignity in society, is the
only motive which can ennoble the expressions of this
disagreeable passion. This motive must characterize our whole
stile and deportment. These must be plain, open, and direct;
determined without positiveness, and elevated without insolence;
not only free from petulance and low scurrility, but generous,
candid, and full of all proper regards, even for the person who
has offended us. It must appear, in short, from our whole manner,
without our labouring affectedly to express it, that passion has
not extinguished our humanity; and that if we yield to the
dictates of revenge, it is with reluctance, from necessity, and
in consequence of great and repeated provocations. When
resentment is guarded and qualified in this manner, it may be
admitted to be even generous and noble.
Chap. IV
Of the social Passions
As it is a divided sympathy which renders the whole set of
passions just now mentioned, upon most occasions, so ungraceful
and disagreeable; so there is another set opposite to these,
which a redoubled sympathy renders almost always peculiarly
agreeable and becoming. Generosity, humanity, kindness,
compassion, mutual friendship and esteem, all the social and
benevolent affections, when expressed in the countenance or
behaviour, even towards those who are not peculiarly connected
with ourselves, please the indifferent spectator upon almost
every occasion. His sympathy with the person who feels those
passions, exactly coincides with his concern for the person who
is the object of them. The interest, which, as a man, he is
obliged to take in the happiness of this last, enlivens his
fellow-feeling with the sentiments of the other, whose emotions
are employed about the same object. We have always, therefore,
the strongest disposition to sympathize with the benevolent
affections. They appear in every respect agreeable to us. We
enter into the satisfaction both of the person who feels them,
and of the person who is the object of them. For as to be the
object of hatred and indignation gives more pain than all the
evil which a brave man can fear from his enemies; so there is a
satisfaction in the consciousness of being beloved, which, to a
person of delicacy and sensibility, is of more importance to
happiness, than all the advantage which he can expect to derive
from it. What character is so detestable as that of one who takes
pleasure to sow dissension among friends, and to turn their most
tender love into mortal hatred? Yet wherein does the atrocity of
this so much abhorred injury consist? Is it in depriving them of
the frivolous good offices, which, had their friendship
continued, they might have expected from one another? It is in
depriving them of that friendship itself, in robbing them of each
other's affections, from which both derived so much satisfaction;
it is in disturbing the harmony of their hearts, and putting an
end to that happy commerce which had before subsisted between
them. These affections, that harmony, this commerce, are felt,
not only by the tender and the delicate, but by the rudest vulgar
of mankind, to be of more importance to happiness than all the
little services which could be expected to flow from them.
The sentiment of love is, in itself, agreeable to the person
who feels it. It sooths and composes the breast, seems to favour
the vital motions, and to promote the healthful state of the
human constitution; and it is rendered still more delightful by
the consciousness of the gratitude and satisfaction which it must
excite in him who is the object of it. Their mutual regard
renders them happy in one another, and sympathy, with this mutual
regard, makes them agreeable to every other person. With what
pleasure do we look upon a family, through the whole of which
reign mutual love and esteem, where the parents and children are
companions for one another, without any other difference than
what is made by respectful affection on the one side, and kind
indulgence on the other. where freedom and fondness, mutual
raillery and mutual kindness, show that no opposition of interest
divides the brothers, nor any rivalship of favour sets the
sisters at variance, and where every thing presents us with the
idea of peace, cheerfulness, harmony, and contentment? On the
contrary, how uneasy are we made when we go into a house in which
jarring contention sets one half of those who dwell in it against
the other; where amidst affected smoothness and complaisance,
suspicious looks and sudden starts of passion betray the mutual
jealousies which burn within them, and which are every moment
ready to burst out through all the restraints which the presence
of the company imposes?
Those amiable passions, even when they are acknowledged to be
excessive, are never regarded with aversion. There is something
agreeable even in the weakness of friendship and humanity. The
too tender mother, the too indulgent father, the too generous and
affectionate friend, may sometimes, perhaps, on account of the
softness of their natures, be looked upon with a species of pity,
in which, however, there is a mixture of love, but can never be
regarded with hatred and aversion, nor even with contempt, unless
by the most brutal and worthless of mankind. It is always with
concern, with sympathy and kindness, that we blame them for the
extravagance of their attachment. There is a helplessness in the
character of extreme humanity which more than any thing interests
our pity. There is nothing in itself which renders it either
ungraceful or disagreeable. We only regret that it is unfit for
the world, because the world is unworthy of it, and because it
must expose the person who is endowed with it as a prey to the
perfidy and ingratitude of insinuating falsehood, and to a
thousand pains and uneasinesses, which, of all men, he the least
deserves to feel, and which generally too he is, of all men, the
least capable of supporting. It is quite otherwise with hatred
and resentment. Too violent a propensity to those detestable
passions, renders a person the object of universal dread and
abhorrence, who, like a wild beast, ought, we think, to be hunted
out of all civil society.
Chap. V
Of the selfish Passions
Besides those two opposite sets of passions, the social and
unsocial, there is another which holds a sort of middle place
between them; is never either so graceful as is sometimes the one
set, nor is ever so odious as is sometimes the other. Grief and
joy, when conceived upon account of our own private good or bad
fortune, constitute this third set of passions. Even when
excessive, they are never so disagreeable as excessive
resentment, because no opposite sympathy can ever interest us
against them: and when most suitable to their objects, they are
never so agreeable as impartial humanity and just benevolence;
because no double sympathy can ever interest us for them. There
is, however, this difference between grief and joy, that we are
generally most disposed to sympathize with small joys and great
sorrows. The man who, by some sudden revolution of fortune, is
lifted up all at once into a condition of life, greatly above
what he had formerly lived in, may be assured that the
congratulations of his best friends are not all of them perfectly
sincere. An upstart, though of the greatest merit, is generally
disagreeable, and a sentiment of envy commonly prevents us from
heartily sympathizing with his joy. If he has any judgment, he is
sensible of this, and instead of appearing to be elated with his
good fortune, he endeavours, as much as he can, to smother his
joy, and keep down that elevation of mind with which his new
circumstances naturally inspire him. He affects the same
plainness of dress, and the same modesty of behaviour, which
became him in his former station. He redoubles his attention to
his old friends, and endeavours more than ever to be humble,
assiduous, and complaisant. And this is the behaviour which in
his situation we most approve of; because we expect, it seems,
that he should have more sympathy with our envy and aversion to
his happiness, than we have with his happiness. It is seldom that
with all this he succeeds. We suspect the sincerity of his
humility, and he grows weary of this constraint. In a little
time, therefore, he generally leaves all his old friends behind
him, some of the meanest of them excepted, who may, perhaps,
condescend to become his dependents: nor does he always acquire
any new ones; the pride of his new connections is as much
affronted at finding him their equal, as that of his old ones had
been by his becoming their superior: and it requires the most
obstinate and persevering modesty to atone for this mortification
to either. He generally grows weary too soon, and is provoked, by
the sullen and suspicious pride of the one, and by the saucy
contempt of the other, to treat the first with neglect, and the
second with petulance, till at last he grows habitually insolent,
and forfeits the esteem of all. If the chief part of human
happiness arises from the consciousness of being beloved, as I
believe it does, those sudden changes of fortune seldom
contribute much to happiness. He is happiest who advances more
gradually to greatness, whom the public destines to every step of
his preferment long before he arrives at it, in whom, upon that
account, when it comes, it can excite no extravagant joy, and
with regard to whom it cannot reasonably create either any
jealousy in those he overtakes, or any envy in those he leaves
behind.
Mankind, however, more readily sympathize with those smaller
joys which flow from less important causes. It is decent to be
humble amidst great prosperity; but we can scarce express too
much satisfaction in all the little occurrences of common life,
in the company with which we spent the evening last night, in the
entertainment that was set before us, in what was said and what
was done, in all the little incidents of the present
conversation, and in all those frivolous nothings which fill up
the void of human life. Nothing is more graceful than habitual
cheerfulness, which is always founded upon a peculiar relish for
all the little pleasures which common occurrences afford. We
readily sympathize with it: it inspires us with the same joy, and
makes every trifle turn up to us in the same agreeable aspect in
which it presents itself to the person endowed with this happy
disposition. Hence it is that youth, the season of gaiety, so
easily engages our affections. That propensity to joy which seems
even to animate the bloom, and to sparkle from the eyes of youth
and beauty, though in a person of the same sex, exalts, even the
aged, to a more joyous mood than ordinary. They forget, for a
time, their infirmities, and abandon themselves to those
agreeable ideas and emotions to which they have long been
strangers, but which, when the presence of so much happiness
recalls them to their breast, take their place there, like old
acquaintance, from whom they are sorry to have ever been parted,
and whom they embrace more heartily upon account of this long
separation.
It is quite otherwise with grief. Small vexations excite no
sympathy, but deep affliction calls forth the greatest. The man
who is made uneasy by every little disagreeable incident, who is
hurt if either the cook or the butler have failed in the least
article of their duty, who feels every defect in the highest
ceremonial of politeness, whether it be shewn to himself or to
any other person, who takes it amiss that his intimate friend did
not bid him good-morrow when they met in the forenoon, and that
his brother hummed a tune all the time he himself was telling a
story; who is put out of humour by the badness of the weather
when in the country, by the badness of the roads when upon a
journey, and by the want of company, and dulness of all public
diversions when in town; such a person, I say, though he should
have some reason, will seldom meet with much sympathy. Joy is a
pleasant emotion, and we gladly abandon ourselves to it upon the
slightest occasion. We readily, therefore, sympathize with it in
others, whenever we are not prejudiced by envy. But grief is
painful, and the mind, even when it is our own misfortune,
naturally resists and recoils from it. We would endeavour either
not to conceive it at all, or to shake it off as soon as we have
conceived it. Our aversion to grief will not, indeed, always
hinder us from conceiving it in our own case upon very trifling
occasions, but it constantly prevents us from sympathizing with
it in others when excited by the like frivolous causes: for our
sympathetic passions are always less irresistible than our
original ones. There is, besides, a malice in mankind, which not
only prevents all sympathy with little uneasinesses, but renders
them in some measure diverting. Hence the delight which we all
take in raillery, and in the small vexation which we observe in
our companion, when he is pushed, and urged, and teased upon all
sides. Men of the most ordinary good-breeding dissemble the pain
which any little incident may give them; and those who are more
thoroughly formed to society, turn, of their own accord, all such
incidents into raillery, as they know their companions will do
for them. The habit which a man, who lives in the world, has
acquired of considering how every thing that concerns himself
will appear to others, makes those frivolous calamities turn up
in the same ridiculous light to him, in which he knows they will
certainly be considered by them.
Our sympathy, on the contrary, with deep distress, is very
strong and very sincere. It is unnecessary to give an instance.
We weep even at the feigned representation of a tragedy. If you
labour, therefore, under any signal calamity, if by some
extraordinary misfortune you are fallen into poverty, into
diseases, into disgrace and disappointment; even though your own
fault may have been, in part, the occasion, yet you may generally
depend upon the sincerest sympathy of all your friends, and, as
far as interest and honour will permit, upon their kindest
assistance too. But if your misfortune is not of this dreadful
kind, if you have only been a little baulked in your ambition, if
you have only been jilted by your mistress, or are only
hen-pecked by your wife, lay your account with the raillery of
all your acquaintance.
Section III
Of the Effects of Prosperity and Adversity upon the Judgment of
Mankind with regard to the Propriety of Action; and why it is
more easy to obtain their Approbation in the one state than in the
other
Chap. I
That though our sympathy with sorrow is generally a more lively
sensation than our sympathy with joy, it commonly falls much more
short of the violence of what is naturally felt by the person
principally concerned
Our sympathy with sorrow, though not more real, has been more
taken notice of than our sympathy with joy. The word sympathy, in
its most proper and primitive signification, denotes our
fellow-feeling with the sufferings, not that with the enjoyments,
of others. A late ingenious and subtile philosopher thought it
necessary to prove, by arguments, that we had a real sympathy
with joy, and that congratulation was a principle of human
nature. Nobody, I believe, ever thought it necessary to prove
that compassion was such.
First of all, our sympathy with sorrow is, in some sense,
more universal than that with joy. Though sorrow is excessive, we
may still have some fellow-feeling with it. What we feel does
not, indeed, in this case, amount to that complete sympathy, to
that perfect harmony and correspondence of sentiments which
constitutes approbation. We do not weep, and exclaim, and lament,
with the sufferer. We are sensible, on the contrary, of his weak
ness and of the extravagance of his passion, and yet often feel a
very sensible concern upon his account. But if we do not entirely
enter into, and go along with, the joy of another, we have no
sort of regard or fellow-feeling for it. The man who skips and
dances about with that intemperate and senseless joy which we
cannot accompany him in, is the object of our contempt and
indignation.
Pain besides, whether of mind or body, is a more pungent
sensation than pleasure, and our sympathy with pain, though it
falls greatly short of what is naturally felt by the sufferer, is
generally a more lively and distinct perception than our sympathy
with pleasure, though this last often approaches more nearly, as
I shall shew immediately, to the natural vivacity of the original
passion.
Over and above all this, we often struggle to keep down our
sympathy with the sorrow of others. Whenever we are not under the
observation of the sufferer, we endeavour, for our own sake, to
suppress it as much as we can, and we are not always successful.
The opposition which we make to it, and the reluctance with which
we yield to it, necessarily oblige us to take more particular
notice of it. But we never have occasion to make this opposition
to our sympathy with joy. If there is any envy in the case, we
never feel the least propensity towards it; and if there is none,
we give way to it without any reluctance. On the contrary, as we
are always ashamed of our own envy, we often pretend, and
sometimes really wish to sympathize with the joy of others, when
by that disagreeable sentiment we are disqualified from doing so.
We are glad, we say on account of our neighbour's good fortune,
when in our hearts, perhaps, we are really sorry. We often feel a
sympathy with sorrow when we would wish to be rid of it; and we
often miss that with joy when we would be glad to have it. The
obvious observation, therefore, which it naturally falls in our
way to make, is, that our propensity to sympathize with sorrow
must be very strong, and our inclination to sympathize with joy
very weak.
Notwithstanding this prejudice, however, I will venture to
affirm, that, when there is no envy in the case, our propensity
to sympathize with joy is much stronger than our propensity to
sympathize with sorrow; and that our fellow-feeling for the
agreeable emotion approaches much more nearly to the vivacity of
what is naturally felt by the persons principally concerned, than
that which we conceive for the painful one.
We have some indulgence for that excessive grief which we
cannot entirely go along with. We know what a prodigious effort
is requisite before the sufferer can bring down his emotions. to
complete harmony and concord with those of the spectator. Though
he fails, therefore, we easily pardon him. But we have no such
indulgence for the intemperance of joy; because we are not
conscious that any such vast effort is requisite to bring it down
to what we can entirely enter into. The man who, under the
greatest calamities, can command his sorrow, seems worthy of the
highest admiration; but he who, in the fulness of prosperity, can
in the same manner master his joy, seems hardly to deserve any
praise. We are sensible that there is a much wider interval in
the one case than in the other, between what is naturally felt by
the person principally concerned, and what the spectator can
entirely go along with.
What can he added to the happiness of the man who is in
health, who is out of debt, and has a clear conscience? To one in
this situation, all accessions of fortune may properly be said to
be superfluous; and if he is much elevated upon account of them,
it must be the effect of the most frivolous levity. This
situation, however, may very well be called the natural and
ordinary state of mankind. Notwithstanding the present misery and
depravity of the world, so justly lamented, this really is the
state of the greater part of men. The greater part of men,
therefore, cannot find any great difficulty in elevating
themselves to all the joy which any accession to this situation
can well excite in their companion.
But though little can be added to this state, much may be
taken from it. Though between this condition and the highest
pitch of human prosperity, the interval is but a trifle; between
it and the lowest depth of misery the distance is immense and
prodigious. Adversity, on this account, necessarily depresses the
mind of the sufferer much more below its natural state, than
prosperity can elevate him above it. The spectator therefore,
must find it much more difficult to sympathize entirely, and keep
perfect time, with his sorrow, than thoroughly to enter into his
joy, and must depart much further from his own natural and
ordinary temper of mind in the one case than in the other. It is
on this account, that though our sympathy with sorrow is often a
more pungent sensation than our sympathy with joy, it always
falls much more short of the violence of what is naturally felt
by the person principally concerned.
It is agreeable to sympathize with, joy; and wherever envy
does not oppose it, our heart abandons itself with satisfaction
to the highest transports of that delightful sentiment. But it is
painful to go along with grief, and we always enter into it with
reluctance.(*) When we attend to the representation of a tragedy,
we struggle against that sympathetic sorrow which the
entertainment inspires as long as we can, and we give way to it
at last only when we can no longer avoid it: we even then
endeavour to cover our concern from the company. If we shed any
tears, we carefully conceal them, and are afraid, lest the
spectators, not entering into this excessive tenderness, should
regard it as effeminacy and weakness. The wretch whose
misfortunes call upon our compassion feels with what reluctance
we are likely to enter into his sorrow, and therefore proposes
his grief to us with fear and hesitation: he even smothers the
half of it, and is ashamed, upon account of this hard-heartedness
of mankind, to give vent to the fulness of his affliction. It is
otherwise with the man who riots in joy and success. Wherever
envy does not interest us against him, he expects our completest
sympathy. He does not fear, therefore, to announce himself with
shouts of exultation, in full confidence that we are heartily
disposed to go along with him.
Why should we be more ashamed to weep than to laugh before
company? We may often have as real occasion to do the one as to
do the other. but we always feel that the spectators are more
likely to go along with us in the agreeable, than in the painful
emotion. It is always miserable to complain, even when we are
oppressed by the most dreadful calamities. But the triumph of
victory is not always ungraceful. Prudence, indeed, would often
advise us to bear our prosperity with more moderation; because
prudence would teach us to avoid that envy which this very
triumph is, more than any thing, apt to excite.
How hearty are the acclamations of the mob, who never bear
any envy to their superiors, at a triumph or a public entry? And
how sedate and moderate is commonly their grief at an execution?
Our sorrow at a funeral generally amounts to no more than an
affected gravity. but our mirth at a christening or a marriage,
is always from the heart, and without any affectation. Upon
these, and all such joyous occasions, our satisfaction, though
not so durable, is often as lively as that of the persons
principally concerned. Whenever we cordially congratulate our
friends, which, however, to the disgrace of human nature, we do
but seldom, their joy literally becomes our joy. we are, for the
moment, as happy as they are: our heart swells and overflows with
real pleasure: joy and complacency sparkle from our eyes, and
animate every feature of our countenance, and every gesture of
our body.
But, on the contrary, when we condole with our friends in
their afflictions, how little do we feel, in comparison of what
they feel? We sit down by them, we look at them, and while they
relate to us the circumstances of their misfortune, we listen to
them with gravity and attention. But while their narration is
every moment interrupted by those natural bursts of passion which
often seem almost to choak them in the midst of it; how far are
the languid emotions of our hearts from keeping time to the
transports of theirs? We may be sensible, at the same time, that
their passion is natural, and no greater than what we ourselves
might feel upon the like occasion. We may even inwardly reproach
ourselves with our own want of sensibility, and perhaps, on that
account, work ourselves up into an artificial sympathy, which,
however, when it is raised, is always the slightest and most
transitory imaginable; and generally, as soon as we have left the
room, vanishes, and is gone for ever. Nature, it seems, when she
loaded us with our own sorrows, thought that they were enough,
and therefore did not command us to take any further share in
those of others, than what was necessary to prompt us to relieve
them.
It is on account of this dull sensibility to the afflictions
of others, that magnanimity amidst great distress appears always
so divinely graceful. His behaviour is genteel and agreeable who
can maintain his cheerfulness amidst a number of frivolous
disasters. But he appears to be more than mortal who can support
in the same manner the most dreadful calamities. We feel what an
immense effort is requisite to silence those violent emotions
which naturally agitate and distract those in his situation. We
are amazed to find that he can command himself so entirely. His
firmness, at the same time, perfectly coincides with our
insensibility. He makes no demand upon us for that more exquisite
degree of sensibility which we find, and which we are mortified
to find, that we do not possess. There is the most perfect
correspondence between his sentiments and ours, and on that
account the most perfect propriety in his behaviour. It is a
propriety too, which, from our experience of the usual weakness
of human nature, we could not reasonably have expected he should
be able to maintain. We wonder with surprise and astonishment at
that strength of mind which is capable of so noble and generous
an effort. The sentiment of complete sympathy and approbation,
mixed and animated with wonder and surprise, constitutes what is
properly called admiration, as has already been more than once
taken notice of Cato, surrounded on all sides by his enemies,
unable to resist them, disdaining to submit to them, and reduced,
by the proud maxims of that age, to the necessity of destroying
himself; yet never shrinking from his misfortunes, never
supplicating with the lamentable voice of wretchedness, those
miserable sympathetic tears which we are always so unwilling to
give; but on the contrary, arming himself with manly fortitude,
and the moment before he executes his fatal resolution, giving,
with his usual tranquillity, all necessary orders for the safety
of his friends; appears to Seneca, that great preacher of
insensibility, a spectacle which even the gods themselves might
behold with pleasure and admiration.
Whenever we meet, in common life, with any examples of such
heroic magnanimity, we are always extremely affected. We are more
apt to weep and shed tears for such as, in this manner, seem to
feel nothing for them. and in selves, than for those who give way
to all the weakness of sorrow: this particular case, the
sympathetic grief of the spectator appears to go beyond the
original passion in the person principally concerned. The friends
of Socrates all wept when he drank the last potion, while he
himself expressed the gayest and most cheerful tranquillity. Upon
all such occasions the spectator makes no effort, and has no
occasion to make any, in order to conquer his sympathetic sorrow.
He is under no fear that it will transport him to any thing that
is extravagant and improper; he is rather pleased with the
sensibility of his own heart, and gives way to it with
complacence and self-approbation. He gladly indulges, therefore,
the most melancholy views which can naturally occur to him,
concerning the calamity of his friend, for whom, perhaps, he
never felt so exquisitely before, the tender and tearful passion
of love. But it is quite otherwise with the person principally
concerned. He is obliged, as much as possible, to turn away his
eyes from whatever is either naturally terrible or disagreeable
in his situation. Too serious an attention to those
circumstances, he fears, might make so violent an impression upon
him, that he could no longer keep within the bounds of
moderation, or render himself the object of the complete sympathy
and approbation of the spectators. He fixes his thoughts,
therefore, upon those only which are agreeable, the applause and
admiration which he is about to deserve by the heroic magnanimity
of his behaviour. To feel that he is capable of so noble and
generous an effort, to feel that in this dreadful situation he
can still act as he would desire to act, animates and transports
him with joy, and enables him to support that triumphant gaiety
which seems to exult in the victory he thus gains over his
misfortunes.
On the contrary, he always appears, in some measure, mean and
despicable, who is sunk in sorrow and dejection upon account of
any calamity of his own. We cannot bring ourselves to feel for
him what he feels for himself, and what, perhaps, we should feel
for ourselves if in his situation: we, therefore, despise him;
unjustly, perhaps, if any sentiment could be regarded as unjust,
to which we are by nature irresistibly determined. The weakness
of sorrow never appears in any respect agreeable, except when it
arises from what we feel for others more than from what we feel
for ourselves. A son, upon the death of an indulgent and
respectable father, may give way to it without much blame. His
sorrow is chiefly founded upon a sort of sympathy with his
departed parent and we readily enter into this humane emotion.
But if he should indulge the same weakness upon account of any
misfortune which affected himself only, he would no longer meet
with any such indulgence. If he should be reduced to beggary and
ruin, if he should be exposed to the most dreadful dangers, if he
should even be led out to a public execution, and there shed one
single tear upon the scaffold, he would disgrace himself for ever
in the opinion of all the gallant and generous part of mankind.
Their compassion for him, however, would be very strong, and very
sincere; but as it would still fall short of this excessive
weakness, they would have no pardon for the man who could thus
expose himself in the eyes of the world. His behaviour would
affect them with shame rather than with sorrow; and the dishonour
which he had thus brought upon himself would appear to them the
most lamentable circumstance in his misfortune. How did it
disgrace the memory of the intrepid Duke of Biron, who had so
often braved death in the field, that he wept upon the scaffold,
when he beheld the state to which he was fallen, and remembered
the favour and the glory from which his own rashness had so
unfortunately thrown him!
Chap. II
Of the origin of Ambition, and of the distinction of Ranks
It is because mankind are disposed to sympathize more
entirely with our joy than with our sorrow, that we make parade
of our riches, and conceal our poverty. Nothing is so mortifying
as to be obliged to expose our distress to the view of the
public, and to feel, that though our situation is open to the
eyes of all mankind, no mortal conceives for us the half of what
we suffer. Nay, it is chiefly from this regard to the sentiments
of mankind, that we pursue riches and avoid poverty. For to what
purpose is all the toil and bustle of this world? what is the end
of avarice and ambition, of the pursuit of wealth, of power, and
preheminence? Is it to supply the necessities of nature? The
wages of the meanest labourer can supply them. We see that they
afford him food and clothing, the comfort of a house, and of a
family. If we examined his oeconomy with rigour, we should find
that he spends a great part of them upon conveniencies, which may
be regarded as superfluities, and that, upon extraordinary
occasions, he can give something even to vanity and distinction.
What then is the cause of our aversion to his situation, and why
should those who have been educated in the higher ranks of life,
regard it as worse than death, to be reduced to live, even
without labour, upon the same simple fare with him, to dwell
under the same lowly roof, and to be clothed in the same humble.
attire? Do they imagine that their stomach is better, or their
sleep sounder in a palace than in a cottage? The contrary has
been so often observed, and, indeed, is so very obvious, though
it had never been observed, that there is nobody ignorant of it.
From whence, then, arises that emulation which runs through all
the different ranks of men, and what are the advantages which we
propose by that great purpose of human life which we call
bettering our condition? To be observed, to be attended to, to be
taken notice of with sympathy, complacency, and approbation, are
all the advantages which we can propose to derive from it. It is
the vanity, not the ease, or the pleasure, which interests us.
But vanity is always founded upon the belief of our being the
object of attention and approbation. The rich man glories in his
riches, because he feels that they naturally draw upon him the
attention of the world, and that mankind are disposed to go along
with him in all those agreeable emotions with which the
advantages of his situation so readily inspire him. At the
thought of this, his heart seems to swell and dilate itself
within him, and he is fonder of his wealth, upon this account,
than for all the other advantages it procures him. The poor man,
on the contrary, is ashamed of his poverty. He feels that it
either places him out of the sight of mankind, or, that if they
take any notice of him, they have, however, scarce any
fellow-feeling with the misery and distress which he suffers. He
is mortified upon both accounts. for though to be overlooked, and
to be disapproved of, are things entirely different, yet as
obscurity covers us from the daylight of honour and approbation,
to feel that we are taken no notice of, necessarily damps the
most agreeable hope, and disappoints the most ardent desire, of
human nature. The poor man goes out and comes in unheeded, and
when in the midst of a crowd is in the same obscurity as if shut
up in his own hovel. Those humble cares and painful attentions
which occupy those in his situation, afford no amusement to the
dissipated and the gay. They turn away their eyes from him, or if
the extremity of his distress forces them to look at him, it is
only to spurn so disagreeable an object from among them. The
fortunate and the proud wonder at the insolence of human
wretchedness, that it should dare to present itself before them,
and with the loathsome aspect of its misery presume to disturb
the serenity of their happiness. The man of rank and distinction,
on the contrary, is observed by all the world. Every body is
eager to look at him, and to conceive, at least by sympathy, that
joy and exultation with which his circumstances naturally inspire
him. His actions are the objects of the public care. Scarce a
word, scarce a gesture, can fall from him that is altogether
neglected. In a great assembly he is the person upon whom all
direct their eyes; it is upon him that their passions seem all to
wait with expectation, in order to receive that movement and
direction which he shall impress upon them; and if his behaviour
is not altogether absurd, he has, every moment, an opportunity of
interesting mankind, and of rendering himself the object of the
observation and fellow-feeling of every body about him. It is
this, which, notwithstanding the restraint it imposes,
notwithstanding the loss of liberty with which it is attended,
renders greatness the object of envy, and compensates, in the
opinion of all those mortifications which must mankind, all that
toil, all that anxiety, be undergone in the pursuit of it; and
what is of yet more consequence, all that leisure, all that ease,
all that careless security, which are forfeited for ever by the
acquisition.
When we consider the condition of the great, in those
delusive colours in which the imagination is apt to paint it. it
seems to be almost the abstract idea of a perfect and happy
state. It is the very state which, in all our waking dreams and
idle reveries, we had sketched out to ourselves as the final
object of all our desires. We feel, therefore, a peculiar
sympathy with the satisfaction of those who are in it. We favour
all their inclinations, and forward all their wishes. What pity,
we think, that any thing should spoil and corrupt so agreeable a
situation! We could even wish them immortal; and it seems hard to
us, that death should at last put an end to such perfect
enjoyment. It is cruel, we think, in Nature to compel them from
their exalted stations to that humble, but hospitable home, which
she has provided for all her children. Great King, live for ever!
is the compliment, which, after the manner of eastern adulation,
we should readily make them, if experience did not teach us its
absurdity. Every calamity that befals them, every injury that is
done them, excites in the breast of the spectator ten times more
compassion and resentment than he would have felt, had the same
things happened to other men. It is the misfortunes of Kings only
which afford the proper subjects for tragedy. They resemble, in
this respect, the misfortunes of lovers. Those two situations are
the chief which interest us upon the theatre; because, in spite
of all that reason and experience can tell us to the contrary,
the prejudices of the imagination attach to these two states a
happiness superior to any other. To disturb, or to put an end to
such perfect enjoyment, seems to be the most atrocious of all
injuries. The traitor who conspires against the life of his
monarch, is thought a greater monster than any other murderer.
All the innocent blood that was shed in the civil wars, provoked
less indignation than the death of Charles I. A stranger to human
nature, who saw the indifference of men about the misery of their
inferiors, and the regret and indignation which they feel for the
misfortunes and sufferings of those above them, would be apt to
imagine, that pain must be more agonizing, and the convulsions of
death more terrible to persons of higher rank, than to those of
meaner stations.
Upon this disposition of mankind, to go along with all the
passions of the rich and the powerful, is founded the distinction
of ranks, and the order of society. Our obsequiousness to our
superiors more frequently arises from our admiration for the
advantages of their situation, than from any private expectations
of benefit from their good-will. Their benefits can extend but to
a few, but their fortunes interest almost every body. We are
eager to assist them in completing a system of happiness that
approaches so near to perfection; and we desire to serve them for
their own sake, without any other recompense but the vanity or
the honour of obliging them. Neither is our deference to their
inclinations founded chiefly, or altogether, upon a regard to the
utility of such submission, and to the order of society, which is
best supported by it. Even when the order of society seems to
require that we should oppose them, we can hardly bring ourselves
to do it. That kings are the servants of the people, to be
obeyed, resisted, deposed, or punished, as the public conveniency
may require, is the doctrine of reason and philosophy; but it is
not the doctrine of Nature. Nature would teach us to submit to
them for their own sake, to tremble and bow down before their
exalted station, to regard their smile as a reward sufficient to
compensate any services, and to dread their displeasure, though
no other evil were to follow from it, as the severest of all
mortifications. To treat them in any respect as men, to reason
and dispute with them upon ordinary occasions, requires such
resolution, that there are few men whose magnanimity can support
them in it, unless they are likewise assisted by familiarity and
acquaintance. The strongest motives, the most furious passions,
fear, hatred, and resentment, are scarce sufficient to balance
this natural disposition to respect them: and their conduct must,
either justly or unjustly, have excited the highest degree of all
those passions, before the bulk of the people can be brought to
oppose them with violence, or to desire to see them either
punished or deposed. Even when the people have been brought this
length, they are apt to relent every moment, and easily relapse
into their habitual state of deference to those whom they have
been accustomed to look upon as their natural superiors. They
cannot stand the mortification of their monarch. Compassion soon
takes the place of resentment, they forget all past provocations,
their old principles of loyalty revive, and they run to
re-establish the ruined authority of their old masters, with the
same violence with which they had opposed it. The death of
Charles I. brought about the Restoration of the royal family.
Compassion for James II. when he was seized by the populace in
making his escape on ship-board, had almost prevented the
Revolution, and made it go on more heavily than before.
Do the great seem insensible of the easy price at which they
may acquire the public admiration; or do they seem to imagine
that to them, as to other men, it must be the purchase either of
sweat or of blood? By what important accomplishments is the young
nobleman instructed to support the dignity of his rank, and to
render himself worthy of that superiority over his
fellow-citizens, to which the virtue of his ancestors had raised
them? Is it by knowledge, by industry, by patience, by
self-denial, or by virtue of any kind? As all his words, as all
his motions are attended to, he learns an habitual regard to
every circumstance of ordinary behaviour, and studies to perform
all those small duties with the most exact propriety. As he is
conscious how much he is observed, and how much mankind are
disposed to favour all his inclinations, he acts, upon the most
indifferent occasions, with that freedom and elevation which the
thought of this naturally inspires. His air, his manner, his
deportment, all mark that elegant and graceful sense of his own
superiority, which those who are born to inferior stations can
hardly ever arrive at. These are the arts by which he proposes to
make mankind more easily submit to his authority, and to govern
their inclinations according to his own pleasure: and in this he
is seldom disappointed. These arts, supported by rank and
preheminence, are, upon ordinary occasions, sufficient to govern
the world. Lewis XIV. during the greater part of his reign, was
regarded, not only in France, but over all Europe, as the most
perfect model of a great prince. But what were the talents and
virtues by which he acquired this great reputation? Was it by the
scrupulous and inflexible justice of all his undertakings, by the
immense dangers and difficulties with which they were attended,
or by the unwearied and unrelenting application with which he
pursued them? Was it by his extensive knowledge, by his exquisite
judgment, or by his heroic valour? It was by none of these
qualities. But he was, first of all, the most powerful prince in
Europe, and consequently held the highest rank among kings; and
then, says his historian, 'he surpassed all his courtiers in the
gracefulness of his shape, and the majestic beauty of his
features. The sound of his voice, noble and affecting, gained
those hearts which his presence intimidated. He had a step and a
deportment which could suit only him and his rank, and which
would have been ridiculous in any other person. The embarrassment
which he occasioned to those who spoke to him, flattered that
secret satisfaction with which he felt his own superiority. The
old officer, who was confounded and faultered in asking him a
favour, and not being able to conclude his discourse, said to
him: Sir, your majesty, I hope, will believe that I do not
tremble thus before your enemies: had no difficulty to obtain
what he demanded.' These frivolous accomplishments, supported by
his rank, and, no doubt too, by a degree of other talents and
virtues, which seems, however, not to have been much above
mediocrity, established this prince in the esteem of his own age,
and have drawn, even from posterity, a good deal of respect for
his memory. Compared with these, in his own times, and in his own
presence, no other virtue, it seems, appeared to have any merit.
Knowledge, industry, valour, and beneficence, trembled, were
abashed, and lost all dignity before them.
But it is not by accomplishments of this kind, that the man
of inferior rank must hope to distinguish himself. Politeness is
so much the virtue of the great, that it will do little honour to
any body but themselves. The coxcomb, who imitates their manner,
and affects to be eminent by the superior propriety of his
ordinary behaviour, is rewarded with a double share of contempt
for his folly and presumption. Why should the man, whom nobody
thinks it worth while to look at, be very anxious about the
manner in which he holds up his head, or disposes of his arms
while he walks through a room? He is occupied surely with a very
superfluous attention, and with an attention too that marks a
sense of his own importance, which no other mortal can go along
with. The most perfect modesty and plainness, joined to as much
negligence as is consistent with the respect due to the company,
ought to be the chief characteristics of the behaviour of a
private man. If ever he hopes to distinguish himself, it must be
by more important virtues. He must acquire dependants to balance
the dependants of the great, and he has no other fund to pay them
from, but the labour of his body, and the activity of his mind.
He must cultivate these therefore: he must acquire superior
knowledge in his profession, and superior industry in the
exercise of it. He must be patient in labour, resolute in danger,
and firm in distress. These talents he must bring into public
view, by the difficulty, importance, and, at the same time, good
judgment of his undertakings, and by the severe and unrelenting
application with which he pursues them. Probity and prudence,
generosity and frankness, must characterize his behaviour upon
all ordinary occasions; and he must, at the same time, be forward
to engage in all those situations, in which it requires the
greatest talents and virtues to act with propriety, but in which
the greatest applause is to be acquired by those who can acquit
themselves with honour. With what impatience does the man of
spirit and ambition, who is depressed by his situation, look
round for some great opportunity to distinguish himself? No
circumstances, which can afford this, appear to him undesirable.
He even looks forward with satisfaction to the prospect of
foreign war, or civil dissension; and, with secret transport and
delight, sees through all the confusion and bloodshed which
attend them, the probability of those wished-for occasions
presenting themselves, in which he may draw upon himself the
attention and admiration of mankind. The man of rank and
distinction, on the contrary, whose whole glory consists in the
propriety of his ordinary behaviour, who is contented with the
humble renown which this can afford him, and has no talents to
acquire any other, is unwilling to embarrass himself with what
can be attended either with difficulty or distress. To figure at
a ball is his great triumph, and to succeed in an intrigue of
gallantry, his highest exploit. He has an aversion to all public
confusions, not from the love of mankind, for the great never
look upon their inferiors as their fellow-creatures; nor yet from
want of courage, for in that he is seldom defective; but from a
consciousness that he possesses none of the virtues which are
required in such situations, and that the public attention will
certainly be drawn away from him by others. He may be willing to
expose himself to some little danger, and to make a campaign when
it happens to be the fashion. But he shudders with horror at the
thought of any situation which demands the continual and long
exertion of patience, industry, fortitude, and application of
thought. These virtues are hardly ever to be met with in men who
are born to those high stations. In all governments accordingly,
even in monarchies, the highest offices are generally possessed,
and the whole detail of the administration conducted, by men who
were educated in the middle and inferior ranks of life, who have
been carried forward by their own industry and abilities, though
loaded with the jealousy, and opposed by the resentment, of all
those who were born their superiors, and to whom the great, after
having regarded them first with contempt, and afterwards with
envy, are at last contented to truckle with the same abject
meanness with which they desire that the rest of mankind should
behave to themselves.
It is the loss of this easy empire over the affections of
mankind which renders the fall from greatness so insupportable.
When the family of the king of Macedon was led in triumph by
Paulus Aemilius, their misfortunes, it is said, made them divide
with their conqueror the attention of the Roman people. The sight
of the royal children, whose tender age rendered them insensible
of their situation, struck the spectators, amidst the public
rejoicings and prosperity, with the tenderest sorrow and
compassion. The king appeared next in the procession; and seemed
like one confounded and astonished, and bereft of all sentiment,
by the greatness of his calamities. His friends and ministers
followed after him. As they moved along, they often cast their
eyes upon their fallen sovereign, and always burst into tears at
the sight; their whole behaviour demonstrating that they thought
not of their own misfortunes, but were occupied entirely by the
superior greatness of his. The generous Romans, on the contrary,
beheld him with disdain and indignation, and regarded as unworthy
of all compassion the man who could be so mean-spirited as to
bear to live under such calamities. Yet what did those calamities
amount to? According to the greater part of historians, he was to
spend the remainder of his days, under the protection of a
powerful and humane people, in a state which in itself should
seem worthy of envy, a state of plenty, ease, leisure, and
security, from which it was impossible for him even by his own
folly to fall. But he was no longer to be surrounded by that
admiring mob of fools, flatterers, and dependants, who had
formerly been accustomed to attend upon all his motions. He was
no longer to be gazed upon by multitudes, nor to have it in his
power to render himself the object of their respect, their
gratitude, their love, their admiration. The passions of nations
were no longer to mould themselves upon his inclinations. This
was that insupportable calamity which bereaved the king of all
sentiment; which made his friends forget their own misfortunes;
and which the Roman magnanimity could scarce conceive how any man
could be so mean-spirited as to bear to survive.
'Love,' says my Lord Rochfaucault, 'is commonly succeeded by
ambition; but ambition is hardly ever succeeded by love.' That
passion, when once it has got entire possession of the breast,
will admit neither a rival nor a successor. To those who have
been accustomed to the possession, or even to the hope of public
admiration, all other pleasures sicken and decay. Of all the
discarded statesmen who for their own ease have studied to get
the better of ambition, and to despise those honours which they
could no longer arrive at, how few have been able to succeed? The
greater part have spent their time in the most listless and
insipid indolence, chagrined at the thoughts of their own
insignificancy, incapable of being interested i n the occupations
of private life, without enjoyment, except when they talked of
their former greatness, and without satisfaction, except when
they were employed in some vain project to recover it. Are you in
earnest resolved never to barter your liberty for the lordly
servitude of a court, but to live free, fearless, and
independent? There seems to be one way to continue in that
virtuous resolution; and perhaps but one. Never enter the place
from whence so few have been able to return; never come within
the circle of ambition; nor ever bring yourself into comparison
with those masters of the earth who have already engrossed the
attention of half mankind before you.
Of such mighty importance does it appear to be, in the
imaginations of men, to stand in that situation which sets them
most in the view of general sympathy and attention. And thus,
place, that great object which divides the wives of aldermen, is
the end of half the labours of human life; and is the cause of
all the tumult and bustle, all the rapine and injustice, which
avarice and ambition have introduced into this world. People of
sense, it is said, indeed despise place; that is, they despise
sitting at the head of the table, and are indifferent who it is
that is pointed out to the company by that frivolous
circumstance, which the smallest advantage is capable of
overbalancing. But rank, distinction pre-eminence, no man
despises, unless he is either raised very much above, or sunk
very much below, the ordinary standard of human nature; unless he
is either so confirmed in wisdom and real philosophy, as to be
satisfied that, while the propriety of his conduct renders him
the just object of approbation, it is of little consequence
though he be neither attended to, nor approved of; or so
habituated to the idea of his own meanness, so sunk in slothful
and sottish indifference, as entirely to have forgot the desire,
and almost the very wish, for superiority.
As to become the natural object of the joyous congratulations
and sympathetic attentions of mankind is, in this manner, the
circumstance which gives to prosperity all its dazzling
splendour; so nothing darkens so much the gloom of adversity as
to feel that our misfortunes are the objects, not of the
fellow-feeling, but of the contempt and aversion of our brethren.
It is upon this account that the most dreadful calamities are not
always those which it is most difficult to support. It is often
more mortifying to appear in public under small disasters, than
under great misfortunes. The first excite no sympathy; but the
second, though they may excite none that approaches to the
anguish of the sufferer, call forth, however, a very lively
compassion. The sentiments of the spectators are, in this last
case, less wide of those of the sufferer, and their imperfect
fellow-feeling lends him some assistance in supporting his
misery. Before a gay assembly, a gentleman would be more
mortified to appear covered with filth and rags than with blood
and wounds. This last situation would interest their pity; the
other would provoke their laughter. The judge who orders a
criminal to be set in the pillory, dishonours him more than if he
had condemned him to the scaffold. The great prince, who, some
years ago, caned a general officer at the head of his army,
disgraced him irrecoverably. The punishment would have been much
less had he shot him through the body. By the laws of honour, to
strike with a cane dishonours, to strike with a sword does not,
for an obvious reason. Those slighter punishments, when inflicted
on a gentleman, to whom dishonour is the greatest of all evils,
come to be regarded among a humane and generous people, as the
most dreadful of any. With regard to persons of that rank,
therefore, they are universally laid aside, and the law, while it
takes their life upon many occasions, respects their honour upon
almost all. To scourge a person of quality, or to set him in the
pillory, upon account of any crime whatever, is a brutality of
which no European government, except that of Russia, is capable.
A brave man is not rendered contemptible by being brought to
the scaffold; he is, by being set in the pillory. His behaviour
in the one situation may gain him universal esteem and
admiration. No behaviour in the other can render him agreeable.
The sympathy of the spectators supports him in the one case, and
saves him from that shame, that consciousness that his misery is
felt by himself only, which is of all sentiments the most
unsupportable. There is no sympathy in the other; or, if there is
any, it is not with his pain, which is a trifle, but with his
consciousness of the want of sympathy with which this pain is
attended. It is with his shame, not with his sorrow. Those who
pity him, blush and hang down their heads for him. He droops in
the same manner, and feels himself irrecoverably degraded by the
punishment, though not by the crime. The man, on the contrary,
who dies with resolution, as he is naturally regarded with the
erect aspect of esteem and approbation, so he wears himself the
same undaunted countenance; and, if the crime does not deprive
him of the respect of others, the punishment never will. He has
no suspicion that his situation is the object of contempt or
derision to any body, and he can, with propriety, assume the air,
not only of perfect serenity, but of triumph and exultation.
'Great dangers,' says the Cardinal de Retz, 'have their
charms, because there is some glory to be got, even when we
miscarry. But moderate dangers have nothing but what is horrible,
because the loss of reputation always attends the want of
success.' His maxim has the same foundation with what we have
been just now observing with regard to punishments.
Human virtue is superior to pain, to poverty, to danger, and
to death; nor does it even require its utmost efforts do despise
them. But to have its misery exposed to insult and derision, to
be led in triumph, to be set up for the hand of scorn to point
at, is a situation in which its constancy is much more apt to
fail. Compared with the contempt of mankind, all other external
evils are easily supported.
Chap. III
Of the corruption of our moral sentiments, which is occasioned by
this disposition to admire the rich and the great, and to despise
or neglect persons of poor and mean condition
This disposition to admire, and almost to worship, the rich
and the powerful, and to despise, or, at least, to neglect
persons of poor and mean condition, though necessary both to
establish and to maintain the distinction of ranks and the order
of society, is, at the same time, the great and most universal
cause of the corruption of our moral sentiments. That wealth and
greatness are often regarded with the respect and admiration
which are due only to wisdom and virtue; and that the contempt,
of which vice and folly are the only proper objects, is often
most unjustly bestowed upon poverty and weakness, has been the
complaint of moralists in all ages.
We desire both to be respectable and to be respected. We
dread both to be contemptible and to be contemned. But, upon
coming into the world, we soon find that wisdom and virtue are by
no means the sole objects of respect; nor vice and folly, of
contempt. We frequently see the respectful attentions of the
world more strongly directed towards the rich and the great, than
towards the wise and the virtuous. We see frequently the vices
and follies of the powerful much less despised than the poverty
and weakness of the innocent. To deserve, to acquire, and to
enjoy the respect and admiration of mankind, are the great
objects of ambition and emulation. Two different roads are
presented to us, equally leading to the attainment of this so
much desired object; the one, by the study of wisdom and the
practice of virtue; the other, by the acquisition of wealth and
greatness. Two different characters are presented to our
emulation; the one, of proud ambition and ostentatious avidity.
the other, of humble modesty and equitable justice. Two different
models, two different pictures, are held out to us, according to
which we may fashion our own character and behaviour; the one
more gaudy and glittering in its colouring; the other more
correct and more exquisitely beautiful in its outline: the one
forcing itself upon the notice of every wandering eye; the other,
attracting the attention of scarce any body but the most studious
and careful observer. They are the wise and the virtuous chiefly,
a select, though, I am afraid, but a small party, who are the
real and steady admirers of wisdom and virtue. The great mob of
mankind are the admirers and worshippers, and, what may seem more
extraordinary, most frequently the disinterested admirers and
worshippers, of wealth and greatness.
The respect which we feel for wisdom and virtue is, no doubt,
different from that which we conceive for wealth and greatness;
and it requires no very nice discernment to distinguish the
difference. But, notwithstanding this difference, those
sentiments bear a very considerable resemblance to one another.
In some particular features they are, no doubt, different, but,
in the general air of the countenance, they seem to be so very
nearly the same, that inattentive observers are very apt to
mistake the one for the other.
In equal degrees of merit there is scarce any man who does
not respect more the rich and the great, than the poor and the
humble. With most men the presumption and vanity of the former
are much more admired, than the real and solid merit of the
latter. It is scarce agreeable to good morals, or even to good
language, perhaps, to say, that mere wealth and greatness,
abstracted from merit and virtue, deserve our respect. We must
acknowledge, however, that they almost constantly obtain it; and
that they may, therefore, be considered as, in some respects, the
natural objects of it. Those exalted stations may, no doubt, be
completely degraded by vice and folly. But the vice and folly
must be very great, before they can operate this complete
degradation. The profligacy of a man of fashion is looked upon
with much less contempt and aversion, than that of a man of
meaner condition. In the latter, a single transgression of the
rules of temperance and propriety, is commonly more resented,
than the constant and avowed contempt of them ever is in the
former.
In the middling and inferior stations of life, the road to
virtue and that to fortune, to such fortune, at least, as men in
such stations can reasonably expect to acquire, are, happily in
most cases, very nearly the same. In all the middling and
inferior professions, real and solid professional abilities,
joined to prudent, just, firm, and temperate conduct, can very
seldom fail of success. Abilities will even sometimes prevail
where the conduct is by no means correct. Either habitual
imprudence, however, or injustice, or weakness, or profligacy,
will always clouD, and sometimes Depress altogether, the most
splendid professional abilities. Men in the inferior and middling
stations of life, besides, can never be great enough to be above
the law, which must generally overawe them into some sort of
respect for, at least, the more important rules of justice. The
success of such people, too, almost always depends upon the
favour and good opinion of their neighbours and equals; and
without a tolerably regular conduct these can very seldom be
obtained. The good old proverb, therefore, That honesty is the
best policy, holds, in such situations, almost always perfectly
true. In such situations, therefore, we may generally expect a
considerable degree of virtue; and, fortunately for the good
morals of society, these are the situations of by far the greater
part of mankind.
In the superior stations of life the case is unhappily not
always the same. In the courts of princes, in the drawing-rooms
of the great, where success and preferment depend, not upon the
esteem of intelligent and well-informed equals, but upon the
fanciful and foolish favour of ignorant, presumptuous, and proud
superiors; flattery and falsehood too often prevail over merit
and abilities. In such societies the abilities to please, are
more regarded than the abilities to serve. In quiet and peaceable
times, when the storm is at a distance, the prince, or great man,
wishes only to be amused, and is even apt to fancy that he has
scarce any occasion for the service of any body, or that those
who amuse him are sufficiently able to serve him. The external
graces, the frivolous accomplishments of that impertinent and
foolish thing called a man of fashion, are commonly more admired
than the solid and masculine virtues of a warrior, a statesman, a
philosopher, or a legislator. All the great and awful virtues,
all the virtues which can fit, either for the council, the
senate, or the field, are, by the insolent and insignificant
flatterers, who commonly figure the most in such corrupted
societies, held in the utmost contempt and derision. When the
duke of Sully was called upon by Lewis the Thirteenth, to give
his advice in some great emergency, he observed the favourites
and courtiers whispering to one another, and smiling at his
unfashionable appearance. 'Whenever your majesty's father,' said
the old warrior and statesman, 'did me the honour to consult me,
he ordered the buffoons of the court to retire into the
antechamber.'
It is from our disposition to admire, and consequently to
imitate, the rich and the great, that they are enabled to set, or
to lead what is called the fashion. Their dress is the
fashionable dress; the language of their conversation, the
fashionable style; their air and deportment, the fashionable
behaviour. Even their vices and follies are fashionable; and the
greater part of men are proud to imitate and resemble them in the
very qualities which dishonour and degrade them. Vain men often
give themselves airs of a fashionable profligacy, which, in their
hearts, they do not approve of, and of which, perhaps, they are
really not guilty. They desire to be praised for what they
themselves do not think praise-worthy, and are ashamed of
unfashionable virtues which they sometimes practise in secret,
and for which they have secretly some degree of real veneration.
There are hypocrites of wealth and greatness, as well as of
religion and virtue; and a vain man is as apt to pretend to be
what he is not, in the one way, as a cunning man is in the other.
He assumes the equipage and splendid way of living of his
superiors, without considering that whatever may be praise-worthy
in any of these, derives its whole merit and propriety from its
suitableness to that situation and fortune which both require and
can easily support the expence. Many a poor man places his glory
in being thought rich, without considering that the duties (if
one may call such follies by so very venerable a name) which that
reputation imposes upon him, must soon reduce him to beggary, and
render his situation still more unlike that of those whom he
admires and imitates, than it had been originally.
To attain to this envied situation, the candidates for
fortune too frequently abandon the paths of virtue; for
unhappily, the road which leads to the one, and that which leads
to the other, lie sometimes in very opposite directions. But the
ambitious man flatters himself that, in the splendid situation to
which he advances, he will have so many means of commanding the
respect and admiration of mankind, and will be enabled to act
with such superior propriety and grace, that the lustre of his
future conduct will entirely cover, or efface, the foulness of
the steps by which he arrived at that elevation. In many
governments the candidates for the highest stations are above the
law; and, if they can attain the object of their ambition, they
have no fear of being called to account for the means by which
they acquired it. They often endeavour, therefore, not only by
fraud and falsehood, the ordinary and vulgar arts of intrigue and
cabal; but sometimes by the perpetration of the most enormous
crimes, by murder and assassination, by rebellion and civil war,
to supplant and destroy those who oppose or stand in the way of
their greatness. They more frequently miscarry than succeed; and
commonly gain nothing but the disgraceful punishment which is due
to their crimes. But, though they should be so lucky as to attain
that wished-for greatness, they are always most miserably
disappointed in the happiness which they expect to enjoy in it.
It is not ease or pleasure, but always honour, of one kind or
another, though frequently an honour very ill understood, that
the ambitious man really pursues. But the honour of his exalted
station appears, both in his own eyes and in those of other
people, polluted and defiled by the baseness of the means through
which he rose to it. Though by the profusion of every liberal
expence; though by excessive indulgence in every profligate
pleasure, the wretched, but usual, resource of ruined characters;
though by the hurry of public business, or by the prouder and
more dazzling tumult of war, he may endeavour to efface, both
from his own memory and from that of other people, the
remembrance of what he has done; that remembrance never fails to
pursue him. He invokes in vain the dark and dismal powers of
forgetfulness and oblivion. He remembers himself what he has
done, and that remembrance tells him that other people must
likewise remember it. Amidst all the gaudy pomp of the most
ostentatious greatness; amidst the venal and vile adulation of
the great and of the learned; amidst the more innocent, though
more foolish, acclamations of the common people; amidst all the
pride of conquest and the triumph of successful war, he is still
secretly pursued by the avenging furies of shame and remorse;
and, while glory seems to surround him on all sides, he himself,
in his own imagination, sees black and foul infamy fast pursuing
him, and every moment ready to overtake him from behind. Even the
great Caesar, though he had the magnanimity to dismiss his
guards, could not dismiss his suspicions. The remembrance of
Pharsalia still haunted and pursued him. When, at the request of
the senate, he had the generosity to pardon Marcellus, he told
that assembly, that he was not unaware of the designs which were
carrying on against his life; but that, as he had lived long
enough both for nature and for glory, he was contented to die,
and therefore despised all conspiracies. He had, perhaps, lived
long enough for nature. But the man who felt himself the object
of such deadly resentment, from those whose favour he wished to
gain, and whom he still wished to consider as his friends, had
certainly lived too long for real glory; or for all the happiness
which he could ever hope to enjoy in the love and esteem of his
equals.