Part III
Of the Foundation of our Judgments concerning our own Sentiments
and Conduct, and of the Sense of Duty
Consisting of One Section
Chap. I
Of the Principle of Self-approbation and of Self-disapprobation
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n the two foregoing parts of this discourse, I have chiefly
considered the origin and foundation of our judgments concerning
the sentiments and conduct of others. I come now to consider more
particularly the origin of those concerning our own.
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| III.I.1 |
The principle by which we naturally either approve or
disapprove of our own conduct, seems to be altogether the same
with that by which we exercise the like judgments concerning the
conduct of other people. We either approve or disapprove of the
conduct of another man according as we feel that, when we bring
his case home to ourselves, we either can or cannot entirely
sympathize with the sentiments and motives which directed it.
And, in the same manner, we either approve or disapprove of our
own conduct, according as we feel that, when we place ourselves
in the situation of another man, and view it, as it were, with
his eyes and from his station, we either can or cannot entirely
enter into and sympathize with the sentiments and motives which
influenced it. We can never survey our own sentiments and
motives, we can never form any judgment concerning them; unless
we remove ourselves, as it were, from our own natural station,
and endeavour to view them as at a certain distance from us. But
we can do this in no other way than by endeavouring to view them
with the eyes of other people, or as other people are likely to
view them. Whatever judgment we can form concerning them,
accordingly, must always bear some secret reference, either to
what are, or to what, upon a certain condition, would be, or to
what, we imagine, ought to be the judgment of others. We
endeavour to examine our own conduct as we imagine any other fair
and impartial spectator would examine it. If, upon placing
ourselves in his situation, we thoroughly enter into all the
passions and motives which influenced it, we approve of it, by
sympathy with the approbation of this supposed equitable judge.
If otherwise, we enter into his disapprobation, and condemn it.
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| III.I.2 |
Were it possible that a human creature could grow up to
manhood in some solitary place, without any communication with
his own species, he could no more think of his own character, of
the propriety or demerit of his own sentiments and conduct, of
the beauty or deformity of his own mind, than of the beauty or
deformity of his own face. All these are objects which he cannot
easily see, which naturally he does not look at, and with regard
to which he is provided with no mirror which can present them to
his view. Bring him into society, and he is immediately provided
with the mirror which he wanted before. It is placed in the
countenance and behaviour of those he lives with, which always
mark when they enter into, and when they disapprove of his
sentiments; and it is here that he first views the propriety and
impropriety of his own passions, the beauty and deformity of his
own mind. To a man who from his birth was a stranger to society,
the objects of his passions, the external bodies which either
pleased or hurt him, would occupy his whole attention. The
passions themselves, the desires or aversions, the joys or
sorrows, which those objects excited, though of all things the
most immediately present to him, could scarce ever be the objects
of his thoughts. The idea of them could never interest him so
much as to call upon his attentive consideration. The
consideration of his joy could in him excite no new joy, nor that
of his sorrow any new sorrow, though the consideration of the
causes of those passions might often excite both. Bring him into
society, and all his own passions will immediately become the
causes of new passions. He will observe that mankind approve of
some of them, and are disgusted by others. He will be elevated in
the one case, and cast down in the other; his desires and
aversions, his joys and sorrows, will now often become the causes
of new desires and new aversions, new joys and new sorrows: they
will now, therefore, interest him deeply, and often call upon his
most attentive consideration.
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| III.I.3 |
Our first ideas of personal beauty and deformity, are drawn
from the shape and appearance of others, not from our own. We
soon become sensible, however, that others exercise the same
criticism upon us. We are pleased when they approve of our
figure, and are disobliged when they seem to be disgusted. We
become anxious to know how far our appearance deserves either
their blame or approbation. We examine our persons limb by limb,
and by placing ourselves before a looking-glass, or by some such
expedient, endeavour, as much as possible, to view ourselves at
the distance and with the eyes of other people. If, after this
examination, we are satisfied with our own appearance, we can
more easily support the most disadvantageous judgments of others.
If, on the contrary, we are sensible that we are the natural
objects of distaste, every appearance of their disapprobation
mortifies us beyond all measure. A man who is tolerably handsome,
will allow you to laugh at any little irregularity in his person;
but all such jokes are commonly unsupportable to one who is
really deformed. It is evident, however, that we are anxious
about our own beauty and deformity, only upon account of its
effect upon others. If we had no connexion with society, we
should be altogether indifferent about either.
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In the same manner our first moral criticisms are exercised
upon the characters and conduct of other people; and we are all
very forward to observe how each of these affects us. But we soon
learn, that other people are equally frank with regard to our
own. We become anxious to know how far we deserve their censure
or applause, and whether to them we must necessarily appear those
agreeable or disagreeable creatures which they represent us. We
begin, upon this account, to examine our own passions and
conduct, and to consider how these must appear to them, by
considering how they would appear to us if in their situation. We
suppose ourselves the spectators of our own behaviour, and
endeavour to imagine what effect it would, in this light, produce
upon us. This is the only looking-glass by which we can, in some
measure, with the eyes of other people, scrutinize the propriety
of our own conduct. If in this view it pleases us, we are
tolerably satisfied. We can be more indifferent about the
applause, and, in some measure, despise the censure of the world.
secure that, however misunderstood or misrepresented, we are the
natural and proper objects of approbation. On the contrary, if we
are doubtful about it, we are often, upon that very account, more
anxious to gain their approbation, and, provided we have not
already, as they say, shaken hands with infamy, we are altogether
distracted at the thoughts of their censure, which then strikes
us with double severity.
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When I endeavour to examine my own conduct, when I endeavour
to pass sentence upon it, and either to approve or condemn it, it
is evident that, in all such cases, I divide myself, as it were,
into two persons; and that I, the examiner and judge, represent a
different character from that other I, the person whose conduct
is examined into and judged of. The first is the spectator, whose
sentiments with regard to my own conduct I endeavour to enter
into, by placing myself in his situation, and by considering how
it would appear to me, when seen from that particular point of
view. The second is the agent, the person whom I properly call
myself, and of whose conduct, under the character of a spectator,
I was endeavouring to form some opinion. The first is the judge;
the second the person judged of. But that the judge should, in
every respect, be the same with the person judged of, is as
impossible, as that the cause should, in every respect, be the
same with the effect.
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To be amiable and to be meritorious; that is, to deserve love
and to deserve reward, are the great characters of virtue; and to
be odious and punishable, of vice. But all these characters have
an immediate reference to the sentiments of others. Virtue is not
said to be amiable, or to be meritorious, because it is the
object of its own love, or of its own gratitude; but because it
excites those sentiments in other men. The consciousness that it
is the object of such favourable regards, is the source of that
inward tranquillity and self-satisfaction with which it is
naturally attended, as the suspicion of the contrary gives
occasion to the torments of vice. What so great happiness as to
be beloved, and to know that we deserve to be beloved? What so
great misery as to be hated, and to know that we deserve to be
hated?
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Chap. II
Of the love of Praise, and of that of Praise-worthiness; and of
the dread of Blame, and of that of Blame-worthiness
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Man naturally desires, not only to be loved, but to be
lovely; or to be that thing which is the natural and proper
object of love. He naturally dreads, not only to be hated, but to
be hateful; or to be that thing which is the natural and proper
object of hatred. He desires, not only praise, but
praiseworthiness; or to be that thing which, though it should be
praised by nobody, is, however, the natural and proper object of
praise. He dreads, not only blame, but blame-worthiness; or to be
that thing which, though it should be blamed by nobody, is,
however, the natural and proper object of blame.
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The love of praise-worthiness is by no means derived
altogether from the love of praise. Those two principles, though
they resemble one another, though they are connected, and often
blended with one another, are yet, in many respects, distinct and
independent of one another.
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The love and admiration which we naturally conceive for those
whose character and conduct we approve of, necessarily dispose us
to desire to become ourselves the objects of the like agreeable
sentiments, and to be as amiable and as admirable as those whom
we love and admire the most. Emulation, the anxious desire that
we ourselves should excel, is originally founded in our
admiration of the excellence of others. Neither can we be
satisfied with being merely admired for what other people are
admired. We must at least believe ourselves to be admirable for
what they are admirable. But, in order to attain this
satisfaction, we must become the impartial spectators of our own
character and conduct. We must endeavour to view them with the
eyes of other people, or as other people are likely to view them.
When seen in this light, if they appear to us as we wish, we are
happy and contented. But it greatly confirms this happiness and
contentment when we find that other people, viewing them with
those very eyes with which we, in imagination only, were
endeavouring to view them, see them precisely in the same light
in which we ourselves had seen them. Their approbation
necessarily confirms our own self-approbation. Their praise
necessarily strengthens our own sense of our own
praiseworthiness. In this case, so far is the love of
praise-worthiness from being derived altogether from that of
praise; that the love of praise seems, at least in a great
measure, to be derived from that of praise-worthiness.
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The most sincere praise can give little pleasure when it
cannot be considered as some sort of proof of praise-worthiness.
It is by no means sufficient that, from ignorance or mistake,
esteem and admiration should, in some way or other, be bestowed
upon us. If we are conscious that we do not deserve to be so
favourably thought of, and that if the truth were known, we
should be regarded with very different sentiments, our
satisfaction is far from being complete. The man who applauds us
either for actions which we did not perform, or for motives which
had no sort of influence upon our conduct, applauds not us, but
another person. We can derive no sort of satisfaction from his
praises. To us they should be more mortifying than any censure,
and should perpetually call to our minds, the most humbling of
all reflections, the reflection of what we ought to be, but what
we are not. A woman who paints, could derive, one should imagine,
but little vanity from the compliments that are paid to her
complexion. These, we should expect, ought rather to put her in
mind of the sentiments which her real complexion would excite,
and mortify her the more by the contrast. To be pleased with such
groundless applause is a proof of the most superficial levity and
weakness. It is what is properly called vanity, and is the
foundation of the most ridiculous and contemptible vices, the
vices of affectation and common lying; follies which, if
experience did not teach us how common they are, one should
imagine the least spark of common sense would save us from. The
foolish liar, who endeavours to excite the admiration of the
company by the relation of adventures which never had any
existence; the important coxcomb, who gives himself airs of rank
and distinction which he well knows he has no just pretensions
to; are both of them, no doubt, pleased with the applause which
they fancy they meet with. But their vanity arises from so gross
an illusion of the imagination, that it is difficult to conceive
how any rational creature should be imposed upon by it. When they
place themselves in the situation of those whom they fancy they
have deceived, they are struck with the highest admiration for
their own persons. They look upon themselves, not in that light
in which, they know, they ought to appear to their companions,
but in that in which they believe their companions actually look
upon them. Their superficial weakness and trivial folly hinder
them from ever turning their eyes inwards, or from seeing
themselves in that despicable point of view in which their own
consciences must tell them that they would appear to every body,
if the real truth should ever come to be known.
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As ignorant and groundless praise can give no solid joy, no
satisfaction that will bear any serious examination, so, on the
contrary, it often gives real comfort to reflect, that though no
praise should actually be bestowed upon us, our conduct, however,
has been such as to deserve it, and has been in every respect
suitable to those measures and rules by which praise and
approbation are naturally and commonly bestowed. We are pleased,
not only with praise, but with having done what is praise-worthy.
We are pleased to think that we have rendered ourselves the
natural objects of approbation, though no approbation should ever
actually be bestowed upon us: and we are mortified to reflect
that we have justly merited the blame of those we live with,
though that sentiment should never actually be exerted against
us. The man who is conscious to himself that he has exactly
observed those measures of conduct which experience informs him
are generally agreeable, reflects with satisfaction on the
propriety of his own behaviour. When he views it in the light in
which the impartial spectator would view it, he thoroughly enters
into all the motives which influenced it. He looks back upon
every part of it with pleasure and approbation, and though
mankind should never be acquainted with what he has done, he
regards himself, not so much according to the light in which they
actually regard him, as according to that in which they would
regard him if they were better informed. He anticipates the
applause and admiration which in this case would be bestowed upon
him, and he applauds and admires himself by sympathy with
sentiments, which do not indeed actually take place, but which
the ignorance of the public alone hinders from taking place,
which he knows are the natural and ordinary effects of such
conduct, which his imagination strongly connects with it, and
which he has acquired a habit of conceiving as something that
naturally and in propriety ought to follow from it. Men have
voluntarily thrown away life to acquire after death a renown
which they could no longer enjoy. Their imagination, in the mean
time, anticipated that fame which was in future times to be
bestowed upon them. Those applauses which they were never to hear
rung in their ears; the thoughts of that admiration, whose
effects they were never to feel, played about their hearts,
banished from their breasts the strongest of all natural fears,
and transported them to perform actions which seem almost beyond
the reach of human nature. But in point of reality there is
surely no great difference between that approbation which is not
to be bestowed till we can no longer enjoy it, and that which,
indeed, is never to be bestowed, but which would be bestowed, if
the world was ever made to understand properly the real
circumstances of our behaviour. If the one often produces such
violent effects, we cannot wonder that the other should always be
highly regarded.
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Nature, when she formed man for society, endowed him with an
original desire to please, and an original aversion to offend his
brethren. She taught him to feel pleasure in their favourable,
and pain in their unfavourable regard. She rendered their
approbation most flattering and most agreeable to him for its own
sake; and their disapprobation most mortifying and most
offensive.
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But this desire of the approbation, and this aversion to the
disapprobation of his brethren, would not alone have rendered him
fit for that society for which he was made. Nature, accordingly,
has endowed him, not only with a desire of being approved of, but
with a desire of being what ought to be approved of; or of being
what he himself approves of in other men. The first desire could
only have made him wish to appear to be fit for society. The
second was necessary in order to render him anxious to be really
fit. The first could only have prompted him to the affectation of
virtue, and to the concealment of vice. The second was necessary
in order to inspire him with the real love of virtue, and with
the real abhorrence of vice. In every well-formed mind this
second desire seems to be the strongest of the two. It is only
the weakest and most superficial of mankind who can be much
delighted with that praise which they themselves know to be
altogether unmerited. A weak man may sometimes be pleased with
it, but a wise man rejects it upon all occasions. But, though a
wise man feels little pleasure from praise where he knows there
is no praise-worthiness, he often feels the highest in doing what
he knows to be praise-worthy, though he knows equally well that
no praise is ever to be bestowed upon it. To obtain the
approbation of mankind, where no approbation is due, can never be
an object of any importance to him. To obtain that approbation
where it is really due, may sometimes be an object of no great
importance to him. But to be that thing which deserves
approbation, must always be an object of the highest.
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| III.I.14 |
To desire, or even to accept of praise, where no praise is
due, can be the effect only of the most contemptible vanity. To
desire it where it is really due, is to desire no more than that
a most essential act of justice should be done to us. The love of
just fame, of true glory, even for its own sake, and independent
of any advantage which he can derive from it, is not unworthy
even of a wise man. He sometimes, however, neglects, and even
despises it; and he is never more apt to do so than when he has
the most perfect assurance of the perfect propriety of every part
of his own conduct. His self-approbation, in this case, stands in
need of no confirmation from the approbation of other men. It is
alone sufficient, and he is contented with it. This
self-approbation, if not the only, is at least the principal
object, about which he can or ought to be anxious. The love of
it, is the love of virtue.
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As the love and admiration which we naturally conceive for
some characters, dispose us to wish to become ourselves the
proper objects of such agreeable sentiments; so the hatred and
contempt which we as naturally conceive for others, dispose us,
perhaps still more strongly, to dread the very thought of
resembling them in any respect. Neither is it, in this case, too,
so much the thought of being hated and despised that we are
afraid of, as that of being hateful and despicable. We dread the
thought of doing any thing which can render us the just and
proper objects of the hatred and contempt of our
fellow-creatures; even though we had the most perfect security
that those sentiments were never actually to be exerted against
us. The man who has broke through all those measures of conduct,
which can alone render him agreeable to mankind, though he should
have the most perfect assurance that what he had done was for
ever to be concealed from every human eye, it is all to no
purpose. When he looks back upon it, and views it in the light in
which the impartial spectator would view it, he finds that he can
enter into none of the motives which influenced it. He is abashed
and confounded at the thoughts of it, and necessarily feels a
very high degree of that shame which he would be exposed to, if
his actions should ever come to be generally known. His
imagination, in this case too, anticipates the contempt and
derision from which nothing saves him but the ignorance of those
he lives with. He still feels that he is the natural object of
these sentiments, and still trembles at the thought of what he
would suffer, if they were ever actually exerted against him. But
if what he had been guilty of was not merely one of those
improprieties which are the objects of simple disapprobation, but
one of those enormous crimes which excite detestation and
resentment, he could never think of it, as long as he had any
sensibility left, without feeling all the agony of horror and
remorse; and though he could be assured that no man was ever to
know it, and could even bring himself to believe that there was
no God to revenge it, he would still feel enough of both these
sentiments to embitter the whole of his life: he would still
regard himself as the natural object of the hatred and
indignation of all his fellow-creatures; and, if his heart was
not grown callous by the habit of crimes, he could not think
without terror and astonishment even of the manner in which
mankind would look upon him, of what would be the expression of
their countenance and of their eyes, if the dreadful truth should
ever come to be known. These natural pangs of an affrighted
conscience are the daemons, the avenging furies, which, in this
life, haunt the guilty, which allow them neither quiet nor
repose, which often drive them to despair and distraction, from
which no assurance of secrecy can protect them, from which no
principles of irreligion can entirely deliver them, and from
which nothing can free them but the vilest and most abject of all
states, a complete insensibility to honour and infamy, to vice
and virtue. Men of the most detestable characters, who, in the
execution of the most dreadful crimes, had taken their measures
so coolly as to avoid even the suspicion of guilt, have sometimes
been driven, by the horror of their situation, to discover, of
their own accord, what no human sagacity could ever have
investigated. By acknowledging their guilt, by submitting
themselves to the resentment of their offended fellow-citizens,
and, by thus satiating that vengeance of which they were sensible
that they had become the proper objects, they hoped, by their
death to reconcile themselves, at least in their own imagination,
to the natural sentiments of mankind; to be able to consider
themselves as less worthy of hatred and resentment; to atone, in
some measure, for their crimes, and by thus becoming the objects,
rather of compassion than of horror, if possible to die in peace
and with the forgiveness of all their fellow-creatures. Compared
to what they felt before the discovery, even the thought of this,
it seems, was happiness.
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In such cases, the horror of blame-worthiness seems, even in
persons who cannot be suspected of any extraordinary delicacy or
sensibility of character, completely to conquer the dread of
blame. In order to allay that horror, in order to pacify, in some
degree, the remorse of their own consciences, they voluntarily
submitted themselves both to the reproach and to the punishment
which they knew were due to their crimes, but which, at the same
time, they might easily have avoided.
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They are the most frivolous and superficial of mankind only
who can be much delighted with that praise which they themselves
know to be altogether unmerited. Unmerited reproach, however, is
frequently capable of mortifying very severely even men of more
than ordinary constancy. Men of the most ordinary constancy,
indeed, easily learn to despise those foolish tales which are so
frequently circulated in society, and which, from their own
absurdity and falsehood, never fail to die away in the course of
a few weeks, or of a few days. But an innocent man, though of
more than ordinary constancy, is often, not only shocked, but
most severely mortified by the serious, though false, imputation
of a crime; especially when that imputation happens unfortunately
to be supported by some circumstances which give it an air of
probability. He is humbled to find that any body should think so
meanly of his character as to suppose him capable of being guilty
of it. Though perfectly conscious of his own innocence, the very
imputation seems often, even in his own imagination, to throw a
shadow of disgrace and dishonour upon his character. His just
indignation, too, at so very gross an injury, which, however, it
may frequently be improper, and sometimes even impossible to
revenge, is itself a very painful sensation. There is no greater
tormentor of the human breast than violent resentment which
cannot be gratified. An innocent man, brought to the scaffold by
the false imputation of an infamous or odious crime, suffers the
most cruel misfortune which it is possible for innocence to
suffer. The agony of his mind may, in this case, frequently be
greater than that of those who suffer for the like crimes, of
which they have been actually guilty. Profligate criminals, such
as common thieves and highwaymen, have frequently little sense of
the baseness of their own conduct, and consequently no remorse.
Without troubling themselves about the justice or injustice of
the punishment, they have always been accustomed to look upon the
gibbet as a lot very likely to fall to them. When it does fall to
them, therefore, they consider themselves only as not quite so
lucky as some of their companions, and submit to their fortune,
without any other uneasiness than what may arise from the fear of
death; a fear which, even by such worthless wretches, we
frequently see, can be so easily, and so very completely
conquered. The innocent man, on the contrary, over and above the
uneasiness which this fear may occasion, is tormented by his own
indignation at the injustice which has been done to him. He is
struck with horror at the thoughts of the infamy which the
punishment may shed upon his memory, and foresees, with the most
exquisite anguish, that he is hereafter to be remembered by his
dearest friends and relations, not with regret and affection, but
with shame, and even with horror for his supposed disgraceful
conduct: and the shades of death appear to close round him with a
darker and more melancholy gloom than naturally belongs to them.
Such fatal accidents, for the tranquillity of mankind, it is to
be hoped, happen very rarely in any country; but they happen
sometimes in all countries, even in those where justice is in
general very well administered. The unfortunate Calas, a man of
much more than ordinary constancy (broke upon the wheel and burnt
at Tholouse for the supposed murder of his own son, of which he
was perfectly innocent), seemed, with his last breath, to
deprecate, not so much the cruelty of the punishment, as the
disgrace which the imputation might bring upon his memory. After
he had been broke, and was just going to be thrown into the fire,
the monk, who attended the execution, exhorted him to confess the
crime for which he had been condemned. My Father, said Calas, can
you yourself bring yourself to believe that I am guilty?
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| III.I.18 |
To persons in such unfortunate circumstances, that humble
philosophy which confines its views to this life, can afford,
perhaps, but little consolation. Every thing that could render
either life or death respectable is taken from them. They are
condemned to death and to everlasting infamy. Religion can alone
afford them any effectual comfort. She alone can tell them, that
it is of little importance what man may think of their conduct,
while the all-seeing Judge of the world approves of it. She alone
can present to them the view of another world; a world of more
candour, humanity, and justice, than the present; where their
innocence is in due time to be declared, and their virtue to be
finally rewarded: and the same great principle which can alone
strike terror into triumphant vice, affords the only effectual
consolation to disgraced and insulted innocence.
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| III.I.19 |
In smaller offences, as well as in greater crimes, it
frequently happens that a person of sensibility is much more hurt
by the unjust imputation, than the real criminal is by the actual
guilt. A woman of gallantry laughs even at the well-founded
surmises which are circulated concerning her conduct. The worst
founded surmise of the same kind is a mortal stab to an innocent
virgin. The person who is deliberately guilty of a disgraceful
action, we may lay it down, I believe, as a general rule, can
seldom have much sense of the disgrace; and the person who is
habitually guilty of it, can scarce ever have any.
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When every man, even of middling understanding, so readily
despises unmerited applause, how it comes to pass that unmerited
reproach should often be capable of mortifying so severely men of
the soundest and best judgment, may, perhaps, deserve some
consideration.
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| III.I.21 |
Pain, I have already had occasion to observe, is, in almost
all cases, a more pungent sensation than the opposite and
correspondent pleasure. The one, almost always, depresses us much
more below the ordinary, or what may be called the natural state
of our happiness, than the other ever raises us above it. A man
of sensibility is apt to be more humiliated by just censure than
he is ever elevated by just applause. Unmerited applause a wise
man rejects with contempt upon all occasions; but he often feels
very severely the injustice of unmerited censure. By suffering
himself to be applauded for what he has not performed, by
assuming a merit which does not belong to him, he feels that he
is guilty of a mean falsehood, and deserves, not the admiration,
but the contempt of those very persons who, by mistake, had been
led to admire him. It may, perhaps, give him some well-founded
pleasure to find that he has been, by many people, thought
capable of performing what he did not perform. But, though he may
be obliged to his friends for their good opinion, he would think
himself guilty of the greatest baseness if he did not immediately
undeceive them. It gives him little pleasure to look upon himself
in the light in which other people actually look upon him, when
he is conscious that, if they knew the truth, they would look
upon him in a very different light. A weak man, however, is often
much delighted with viewing himself in this false and delusive
light. He assumes the merit of every laudable action that is
ascribed to him, and pretends to that of many which nobody ever
thought of ascribing to him. He pretends to have done what he
never did, to have written what another wrote, to have invented
what another discovered; and is led into all the miserable vices
of plagiarism and common lying. But though no man of middling
good sense can derive much pleasure from the imputation of a
laudable action which he never performed, yet a wise man may
suffer great pain from the serious imputation of a crime which he
never committed. Nature, in this case, has rendered the pain, not
only more pungent than the opposite and correspondent pleasure,
but she has rendered it so in a much greater than the ordinary
degree. A denial rids a man at once of the foolish and ridiculous
pleasure; but it will not always rid him of the pain. When he
refuses the merit which is ascribed to him, nobody doubts his
veracity. It may be doubted when he denies the crime which he is
accused of. He is at once enraged at the falsehood of the
imputation, and mortified to find that any credit should be given
to it. He feels that his character is not sufficient to protect
him. He feels that his brethren, far from looking upon him in
that light in which he anxiously desires to be viewed by them,
think him capable of being guilty of what he is accused of. He
knows perfectly that he has not been guilty. He knows perfectly
what he has done; but, perhaps, scarce any man can know perfectly
what he himself is capable of doing. What the peculiar
constitution of his own mind may or may not admit of, is,
perhaps, more or less a matter of doubt to every man. The trust
and good opinion of his friends and neighbours, tends more than
any thing to relieve him from this most disagreeable doubt; their
distrust and unfavourable opinion to increase it. He may think
himself very confident that their unfavourable judgment is wrong:
but this confidence can seldom be so great as to hinder that
judgment from making some impression upon him; and the greater
his sensibility, the greater his delicacy, the greater his worth
in short, this impression is likely to be the greater.
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| III.I.22 |
The agreement or disagreement both of the sentiments and
judgments of other people with our own, is, in all cases, it must
be observed, of more or less importance to us, exactly in
proportion as we ourselves are more or less uncertain about the
propriety of our own sentiments, about the accuracy of our own
judgments.
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| III.I.23 |
A man of sensibility may sometimes feel great uneasiness lest
he should have yielded too much even to what may be called an
honourable passion; to his just indignation, perhaps, at the
injury which may have been done either to himself or to his
friend. He is anxiously afraid lest, meaning only to act with
spirit, and to do justice, he may, from the too great vehemence
of his emotion, have done a real injury to some other person;
who, though not innocent, may not have been altogether so guilty
as he at first apprehended. The opinion of other people becomes,
in this case, of the utmost importance to him. Their approbation
is the most healing balsam; their disapprobation, the bitterest
and most tormenting poison that can be poured into his uneasy
mind. When he is perfectly satisfied with every part of his own
conduct, the judgment of other people is often of less importance
to him.
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| III.I.24 |
There are some very noble and beautiful arts, in which the
degree of excellence can be determined only by a certain nicety
of taste, of which the decisions, however, appear always, in some
measure, uncertain. There are others, in which the success
admits, either of clear demonstration, or very satisfactory
proof. Among the candidates for excellence in those different
arts, the anxiety about the public opinion is always much greater
in the former than in the latter.
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| III.I.25 |
The beauty of poetry is a matter of such nicety, that a young
beginner can scarce ever be certain that he has attained it.
Nothing delights him so much, therefore, as the favourable
judgments of his friends and of the public; and nothing mortifies
him so severely as the contrary. The one establishes, the other
shakes, the good opinion which he is anxious to entertain
concerning his own performances. Experience and success may in
time give him a little more confidence in his own judgment. He is
at all times, however, liable to be most severely mortified by
the unfavourable judgments of the public. Racine was so disgusted
by the indifferent success of his Phaedra, the finest tragedy,
perhaps, that is extant in any language, that, though in the
vigour of his life, and at the height of his abilities, he
resolved to write no more for the stage. That great poet used
frequently to tell his son, that the most paltry and impertinent
criticism had always given him more pain, than the highest and
justest eulogy had ever given him pleasure. The extreme
sensibility of Voltaire to the slightest censure of the same kind
is well known to every body. The Dunciad of Mr. Pope is an
everlasting monument of how much the most correct, as well as the
most elegant and harmonious of all the English poets, had been
hurt by the criticisms of the lowest and most contemptible
authors. Gray (who joins to the sublimity of Milton the elegance
and harmony of Pope, and to whom nothing is wanting to render
him, perhaps, the first poet in the English language, but to have
written a little more) is said to have been so much hurt, by a
foolish and impertinent parody of two of his finest odes, that he
never afterwards attempted any considerable work. Those men of
letters who value themselves upon what is called fine writing in
prose, approach somewhat to the sensibility of poets.
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| III.I.26 |
Mathematicians, on the contrary, who may have the most
perfect assurance, both of the truth and of the importance of
their discoveries, are frequently very indifferent about the
reception which they may meet with from the public. The two
greatest mathematicians that I ever have had the honour to be
known to, and, I believe, the two greatest that have lived in my
time, Dr. Robert Simpson of Glasgow, and Dr. Matthew Stewart of
Edinburgh, never seemed to feel even the slightest uneasiness
from the neglect with which the ignorance of the public received
some of their most valuable works. The great work of Sir Isaac
Newton, his Mathematical Principles of Natural Philosophy, I have
been told, was for several years neglected by the public. The
tranquillity of that great man, it is probable, never suffered,
upon that account, the interruption of a single quarter of an
hour. Natural philosophers, in their independency upon the public
opinion, approach nearly to mathematicians, and, in their
judgments concerning the merit of their own discoveries and
observations, enjoy some degree of the same security and
tranquillity.
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| III.I.27 |
The morals of those different classes of men of letters are,
perhaps, sometimes somewhat affected by this very great
difference in their situation with regard to the public.
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| III.I.28 |
Mathematicians and natural philosophers, from their
independency upon the public opinion, have little temptation to
form themselves into factions and cabals, either for the support
of their own reputation, or for the depression of that of their
rivals. They are almost always men of the most amiable simplicity
of manners, who live in good harmony with one another, are the
friends of one another's reputation, enter into no intrigue in
order to secure the public applause, but are pleased when their
works are approved of, without being either much vexed or very
angry when they are neglected.
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| III.I.29 |
It is not always the same case with poets, or with those who
value themselves upon what is called fine writing. They are very
apt to divide themselves into a sort of literary factions; each
cabal being often avowedly, and almost always secretly, the
mortal enemy of the reputation of every other, and employing all
the mean arts of intrigue and solicitation to preoccupy the
public opinion in favour of the works of its own members, and
against those of its enemies and rivals. In France, Despreaux and
Racine did not think it below them to set themselves at the head
of a literary cabal, in order to depress the reputation, first of
Quinault and Perreault, and afterwards of Fontenelle and La
Motte, and even to treat the good La Fontaine with a species of
most disrespectful kindness. In England, the amiable Mr. Addison
did not think it unworthy of his gentle and modest character to
set himself at the head of a little cabal of the same kind, in
order to keep down the rising reputation of Mr. Pope. Mr. Fontenelle, in writing the lives and characters of the members of
the academy of sciences, a society of mathematicians and natural
philosophers, has frequent opportunities of celebrating the
amiable simplicity of their manners; a quality which, he
observes, was so universal among them as to be characteristical,
rather of that whole class of men of letters, than of any
individual Mr. D'Alembert, in writing the lives and characters of
the members of the French academy, a society of poets and fine
writers, or of those who are supposed to be such, seems not to
have had such frequent opportunities of making any remark of this
kind, and nowhere pretends to represent this amiable quality as
characteristical of that class of men of letters whom he
celebrates.
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| III.I.30 |
Our uncertainty concerning our own merit, and our anxiety to
think favourably of it, should together naturally enough make us
desirous to know the opinion of other people concerning it; to be
more than ordinarily elevated when that opinion is favourable,
and to be more than ordinarily mortified when it is otherwise:
but they should not make us desirous either of obtaining the
favourable, or of avoiding the unfavourable opinion, by intrigue
and cabal. When a man has bribed all the judges, the most
unanimous decision of the court, though it may gain him his
law-suit, cannot give him any assurance that he was in the right:
and had he carried on his lawsuit merely to satisfy himself that
he was in the right, he never would have bribed the judges. But
though he wished to find himself in the right, he wished likewise
to gain his law-suit; and therefore he bribed the judges. If
praise were of no consequence to us, but as a proof of our own
praiseworthiness, we never should endeavour to obtain it by
unfair means. But, though to wise men it is, at least in doubtful
cases, of principal consequence upon this account; it is likewise
of some consequence upon its own account: and therefore (we
cannot, indeed, upon such occasions, call them wise men, but) men
very much above the common level have sometimes attempted both to
obtain praise, and to avoid blame, by very unfair means.
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| III.I.31 |
Praise and blame express what actually are; praise-worthiness
and blameworthiness, what naturally ought to be the sentiments of
other people with regard to our character and conduct. The love
of praise is the desire of obtaining the favourable sentiments of
our brethren. The love of praiseworthiness is the desire of
rendering ourselves the proper objects of those sentiments. So
far those two principles resemble and are akin to one another.
The like affinity and resemblance take place between the dread of
blame and that of blame-worthiness.
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| III.I.32 |
The man who desires to do, or who actually does, a
praise-worthy action, may likewise desire the praise which is due
to it, and sometimes, perhaps, more than is due to it. The two
principles are in this case blended together. How far his conduct
may have been influenced by the one, and how far by the other,
may frequently be unknown even to himself. It must almost always
be so to other people. They who are disposed to lessen the merit
of his conduct, impute it chiefly or altogether to the mere love
of praise, or to what they call mere vanity. They who are
disposed to think more favourably of it, impute it chiefly or
altogether to the love of praise-worthiness; to the love of what
is really honourable and noble in human conduct; to the desire,
not merely of obtaining, but of deserving the approbation and
applause of his brethren. The imagination of the spectator throws
upon it either the one colour or the other, according either to
his habits of thinking, or to the favour or dislike which he may
bear to the person whose conduct he is considering.
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| III.I.33 |
Some splenetic philosophers, in judging of human nature, have
done as peevish individuals are apt to do in judging of the
conduct of one another, and have imputed to the love of praise,
or to what they call vanity , every action which ought to be
ascribed to that of praise-worthiness. I shall hereafter have
occasion to give an account of some of their systems, and shall
not at present stop to examine them.
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| III.I.34 |
Very few men can be satisfied with their own private
consciousness that they have attained those qualities, or
performed those actions, which they admire and think
praise-worthy in other people; unless it is, at the same time,
generally acknowledged that they possess the one, or have
performed the other; or, in other words, unless they have
actually obtained that praise which they think due both to the
one and to the other. In this respect, however, men differ
considerably from one another. Some seem indifferent about the
praise, when, in their own minds, they are perfectly satisfied
that they have attained the praise-worthiness. Others appear much
less anxious about the praise-worthiness than about the praise.
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| III.I.35 |
No man can be completely, or even tolerably satisfied, with
having avoided every thing blame-worthy in his conduct; unless he
has likewise avoided the blame or the reproach. A wise man may
frequently neglect praise, even when he has best deserved it;
but, in all matters of serious consequence, he will most
carefully endeavour so to regulate his conduct as to avoid, not
only blame-worthiness, but, as much as possible, every probable
imputation of blame. He will never, indeed, avoid blame by doing
any thing which he judges blame-worthy; by omitting any part of
his duty, or by neglecting any opportunity of doing any thing
which he judges to be really and greatly praise-worthy. But, with
these modifications, he will most anxiously and carefully avoid
it. To show much anxiety about praise, even for praise-worthy
actions, is seldom a mark of great wisdom, but generally of some
degree of weakness. But, in being anxious to avoid the shadow of
blame or reproach, there may be no weakness, but frequently the
most praise-worthy prudence.
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| III.I.36 |
'Many people,' says Cicero, 'despise glory, who are yet most
severely mortified by unjust reproach; and that most
inconsistently.' This inconsistency, however, seems to be founded
in the unalterable principles of human nature.
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| III.I.37 |
The all-wise Author of Nature has, in this manner, taught man
to respect the sentiments and judgments of his brethren; to be
more or less pleased when they approve of his conduct, and to be
more or less hurt when they disapprove of it. He has made man, if
I may say so, the immediate judge of mankind; and has, in this
respect, as in many others, created him after his own image, and
appointed him his vicegerent upon earth, to superintend the
behaviour of his brethren. They are taught by nature, to
acknowledge that power and jurisdiction which has thus been
conferred upon him, to be more or less humbled and mortified when
they have incurred his censure, and to be more or less elated
when they have obtained his applause.
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| III.I.38 |
But though man has, in this manner, been rendered the
immediate judge of mankind, he has been rendered so only in the
first instance; and an appeal lies from his sentence to a much
higher tribunal, to the tribunal of their own consciences, to
that of the supposed impartial and well-informed spectator, to
that of the man within the breast, the great judge and arbiter of
their conduct. The jurisdictions of those two tribunals are
founded upon principles which, though in some respects resembling
and akin, are, however, in reality different and distinct. The
jurisdiction of the man without, is founded altogether in the
desire of actual praise, and in the aversion to actual blame. The
jurisdiction of the man within, is founded altogether in the
desire of praise-worthiness, and in the aversion to
blame-worthiness; in the desire of possessing those qualities,
and performing those actions, which we love and admire in other
people; and in the dread of possessing those qualities, and
performing those actions, which we hate and despise in other
people. If the man without should applaud us, either for actions
which we have not performed, or for motives which had no
influence upon us; the man within can immediately humble that
pride and elevation of mind which such groundless acclamations
might otherwise occasion, by telling us, that as we know that we
do not deserve them, we render ourselves despicable by accepting
them. If, on the contrary, the man without should reproach us,
either for actions which we never performed, or for motives which
had no influence upon those which we may have performed; the man
within may immediately correct this false judgment, and assure
us, that we are by no means the proper objects of that censure
which has so unjustly been bestowed upon us. But in this and in
some other cases, the man within seems sometimes, as it were,
astonished and confounded by the vehemence and clamour of the man
without. The violence and loudness, with which blame is sometimes
poured out upon us, seems to stupify and benumb our natural sense
of praise-worthiness and blame-worthiness; and the judgments of
the man within, though not, perhaps, absolutely altered or
perverted, are, however, so much shaken in the steadiness and
firmness of their decision, that their natural effect, in
securing the tranquillity of the mind, is frequently in a great
measure destroyed. We scarce dare to absolve ourselves, when all
our brethren appear loudly to condemn us. The supposed impartial
spectator of our conduct seems to give his opinion in our favour
with fear and hesitation; when that of all the real spectators,
when that of all those with whose eyes and from whose station he
endeavours to consider it, is unanimously and violently against
us. In such cases, this demigod within the breast appears, like
the demigods of the poets, though partly of immortal, yet partly
too of mortal extraction. When his judgments are steadily and
firmly directed by the sense of praiseworthiness and
blame-worthiness, he seems to act suitably to his divine
extraction: But when he suffers himself to be astonished and
confounded by the judgments of ignorant and weak man, he
discovers his connexion with mortality, and appears to act
suitably, rather to the human, than to the divine, part of his
origin.
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| III.I.39 |
In such cases, the only effectual consolation of humbled and
afflicted man lies in an appeal to a still higher tribunal, to
that of the all-seeing Judge of the world, whose eye can never be
deceived, and whose judgments can never be perverted. A firm
confidence in the unerring rectitude of this great tribunal,
before which his innocence is in due time to be declared, and his
virtue to be finally rewarded, can alone support him under the
weakness and despondency of his own mind, under the perturbation
and astonishment of the man within the breast, whom nature has
set up as, in this life, the great guardian, not only of his
innocence, but of his tranquillity. Our happiness in this life is
thus, upon many occasions, dependent upon the humble hope and
expectation of a life to come: a hope and expectation deeply
rooted in human nature; which can alone support its lofty ideas
of its own dignity; can alone illumine the dreary prospect of its
continually approaching mortality, and maintain its cheerfulness
under all the heaviest calamities to which, from the disorders of
this life, it may sometimes be exposed. That there is a world to
come, where exact justice will be done to every man, where every
man will be ranked with those who, in the moral and intellectual
qualities, are really his equals; where the owner of those humble
talents and virtues which, from being depressed by fortune, had,
in this life, no opportunity of displaying themselves; which were
unknown, not only to the public, but which he himself could
scarce be sure that he possessed, and for which even the man
within the breast could scarce venture to afford him any distinct
and clear testimony; where that modest, silent, and unknown
merit, will be placed upon a level, and sometimes above those
who, in this world, had enjoyed the highest reputation, and who,
from the advantage of their situation, had been enabled to
perform the most splendid and dazzling actions; is a doctrine, in
every respect so venerable, so comfortable to the weakness, so
flattering to the grandeur of human nature, that the virtuous man
who has the misfortune to doubt of it, cannot possibly avoid
wishing most earnestly and anxiously to believe it. It could
never have been exposed to the derision of the scoffer, had not
the distributions of rewards and punishments, which some of its
most zealous assertors have taught us was to be made in that
world to come, been too frequently in direct opposition to all
our moral sentiments.
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| III.I.40 |
That the assiduous courtier is often more favoured than the
faithful and active servant; that attendance and adulation are
often shorter and surer roads to preferment than merit or
service; and that a campaign at Versailles or St. James's is often
worth two either in Germany or Flanders, is a complaint which we
have all heard from many a venerable, but discontented, old
officer. But what is considered as the greatest reproach even to
the weakness of earthly sovereigns, has been ascribed, as an act
of justice, to divine perfection; and the duties of devotion, the
public and private worship of the Deity, have been represented,
even by men of virtue and abilities, as the sole virtues which
can either entitle to reward or exempt from punishment in the
life to come. They were the virtues, perhaps, most suitable to
their station, and in which they themselves chiefly excelled; and
we are all naturally disposed to over-rate the excellencies of
our own characters. In the discourse which the eloquent and
philosophical Massillon pronounced, on giving his benediction to
the standards of the regiment of Catinat, there is the following
address to the officers: 'What is most deplorable in your
situation, Gentlemen, is, that in a life hard and painful, in
which the services and the duties sometimes go beyond the rigour
and severity. of the most austere cloisters; you suffer always in
vain for the life to come, and frequently even for this life.
Alas! the solitary monk in his cell, obliged to mortify the flesh
and to subject it to the spirit, is supported by the hope of an
assured recompence, and by the secret unction of that grace which
softens the yoke of the Lord. But you, on the bed of death, can
you dare to represent to Him your fatigues and the daily
hardships of your employment? can you dare to solicit Him for any
recompence? and in all the exertions that you have made, in all
the violences that you have done to yourselves, what is there
that He ought to place to His own account? The best days of your
life, however, have been sacrificed to your profession, and ten
years service has more worn out your body, than would, perhaps,
have done a whole life of repentance and mortification. Alas! my
brother, one single day of those sufferings, consecrated to the
Lord, would, perhaps, have obtained you an eternal happiness. One
single action, painful to nature, and offered up to Him, would,
perhaps, have secured to you the inheritance of the Saints. And
you have done all this, and in vain, for this world.'
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| III.I.41 |
To compare, in this manner, the futile mortifications of a
monastery, to the ennobling hardships and hazards of war; to
suppose that one day, or one hour, employed in the former should,
in the eye of the great Judge of the world, have more merit than
a whole life spent honourably in the latter, is surely contrary
to all our moral sentiments; to all the principles by which
nature has taught us to regulate our contempt or admiration. It
is this spirit, however, which, while it has reserved the
celestial regions for monks and friars, or for those whose
conduct and conversation resembled those of monks and friars, has
condemned to the infernal all the heroes, all the statesmen and
lawgivers, all the poets and philosophers of former ages; all
those who have invented, improved, or excelled in the arts which
contribute to the subsistence, to the conveniency, or to the
ornament of human life; all the great protectors, instructors,
and benefactors of mankind; all those to whom our natural sense
of praise-worthiness forces us to ascribe the highest merit and
most exalted virtue. Can we wonder that so strange an application
of this most respectable doctrine should sometimes have exposed
it to contempt and derision; with those at least who had
themselves, perhaps, no great taste or turn for the devout and
contemplative virtues?*6
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| III.I.42 |
Chap. III
Of the Influences and Authority of Conscience
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But though the approbation of his own conscience can scarce,
upon some extraordinary occasions, content the weakness of man;
though the testimony of the supposed impartial spectator, of the
great inmate of the breast, cannot always alone support him; yet
the influence and authority of this principle is, upon all
occasions, very great; and it is only by consulting this judge
within, that we can ever see what relates to ourselves in its
proper shape and dimensions; or that we can ever make any proper
comparison between our own interests and those of other people.
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| III.I.43 |
As to the eye of the body, objects appear great or small, not
so much according to their real dimensions, as according to the
nearness or distance of their situation; so do they likewise to
what may be called the natural eye of the mind: and we remedy the
defects of both these organs pretty much in the same manner. In
my present situation an immense landscape of lawns, and woods,
and distant mountains, seems to do no more than cover the little
window which I write by and to be out of all proportion less than
the chamber in which I am sitting. I can form a just comparison
between those great objects and the little objects around me, in
no other way, than by transporting myself, at least in fancy, to
a different station, from whence I can survey both at nearly
equal distances, and thereby form some judgment of their real
proportions. Habit and experience have taught me to do this so
easily and so readily, that I am scarce sensible that I do it;
and a man must be, in some measure, acquainted with the
philosophy of vision, before he can be thoroughly convinced, how
little those distant objects would appear to the eye, if the
imagination, from a knowledge of their real magnitudes, did not
swell and dilate them.
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| III.I.44 |
In the same manner, to the selfish and original passions of
human nature, the loss or gain of a very small interest of our
own, appears to be of vastly more importance, excites a much more
passionate joy or sorrow, a much more ardent desire or aversion,
than the greatest concern of another with whom we have no
particular connexion. His interests, as long as they are surveyed
from this station, can never be put into the balance with our
own, can never restrain us from doing. whatever may tend to
promote our own, how ruinous soever to him. Before we can make
any proper comparison of those opposite interests, we must change
our position. We must view them, neither from our own place nor
yet from his, neither with our own eyes nor yet with his, but
from the place and with the eyes of a third person, who has no
particular connexion with either, and who judges with
impartiality between us. Here, too, habit and experience have
taught us to do this so easily and so readily, that we are scarce
sensible that we do it; and it requires, in this case too, some
degree of reflection, and even of philosophy, to convince us, how
little interest we should take in the greatest concerns of our
neighbour, how little we should be affected by whatever relates
to him, if the sense of propriety and justice did not correct the
otherwise natural inequality of our sentiments.
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| III.I.45 |
Let us suppose that the great empire of China, with all its
myriads of inhabitants, was suddenly swallowed up by an
earthquake, and let us consider how a man of humanity in Europe,
who had no sort of connexion with that part of the world, would
be affected upon receiving intelligence of this dreadful
calamity. He would, I imagine, first of all, express very
strongly his sorrow for the misfortune of that unhappy people, he
would make many melancholy reflections upon the precariousness of
human life, and the vanity of all the labours of man, which could
thus be annihilated in a moment. He would too, perhaps, if he was
a man of speculation, enter into many reasonings concerning the
effects which this disaster might produce upon the commerce of
Europe, and the trade and business of the world in general. And
when all this fine philosophy was over, when all these humane
sentiments had been once fairly expressed, he would pursue his
business or his pleasure, take his repose or his diversion, with
the same ease and tranquillity, as if no such accident had
happened. The most frivolous disaster which could befal himself
would occasion a more real disturbance. If he was to lose his
little finger to-morrow, he would not sleep to-night; but,
provided he never saw them, he will snore with the most profound
security over the ruin of a hundred millions of his brethren, and
the destruction of that immense multitude seems plainly an object
less interesting to him, than this paltry misfortune of his own.
To prevent, therefore, this paltry misfortune to himself, would a
man of humanity be willing to sacrifice the lives of a hundred
millions of his brethren, provided he had never seen them? Human
nature startles with horror at the thought, and the world, in its
greatest depravity and corruption, never produced such a villain
as could be capable of entertaining it. But what makes this
difference? When our passive feelings are almost always so sordid
and so selfish, how comes it that our active principles should
often be so generous and so noble? When we are always so much
more deeply affected by whatever concerns ourselves, than by
whatever concerns other men; what is it which prompts the
generous, upon all occasions, and the mean upon many, to
sacrifice their own interests to the greater interests of others?
It is not the soft power of humanity, it is not that feeble spark
of benevolence which Nature has lighted up in the human heart,
that is thus capable of counteracting the strongest impulses of
self-love. It is a stronger power, a more forcible motive, which
exerts itself upon such occasions. It is reason, principle,
conscience, the inhabitant of the breast, the man within, the
great judge and arbiter of our conduct. It is he who, whenever we
are about to act so as to affect the happiness of others, calls
to us, with a voice capable of astonishing the most presumptuous
of our passions, that we are but one of the multitude, in no
respect better than any other in it; and that when we prefer
ourselves so shamefully and so blindly to others, we become the
proper objects of resentment, abhorrence, and execration. It is
from him only that we learn the real littleness of ourselves, and
of whatever relates to ourselves, and the natural
misrepresentations of self-love can be corrected only by the eye
of this impartial spectator. It is he who shows us the propriety
of generosity and the deformity of injustice; the propriety of
resigning the greatest interests of our own, for the yet greater
interests of others, and the deformity of doing the smallest
injury to another, in order to obtain the greatest benefit to
ourselves. It is not the love of our neighbour, it is not the
love of mankind, which upon many occasions prompts us to the
practice of those divine virtues. It is a stronger love, a more
powerful affection, which generally takes place upon such
occasions; the love of what is honourable and noble, of the
grandeur, and dignity, and superiority of our own characters.
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| III.I.46 |
When the happiness or misery of others depends in any respect
upon our conduct, we dare not, as self-love might suggest to us,
prefer the interest of one to that of many. The man within
immediately calls to us, that we value ourselves too much and
other people too little, and that, by doing so, we render
ourselves the proper object of the contempt and indignation of
our brethren. Neither is this sentiment confined to men of
extraordinary magnanimity and virtue. It is deeply impressed upon
every tolerably good soldier, who feels that he would become the
scorn of his companions, if he could be supposed capable of
shrinking from danger, or of hesitating, either to expose or to
throw away his life, when the good of the service required it.
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| III.I.47 |
One individual must never prefer himself so much even to any
other individual, as to hurt or injure that other, in order to
benefit himself, though the benefit to the one should be much
greater than the hurt or injury to the other. The poor man must
neither defraud nor steal from the rich, though the acquisition
might be much more beneficial to the one than the loss could be
hurtful to the other. The man within immediately calls to him, in
this case too, that he is no better than his neighbour, and that
by this unjust preference he renders himself the proper object of
the contempt and indignation of mankind; as well as of the
punishment which that contempt and indignation must naturally
dispose them to inflict, for having thus violated one of those
sacred rules, upon the tolerable observation of which depend the
whole security and peace of human society. There is no commonly
honest man who does not more dread the inward disgrace of such an
action, the indelible stain which it would for ever stamp upon
his own mind, than the greatest external calamity which, without
any fault of his own, could possibly befal him; and who does not
inwardly feel the truth of that great stoical maxim, that for one
man to deprive another unjustly of any thing, or unjustly to
promote his own advantage by the loss or disadvantage of another,
is more contrary to nature, than death, than poverty, than pain,
than all the misfortunes which can affect him, either in his
body, or in his external circumstances.
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| III.I.48 |
When the happiness or misery of others, indeed, in no respect
depends upon our conduct, when our interests are altogether
separated and detached from theirs, so that there is neither
connexion nor competition between them, we do not always think it
so necessary to restrain, either our natural and, perhaps,
improper anxiety about our own affairs, or our natural and,
perhaps, equally improper indifference about those of other men.
The most vulgar education teaches us to act, upon all important
occasions, with some sort of impartiality between ourselves and
others, and even the ordinary commerce of the world is capable of
adjusting our active principles to some degree of propriety. But
it is the most artificial and refined education only, it has been
said, which can correct the inequalities of our passive feelings;
and we must for this purpose, it has been pretended, have
recourse to the severest, as well as to the profoundest
philosophy.
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| III.I.49 |
Two different sets of philosophers have attempted to teach us
this hardest of all the lessons of morality. One set have
laboured to increase our sensibility to the interests of others;
another, to diminish that to our own. The first would have us
feel for others as we naturally feel for ourselves. The second
would have us feel for ourselves as we naturally feel for others.
Both, perhaps, have carried their doctrines a good deal beyond
the just standard of nature and propriety.
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| III.I.50 |
The first are those whining and melancholy moralists, who are
perpetually reproaching us with our happiness, while so many of
our brethren are in misery, *7who regard as impious the
natural joy of prosperity, which does not think of the many
wretches that are at every instant labouring under all sorts of
calamities, in the languor of poverty, in the agony of disease,
in the horrors of death, under the insults and oppression of
their enemies. Commiseration for those miseries which we never
saw, which we never heard of, but which we may be assured are at
all times infesting such numbers of our fellow-creatures, ought,
they think, to damp the pleasures of the fortunate, and to render
a certain melancholy dejection habitual to all men. But first of
all, this extreme sympathy with misfortunes which we know nothing
about, seems altogether absurd and unreasonable. Take the whole
earth at an average, for one man who suffers pain or misery, you
will find twenty in prosperity and joy, or at least in tolerable
circumstances. No reason, surely, can be assigned why we should
rather weep with the one than rejoice with the twenty. This
artificial commiseration, besides, is not only absurd, but seems
altogether unattainable; and those who affect this character have
commonly nothing but a certain affected and sentimental sadness,
which, without reaching the heart, serves only to render the
countenance and conversation impertinently dismal and
disagreeable. And last of all, this disposition of mind, though
it could be attained, would be perfectly useless, and could serve
no other purpose than to render miserable the person who
possessed it. Whatever interest we take in the fortune of those
with whom we have no acquaintance or connexion, and who are
placed altogether out of the sphere of our activity, can produce
only anxiety to ourselves, without any manner of advantage to
them. To what purpose should we trouble ourselves about the world
in the moon? All men, even those at the greatest distance, are no
doubt entitled to our good wishes, and our good wishes we
naturally give them. But if, notwithstanding, they should be
unfortunate, to give ourselves any anxiety upon that account,
seems to be no part of our duty. That we should be but little
interested, therefore, in the fortune of those whom we can
neither serve nor hurt, and who are in every respect so very
remote from us, seems wisely ordered by Nature; and if it were
possible to alter in this respect the original constitution of
our frame, we could yet gain nothing by the change.
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| III.I.51 |
It is never objected to us that we have too little
fellow-feeling with the joy of success. Wherever envy does not
prevent it, the favour which we bear to prosperity is rather apt
to be too great; and the same moralists who blame us for want of
sufficient sympathy with the miserable, reproach us for the
levity with which we are too apt to admire and almost to worship
the fortunate, the powerful, and the rich.
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| III.I.52 |
Among the moralists who endeavour to correct the natural
inequality of our passive feelings by diminishing our sensibility
to what peculiarly concerns ourselves, we may count all the
ancient sects of philosophers, but particularly the ancient
Stoics. Man, according to the Stoics, ought to regard himself,
not as something separated and detached, but as a citizen of the
world, a member of the vast commonwealth of nature. To the
interest of this great community, he ought at all times to be
willing that his own little interest should be sacrificed.
Whatever concerns himself, ought to affect him no more than
whatever concerns any other equally important part of this
immense system. We should view ourselves, not in the light in
which our own selfish passions are apt to place us, but in the
light in which any other citizen of the world would view us. What
befalls ourselves we should regard as what befalls our neighbour,
or, what comes to the same thing, as our neighbour regards what
befalls us. 'When our neighbour,' says Epictetus, 'loses his
wife, or his son, there is nobody who is not sensible that this
is a human calamity, a natural event altogether according to the
ordinary course of things; but, when the same thing happens to
ourselves, then we cry out, as if we had suffered the most
dreadful misfortune. We ought, however, to remember how we were
affected when this accident happened to another, and such as we
were in his case, such ought we to be in our own.'
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| III.I.53 |
Those private misfortunes, for which our feelings are apt to
go beyond the bounds of propriety, are of two different kinds.
They are either such as affect us only indirectly, by affecting,
in the first place, some other persons who are particularly dear
to us; such as our parents, our children, our brothers and
sisters, our intimate friends; or they are such as affect
ourselves immediately and directly, either in our body, in our
fortune, or in our reputation; such as pain, sickness,
approaching death, poverty, disgrace, etc.
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| III.I.54 |
In misfortunes of the first kind, our emotions may, no doubt,
go very much beyond what exact propriety will admit of; but they
may likewise fall short of it, and they frequently do so. The man
who should feel no more for the death or distress of his own
father, or son, than for those of any other man's father or son,
would appear neither a good son nor a good father. Such unnatural
indifference, far from exciting our applause, would incur our
highest disapprobation. Of those domestic affections, however,
some are most apt to offend by their excess, and others by their
defect. Nature, for the wisest purposes, has rendered, in most
men, perhaps in all men, parental tenderness a much stronger
affection than filial piety. The continuance and propagation of
the species depend altogether upon the former, and not upon the
latter. In ordinary cases, the existence and preservation of the
child depend altogether upon the care of the parents. Those of
the parents seldom depend upon that of the child. Nature,
therefore, has rendered the former affection so strong, that it
generally requires not to be excited, but to be moderated; and
moralists seldom endeavour to teach us how to indulge, but
generally how to restrain our fondness, our excessive attachment,
the unjust preference which we are disposed to give to our own
children above those of other people. They exhort us, on the
contrary, to an affectionate attention to our parents, and to
make a proper return to them, in their old age, for the kindness
which they had shown to us in our infancy and youth. In the
Decalogue we are commanded to honour our fathers and mothers. No
mention is made of the love of our children. Nature had
sufficiently prepared us for the performance of this latter duty.
Men are seldom accused of affecting to be fonder of their
children than they really are. They have sometimes been suspected
of displaying their piety to their parents with too much
ostentation. The ostentatious sorrow of widows has, for a like
reason, been suspected of insincerity. We should respect, could
we believe it sincere, even the excess of such kind affections;
and though we might not perfectly approve, we should not severely
condemn it. That it appears praise-worthy, at least in the eyes
of those who affect it, the very affectation is a proof.
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| III.I.55 |
Even the excess of those kind affections which are most apt
to offend by their excess, though it may appear blameable, never
appears odious. We blame the excessive fondness and anxiety of a
parent, as something which may, in the end, prove hurtful to the
child, and which, in the mean time, is excessively inconvenient
to the parent; but we easily pardon it, and never regard it with
hatred and detestation. But the defect of this usually excessive
affection appears always peculiarly odious. The man who appears
to feel nothing for his own children, but who treats them upon
all occasions with unmerited severity and harshness, seems of all
brutes the most detestable. The sense of propriety, so far from
requiring us to eradicate altogether that extraordinary
sensibility, which we naturally feel for the misfortunes of our
nearest connections, is always much more offended by the defect,
than it ever is by the excess of that sensibility. The stoical
apathy is, in such cases, never agreeable, and all the
metaphysical sophisms by which it is supported can seldom serve
any other purpose than to blow up the hard insensibility of a
coxcomb to ten times its native impertinence. The poets and
romance writers, who best paint the refinements and delicacies of
love and friendship, and of all other private and domestic
affections, Racine and Voltaire; Richardson, Maurivaux, and
Riccoboni; are, in such cases, much better instructors than Zeno,
Chrysippus, or Epictetus.
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| III.I.56 |
That moderated sensibility to the misfortunes of others,
which does not disqualify us for the performance of any duty; the
melancholy and affectionate remembrance of our departed friends;
the pang, as Gray says, to secret sorrow dear; are by no means
undelicious sensations. Though they outwardly wear the features
of pain and grief, they are all inwardly stamped with the
ennobling characters of virtue and self-approbation.
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| III.I.57 |
It is otherwise in the misfortunes which affect ourselves
immediately and directly, either in our body, in our fortune, or
in our reputation. The sense of propriety is much more apt to be
offended by the excess, than by the defect of our sensibility,
and there are but very few cases in which we can approach too
near to the stoical apathy and indifference.
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| III.I.58 |
That we have very little fellow-feeling with any of the
passions which take their origin from the body, has already been
observed. That pain which is occasioned by an evident cause; such
as, the cutting or tearing of the flesh; is, perhaps, the
affection of the body with which the spectator feels the most
lively sympathy. The approaching death of his neighbour, too,
seldom fails to affect him a good deal. In both cases, however,
he feels so very little in comparison of what the person
principally concerned feels, that the latter can scarce ever
offend the former by appearing to suffer with too much ease.
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| III.I.59 |
The mere want of fortune, mere poverty, excites little
compassion. Its complaints are too apt to be the objects rather
of contempt than of fellow-feeling. We despise a beggar; and,
though his importunities may extort an alms from us, he is scarce
ever the object of any serious commiseration. The fall from
riches to poverty, as it commonly occasions the most real
distress to the sufferer, so it seldom fails to excite the most
sincere commiseration in the spectator. Though, in the present
state of society, this misfortune can seldom happen without some
misconduct, and some very considerable misconduct too, in the
sufferer; yet he is almost always so much pitied that he is
scarce ever allowed to fall into the lowest state of poverty; but
by the means of his friends, frequently by the indulgence of
those very creditors who have much reason to complain of his
imprudence, is almost always supported in some degree of decent,
though humble, mediocrity. To persons under such misfortunes, we
could, perhaps, easily pardon some degree of weakness; but, at
the same time, they who carry the firmest countenance, who
accommodate themselves with the greatest ease to their new
situation, who seem to feel no humiliation from the change, but
to rest their rank in the society, not upon their fortune, but
upon their character and conduct, are always the most approved
of, and never fail to command our highest and most affectionate
admiration.
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| III.I.60 |
As, of all the external misfortunes which can affect an
innocent man immediately and directly, the undeserved loss of
reputation is certainly the greatest; so a considerable degree of
sensibility to whatever can bring on so great a calamity, does
not always appear ungraceful or disagreeable. We often esteem a
young man the more, when he resents, though with some degree of
violence, any unjust reproach that may have been thrown upon his
character or his honour. The affliction of an innocent young
lady, on account of the groundless surmises which may have been
circulated concerning her conduct, appears often perfectly
amiable. Persons of an advanced age, whom long experience of the
folly and injustice of the world, has taught to pay little
regard, either to its censure or to its applause, neglect and
despise obloquy, and do not even deign to honour its futile
authors with any serious resentment. This indifference, which is
founded altogether on a firm confidence in their own well-tried
and well-established characters, would be disagreeable in young
people, who neither can nor ought to have any such confidence. It
might in them be supposed to forebode, in their advancing years,
a most improper insensibility to real honour and infamy.
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| III.I.61 |
In all other private misfortunes which affect ourselves
immediately and directly, we can very seldom offend by appearing
to be too little affected. We frequently remember our sensibility
to the misfortunes of others with pleasure and satisfaction. We
can seldom remember that to our own, without some degree of shame
and humiliation.
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| III.I.62 |
If we examine the different shades and gradations of weakness
and self-command, as we meet with them in common life, we shall
very easily satisfy ourselves that this control of our passive
feelings must be acquired, not from the abstruse syllogisms of a
quibbling dialectic, but from that great discipline which Nature
has established for the acquisition of this and of every other
virtue; a regard to the sentiments of the real or supposed
spectator of our conduct.
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| III.I.63 |
A very young child has no self-command; but, whatever are its
emotions, whether fear, or grief, or anger, it endeavours always,
by the violence of its outcries, to alarm, as much as it can, the
attention of its nurse, or of its parents. While it remains under
the custody of such partial protectors, its anger is the first
and, perhaps, the only passion which it is taught to moderate. By
noise and threatening they are, for their own ease, often obliged
to frighten it into good temper; and the passion which incites it
to attack, is restrained by that which teaches it to attend to
its own safety. When it is old enough to go to school, or to mix
with its equals, it soon finds that they have no such indulgent
partiality. It naturally wishes to gain their favour, and to
avoid their hatred or contempt. Regard even to its own safety
teaches it to do so; and it soon finds that it can do so in no
other way than by moderating, not only its anger, but all its
other passions, to the degree which its play-fellows and
companions are likely to be pleased with. It thus enters into the
great school of self-command, it studies to be more and more
master of itself, and begins to exercise over its own feelings a
discipline which the practice of the longest life is very seldom
sufficient to bring to complete perfection.
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| III.I.64 |
In all private misfortunes, in pain, in sickness, in sorrow,
the weakest man, when his friend, and still more when a stranger
visits him, is immediately impressed with the view in which they
are likely to look upon his situation. Their view calls off his
attention from his own view; and his breast is, in some measure,
becalmed the moment they come into his presence. This effect is
produced instantaneously and, as it were, mechanically; but, with
a weak man, it is not of long continuance. His own view of his
situation immediately recurs upon him. He abandons himself, as
before, to sighs and tears and lamentations; and endeavours, like
a child that has not yet gone to school, to produce some sort of
harmony between his own grief and the compassion of the
spectator, not by moderating the former, but by importunately
calling upon the latter.
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| III.I.65 |
With a man of a little more firmness, the effect is somewhat
more permanent. He endeavours, as much as he can, to fix his
attention upon the view which the company are likely to take of
his situation. He feels, at the same time, the esteem and
approbation which they naturally conceive for him when he thus
preserves his tranquillity; and, though under the pressure of
some recent and great calamity, appears to feel for himself no
more than what they really feel for him. He approves and applauds
himself by sympathy with their approbation, and the pleasure
which he derives from this sentiment supports and enables him
more easily to continue this generous effort. In most cases he
avoids mentioning his own misfortune; and his company, if they
are tolerably well bred, are careful to say nothing which can put
him in mind of it. He endeavours to entertain them, in his usual
way, upon indifferent subjects, or, if he feels himself strong
enough to venture to mention his misfortune, he endeavours to
talk of it as, he thinks, they are capable of talking of it, and
even to feel it no further than they are capable of feeling it.
If he has not, however, been well inured to the hard discipline
of self-command, he soon grows weary of this restraint. A long
visit fatigues him; and, towards the end of it, he is constantly
in danger of doing, what he never fails to do the moment it is
over, of abandoning himself to all the weakness of excessive
sorrow. Modern good manners, which are extremely indulgent to
human weakness, forbid, for some time, the visits of strangers to
persons under great family distress, and permit those only of the
nearest relations and most intimate friends. The presence of the
latter, it is thought, will impose less restraint than that of
the former; and the sufferers can more easily accommodate
themselves to the feelings of those, from whom they have reason
to expect a more indulgent sympathy. Secret enemies, who fancy
that they are not known to be such, are frequently fond of making
those charitable visits as early as the most intimate friends.
The weakest man in the world, in this case, endeavours to support
his manly countenance, and, from indignation and contempt of
their malice, to behave with as much gaiety and ease as he can.
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| III.I.66 |
The man of real constancy and firmness, the wise and just man
who has been thoroughly bred in the great school of self-command,
in the bustle and business of the world, exposed, perhaps, to the
violence and injustice of faction, and to the hardships and
hazards of war, maintains this control of his passive feelings
upon all occasions; and whether in solitude or in society, wears
nearly the same countenance, and is affected very nearly in the
same manner. In success and in disappointment, in prosperity and
in adversity, before friends and before enemies, he has often
been under the necessity of supporting this manhood. He has never
dared to forget for one moment the judgment which the impartial
spectator would pass upon his sentiments and conduct. He has
never dared to suffer the man within the breast to be absent one
moment from his attention. With the eyes of this great inmate he
has always been accustomed to regard whatever relates to himself.
This habit has become perfectly familiar to him. He has been in
the constant practice, and, indeed, under the constant necessity,
of modelling, or of endeavouring to model, not only his outward
conduct and behaviour, but, as much as he can, even his inward
sentiments and feelings, according to those of this awful and
respectable judge. He does not merely affect the sentiments of
the impartial spectator. He really adopts them. He almost
identifies himself with, he almost becomes himself that impartial
spectator, and scarce even feels but as that great arbiter of his
conduct directs him to feel.
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| III.I.67 |
The degree of the self-approbation with which every man, upon
such occasions, surveys his own conduct, is higher or lower,
exactly in proportion to the degree of self-command which is
necessary in order to obtain that self-approbation. Where little
self-command is necessary, little self-approbation is due. The
man who has only scratched his finger, cannot much applaud
himself, though he should immediately appear to have forgot this
paltry misfortune. The man who has lost his leg by a cannon shot,
and who, the moment after, speaks and acts with his usual
coolness and tranquillity, as he exerts a much higher degree of
self-command, so he naturally feels a much higher degree of
self-approbation. With most men, upon such an accident, their own
natural view of their own misfortune would force itself upon them
with such a vivacity and strength of colouring, as would entirely
efface all thought of every other view. They would feel nothing,
they could attend to nothing, but their own pain and their own
fear; and not only the judgment of the ideal man within the
breast, but that of the real spectators who might happen to be
present, would be entirely overlooked and disregarded.
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| III.I.68 |
The reward which Nature bestows upon good behaviour under
misfortune, is thus exactly proportioned to the degree of that
good behaviour. The only compensation she could possibly make for
the bitterness of pain and distress is thus too, in equal degrees
of good behaviour, exactly proportioned to the degree of that
pain and distress. In proportion to the degree of the
self-command which is necessary in order to conquer our natural
sensibility, the pleasure and pride of the conquest are so much
the greater; and this pleasure and pride are so great that no man
can be altogether unhappy who completely enjoys them. Misery and
wretchedness can never enter the breast in which dwells complete
self-satisfaction; and though it may be too much, perhaps, to
say, with the Stoics, that, under such an accident as that above
mentioned, the happiness of a wise man is in every respect equal
to what it could have been under any other circumstances; yet it
must be acknowledged, at least, that this complete enjoyment of
his own self-applause, though it may not altogether extinguish,
must certainly very much alleviate his sense of his own
sufferings.
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| III.I.69 |
In such paroxysms of distress, if I may be allowed to call
them so, the wisest and firmest man, in order to preserve his
equanimity, is obliged, I imagine, to make a considerable, and
even a painful exertion. His own natural feeling of his own
distress, his own natural view of his own situation, presses hard
upon him, and he cannot, without a very great effort, fix his
attention upon that of the impartial spectator. Both views
present themselves to him at the same time. His sense of honour,
his regard to his own dignity, directs him to fix his whole
attention upon the one view. His natural, his untaught and
undisciplined feelings, are continually calling it off to the
other. He does not, in this case, perfectly identify himself with
the ideal man within the breast, he does not become himself the
impartial spectator of his own conduct. The different views of
both characters exist in his mind separate and distinct from one
another, and each directing him to a behaviour different from
that to which the other directs him. When he follows that view
which honour and dignity point out to him, Nature does not,
indeed, leave him without a recompense. He enjoys his own
complete self-approbation, and the applause of every candid and
impartial spectator. By her unalterable laws, however, he still
suffers; and the recompense which she bestows, though very
considerable, is not sufficient completely to compensate the
sufferings which those laws inflict. Neither is it fit that it
should. If it did completely compensate them, he could, from
self-interest, have no motive for avoiding an accident which must
necessarily diminish his utility both to himself and to society;
and Nature, from her parental care of both, meant that he should
anxiously avoid all such accidents. He suffers, therefore, and
though, in the agony of the paroxysm, he maintains, not only the
manhood of his countenance, but the sedateness and sobriety of
his judgment, it requires his utmost and most fatiguing
exertions, to do so.
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| III.I.70 |
By the constitution of human nature, however, agony can never
be permanent; and, if he survives the paroxysm, he soon comes,
without any effort, to enjoy his ordinary tranquillity. A man
with a wooden leg suffers, no doubt, and foresees that he must
continue to suffer during the reminder of his life, a very
considerable inconveniency. He soon comes to view it, however,
exactly as every impartial spectator views it; as an
inconveniency under which he can enjoy all the ordinary pleasures
both of solitude and of society. He soon identifies himself with
the ideal man within the breast, he soon becomes himself the
impartial spectator of his own situation. He no longer weeps, he
no longer laments, he no longer grieves over it, as a weak man
may sometimes do in the beginning. The view of the impartial
spectator becomes so perfectly habitual to him, that, without any
effort, without any exertion, he never thinks of surveying his
misfortune in any other view.
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| III.I.71 |
The never-failing certainty with which all men, sooner or
later, accommodate themselves to whatever becomes their permanent
situation, may, perhaps, induce us to think that the Stoics were,
at least, thus far very nearly in the right; that, between one
permanent situation and another, there was, with regard to real
happiness, no essential difference: or that, if there were any
difference, it was no more than just sufficient to render some of
them the objects of simple choice or preference; but not of any
earnest or anxious desire: and others, of simple rejection, as
being fit to be set aside or avoided; but not of any earnest or
anxious aversion. Happiness consists in tranquillity and
enjoyment. Without tranquillity there can be no enjoyment; and
where there is perfect tranquillity there is scarce any thing
which is not capable of amusing. But in every permanent
situation, where there is no expectation of change, the mind of
every man, in a longer or shorter time, returns to its natural
and usual state of tranquillity. In prosperity, after a certain
time, it falls back to that state; in adversity, after a certain
time, it rises up to it. In the confinement and solitude of the
Bastile, after a certain time, the fashionable and frivolous
Count de Lauzun recovered tranquillity enough to be capable of
amusing himself with feeding a spider. A mind better furnished
would, perhaps, have both sooner recovered its tranquillity, and
sooner found, in its own thoughts, a much better amusement.
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| III.I.72 |
The great source of both the misery and disorders of human
life, seems to arise from over-rating the difference between one
permanent situation and another. Avarice over-rates the
difference between poverty and riches: ambition, that between a
private and a public station: vain-glory, that between obscurity
and extensive reputation. The person under the influence of any
of those extravagant passions, is not only miserable in his
actual situation, but is often disposed to disturb the peace of
society, in order to arrive at that which he so foolishly
admires. The slightest observation, however, might satisfy him,
that, in all the ordinary situations of human life, a
well-disposed mind may be equally calm, equally cheerful, and
equally contented. Some of those situations may, no doubt,
deserve to be preferred to others: but none of them can deserve
to be pursued with that passionate ardour which drives us to
violate the rules either of prudence or of justice; or to corrupt
the future tranquillity of our minds, either by shame from the
remembrance of our own folly, or by remorse from the horror of
our own injustice. Wherever prudence does not direct, wherever
justice does not permit, the attempt to change our situation, the
man who does attempt it, plays at the most Unequal of all games
of hazard, and stakes every thing against scarce any thing. What
the favourite of the king of Epirus said to his master, may be
applied to men in all the ordinary situations of human life. When
the King had recounted to him, in their proper order, all the
conquests which he proposed to make, and had come to the last of
them; And what does your Majesty propose to do then? said the
Favourite.I propose then, said the King, to enjoy myself with
my friends, and endeavour to be good company over a bottle.And what hinders your Majesty from doing so now? replied the
Favourite. In the most glittering and exalted situation that our
idle fancy can hold out to us, the pleasures from which we
propose to derive our real happiness, are almost always the same
with those which, in our actual, though humble station, we have
at all times at hand, and in our power. except the frivolous
pleasures of vanity and superiority, we may find, in the most
humble station, where there is only personal liberty, every other
which the most exalted can afford; and the pleasures of vanity
and superiority are seldom consistent with perfect tranquillity,
the principle and foundation of all real and satisfactory
enjoyment. Neither is it always certain that, in the splendid
situation which we aim at, those real and satisfactory pleasures
can be enjoyed with the same security as in the humble one which
we are so very eager to abandon. examine the records of history,
recollect what has happened within the circle of your own
experience, consider with attention what has been the conduct of
almost all the greatly unfortunate, either in private or public
life, whom you may have either read of, or heard of, or remember;
and you will find that the misfortunes of by far the greater part
of them have arisen from their not knowing when they were well,
when it was proper for them to sit still and to be contented. The
inscription upon the tomb-stone of the man who had endeavoured to
mend a tolerable constitution by taking physic; 'I was well, I
wished to be better; here I am; may generally be applied with
great justness to the distress of disappointed avarice and
ambition.
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| III.I.73 |
It may be thought a singular, but I believe it to be a just
observation, that, in the misfortunes which admit of some remedy,
the greater part of men do not either so readily or so
universally recover their natural and usual tranquillity, as in
those which plainly admit of none. In misfortunes of the latter
kind, it is chiefly in what may be called the paroxysm, or in the
first attack, that we can discover any sensible difference
between the sentiments and behaviour of the wise and those of the
weak man. In the end, Time, the great and universal comforter,
gradually composes the weak man to the same degree of
tranquillity which a regard to his own dignity and manhood
teaches the wise man to assume in the beginning. The case of the
man with the wooden leg is an obvious example of this. In the
irreparable misfortunes occasioned by the death of children, or
of friends and relations, even a wise man may for some time
indulge himself in some degree of moderated sorrow. An
affectionate, but weak woman, is often, upon such occasions,
almost perfectly distracted. Time, however, in a longer or
shorter period, never fails to compose the weakest woman to the
same degree of tranquillity as the strongest man. In all the
irreparable calamities which affect himself immediately and
directly, a wise man endeavours, from the beginning, to
anticipate and to enjoy before-hand, that tranquillity which he
foresees the course of a few months, or a few years, will
certainly restore to him in the end.
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In the misfortunes for which the nature of things admits, or
seems to admit, of a remedy, but in which the means of applying
that remedy are not within the reach of the sufferer, his vain
and fruitless attempts to restore himself to his former
situation, his continual anxiety for their success, his repeated
disappointments upon their miscarriage, are what chiefly hinder
him from resuming his natural tranquillity, and frequently render
miserable, during the whole of his life, a man to whom a greater
misfortune, but which plainly admitted of no remedy, would not
have given a fortnight's disturbance. In the fall from royal
favour to disgrace, from power to insignificancy, from riches to
poverty, from liberty to confinement, from strong health to some
lingering, chronical, and perhaps incurable disease, the man who
struggles the least, who most easily and readily acquiesces in
the fortune which has fallen to him, very soon recovers his usual
and natural tranquility, and surveys the most disagreeable
circumstances of his actual situation in the same light, or,
perhaps, in a much less unfavourable light, than that in which
the most indifferent spectator is disposed to survey them.
Faction, intrigue, and cabal, disturb the quiet of the
unfortunate statesman. extravagant projects, visions of gold
mines, interrupt the repose of the ruined bankrupt. The prisoner,
who is continually plotting to escape from his confinement,
cannot enjoy that careless security which even a prison can
afford him. The medicines of the physician are often the greatest
torment of the incurable patient. The monk who, in order to
comfort Joanna of Castile, upon the death of her husband Philip,
told her of a King, who, fourteen years after his decease, had
been restored to life again, by the prayers of his afflicted
queen, was not likely, by his legendary tale, to restore
sedateness to the distempered mind of that unhappy Princess. She
endeavoured to repeat the same experiment in hopes of the same
success; resisted for a long time the burial of her husband, soon
after raised his body from the grave, attended it almost
constantly herself, and watched, with all the impatient anxiety
of frantic expectation, the happy moment when her wishes were to
be gratified by the revival of her beloved Philip.*8
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Our sensibility to the feelings of others, so far from being
inconsistent with the manhood of self-command, is the very
principle upon which that manhood is founded. The very same
principle or instinct which, in the misfortune of our neighbour,
prompts us to compassionate his sorrow; in our own misfortune,
prompts us to restrain the abject and miserable lamentations of
our own sorrow. The same principle or instinct which, in his
prosperity and success, prompts us to congratulate his joy; in
our own prosperity and success, prompts us to restrain the levity
and intemperance of our own joy. In both cases, the propriety of
our own sentiments and feelings seems to be exactly in proportion
to the vivacity and force with which we enter into and conceive
his sentiments and feelings.
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The man of the most perfect virtue, the man whom we naturally
love and revere the most, is he who joins, to the most perfect
command of his own original and selfish feelings, the most
exquisite sensibility both to the original and sympathetic
feelings of others. The man who, to all the soft, the amiable,
and the gentle virtues, joins all the great, the awful, and the
respectable, must surely be the natural and proper object of our
highest love and admiration.
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The person best fitted by nature for acquiring the former of
those two sets of virtues, is likewise best fitted for acquiring
the latter. The man who feels the most for the joys and sorrows
of others, is best fitted for acquiring the most complete control
of his own joys and sorrows. The man of the most exquisite
humanity, is naturally the most capable of acquiring the highest
degree of self-command. He may not, however, always have acquired
it; and it very frequently happens that he has not. He may have
lived too much in ease and tranquillity. He may have never been
exposed to the violence of faction, or to the hardships and
hazards of war. He may have never experienced the insolence of
his superiors, the jealous and malignant envy of his equals, or
the pilfering injustice of his inferiors. When, in an advanced
age, some accidental change of fortune exposes him to all these,
they all make too great an impression upon him. He has the
disposition which fits him for acquiring the most perfect
self-command; but he has never had the opportunity of acquiring
it. exercise and practice have been wanting; and without these no
habit can ever be tolerably established. Hardships, dangers,
injuries, misfortunes, are the only masters under whom we can
learn the exercise of this virtue. But these are all masters to
whom nobody willingly puts himself to school.
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The situations in which the gentle virtue of humanity can be
most happily cultivated, are by no means the same with those
which are best fitted for forming the austere virtue of
self-command. The man who is himself at ease can best attend to
the distress of others. The man who is himself exposed to
hardships is most immediately called upon to attend to, and to
control his own feelings. In the mild sunshine of undisturbed
tranquillity, in the calm retirement of undissipated and
philosophical leisure, the soft virtue of humanity flourishes the
most, and is capable of the highest improvement. But, in such
situations, the greatest and noblest exertions of self-command
have little exercise. Under the boisterous and stormy sky of war
and faction, of public tumult |
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