Part VI
Of the Character of Virtue
Consisting of Three Sections
Introduction
When we consider the character of any individual, we
naturally view it under two different aspects; first, as it may
affect his own happiness; and secondly, as it may affect that of
other people.
Section I
Of the Character of the Individual, so far as it affects his own
Happiness; or of Prudence
The preservation and healthful state of the body seem to be
the objects which Nature first recommends to the care of every
individual. The appetites of hunger and thirst, the agreeable or
disagreeable sensations of pleasure and pain, of heat and cold,
etc. may be considered as lessons delivered by the voice of
Nature herself, directing him what he ought to chuse, and what he
ought to avoid, for this purpose. The first lessons which he is
taught by those to whom his childhood is entrusted, tend, the
greater part of them, to the same purpose. Their principal object
is to teach him how to keep out of harm's way.
As he grows up, he soon learns that some care and foresight
are necessary for providing the means of gratifying those natural
appetites, of procuring pleasure and avoiding pain, of procuring
the agreeable and avoiding the disagreeable temperature of heat
and cold. In the proper direction of this care and foresight
consists the art of preserving and increasing what is called his
external fortune.
Though it is in order to supply the necessities and
conveniencies of the body, that the advantages of external
fortune are originally recommended to us, yet we cannot live long
in the world without perceiving that the respect of our equals,
our credit and rank in the society we live in, depend very much
upon the degree in which we possess, or are supposed to possess,
those advantages. The desire of becoming the proper objects of
this respect, of deserving and obtaining this credit and rank
among our equals, is, perhaps, the strongest of all our desires,
and our anxiety to obtain the advantages of fortune is
accordingly much more excited and irritated by this desire, than
by that of supplying all the necessities and conveniencies of the
body, which are always very easily supplied.
Our rank and credit among our equals, too, depend very much
upon, what, perhaps, a virtuous man would wish them to depend
entirely, our character and conduct, or upon the confidence,
esteem, and good-will, which these naturally excite in the people
we live with.
The care of the health, of the fortune, of the rank and
reputation of the individual, the objects upon which his comfort
and happiness in this life are supposed principally to depend, is
considered as the proper business of that virtue which is
commonly called Prudence.
We suffer more, it has already been observed, when we fall
from a better to a worse situation, than we ever enjoy when we
rise from a worse to a better. Security, therefore, is the first
and the principal object of prudence. It is averse to expose our
health, our fortune, our rank, or reputation, to any sort of
hazard. It is rather cautious than enterprising, and more anxious
to preserve the advantages which we already possess, than forward
to prompt us to the acquisition of still greater advantages. The
methods of improving our fortune, which it principally recommends
to us, are those which expose to no loss or hazard; real
knowledge and skill in our trade or profession, assiduity and
industry in the exercise of it, frugality, and even some degree
of parsimony, in all our expences.
The prudent man always studies seriously and earnestly to
understand whatever he professes to understand, and not merely to
persuade other people that he understands it; and though his
talents may not always be very brilliant, they are always
perfectly genuine. He neither endeavours to impose upon you by
the cunning devices of an artful impostor, nor by the arrogant
airs of an assuming pedant, nor by the confident assertions of a
superficial and imprudent pretender. He is not ostentatious even
of the abilities which he really possesses. His conversation is
simple and modest, and he is averse to all the quackish arts by
which other people so frequently thrust themselves into public
notice and reputation. For reputation in his profession he is
naturally disposed to rely a good deal upon the solidity of his
knowledge and abilities; and he does not always think of
cultivating the favour of those little clubs and cabals, who, in
the superior arts and sciences, so often erect themselves into
the supreme judges of merit; and who make it their business to
celebrate the talents and virtues of one another, and to decry
whatever can come into competition with them. If he ever connects
himself with any society of this kind, it is merely in
self-defence, not with a view to impose upon the public, but to
hinder the public from being imposed upon, to his disadvantage,
by the clamours, the whispers, or the intrigues, either of that
particular society, or of some other of the same kind.
The prudent man is always sincere, and feels horror at the
very thought of exposing himself to the disgrace which attends
upon the detection of falsehood. But though always sincere, he is
not always frank and open; and though he never tells any thing
but the truth, he does not always think himself bound, when not
properly called upon, to tell the whole truth. As he is cautious
in his actions, so he is reserved in his speech; and never rashly
or unnecessarily obtrudes his opinion concerning either things or
persons.
The prudent man, though not always distinguished by the most
exquisite sensibility, is always very capable of friendship. But
his friendship is not that ardent and passionate, but too often
transitory affection, which appears so delicious to the
generosity of youth and inexperience. It is a sedate, but steady
and faithful attachment to a few well-tried and well-chosen
companions; in the choice of whom he is not guided by the giddy
admiration of shining accomplishments, but by the sober esteem of
modesty, discretion, and good conduct. But though capable of
friendship, he is not always much disposed to general sociality.
He rarely frequents, and more rarely figures in those convivial
societies which are distinguished for the jollity and gaiety of
their conversation. Their way of life might too often interfere
with the regularity of his temperance, might interrupt the
steadiness of his industry, or break in upon the strictness of
his frugality.
But though his conversation may not always be very sprightly
or diverting, it is always perfectly inoffensive. He hates the
thought of being guilty of any petulance or rudeness. He never
assumes impertinently over any body, and, upon all common
occasions, is willing to place himself rather below than above
his equals. Both in his conduct and conversation, he is an exact
observer of decency, and respects with an almost religious
scrupulosity, all the established decorums and ceremonials of
society. And, in this respect, he sets a much better example than
has frequently been done by men of much more splendid talents and
virtues; who, in all ages, from that of Socrates and Aristippus,
down to that of Dr. Swift and Voltaire, and from that of Philip
and Alexander the Great, down to that of the great Czar Peter of
Moscovy, have too often distinguished themselves by the most
improper and even insolent contempt of all the ordinary decorums
of life and conversation, and who have thereby set the most
pernicious example to those who wish to resemble them, and who
too often content themselves with imitating their follies,
without even attempting to attain their perfections.
In the steadiness of his industry and frugality, in his
steadily sacrificing the ease and enjoyment of the present moment
for the probable expectation of the still greater ease and
enjoyment of a more distant but more lasting period of time, the
prudent man is always both supported and rewarded by the entire
approbation of the impartial spectator, and of the representative
of the impartial spectator, the man within the breast. The
impartial spectator does not feel himself worn out by the present
labour of those whose conduct he surveys; nor does he feel
himself solicited by the importunate calls of their present
appetites. To him their present, and what is likely to be their
future situation, are very nearly the same: he sees them nearly
at the same distance, and is affected by them very nearly in the
same manner. He knows, however, that to the persons principally
concerned, they are very far from being the same, and that they
naturally affect them in a very different manner. He cannot
therefore but approve, and even applaud, that proper exertion of
self-command, which enables them to act as if their present and
their future situation affected them nearly in the same manner in
which they affect him.
The man who lives within his income, is naturally contented
with his situation, which, by continual, though small
accumulations, is growing better and better every day. He is
enabled gradually to relax, both in the rigour of his parsimony
and in the severity of his application; and he feels with double
satisfaction this gradual increase of ease and enjoyment, from
having felt before the hardship which attended the want of them.
He has no anxiety to change so comfortable a situation, and does
not go in quest of new enterprises and adventures, which might
endanger, but could not well increase, the secure tranquillity
which he actually enjoys. If he enters into any new projects or
enterprises, they are likely to be well concerted and well
prepared. He can never be hurried or drove into them by any
necessity, but has always time and leisure to deliberate soberly
and coolly concerning what are likely to be their consequences.
The prudent man is not willing to subject himself to any
responsibility which his duty does not impose upon him. He is not
a bustler in business where he has no concern; is not a meddler
in other people's affairs; is not a professed counsellor or
adviser, who obtrudes his advice where nobody is asking it. He
confines himself, as much as his duty will permit, to his own
affairs, and has no taste for that foolish importance which many
people wish to derive from appearing to have some influence in
the management of those of other people. He is averse to enter
into any party disputes, hates faction, and is not always very
forward to listen to the voice even of noble and great ambition.
When distinctly called upon, he will not decline the service of
his country, but he will not cabal in order to force himself into
it; and would be much better pleased that the public business
were well managed by some other person, than that he himself
should have the trouble, and incur the responsibility, of
managing it. In the bottom of his heart he would prefer the
undisturbed enjoyment of secure tranquillity, not only to all the
vain splendour of successful ambition, but to the real and solid
glory of performing the greatest and most magnanimous actions.
Prudence, in short, when directed merely to the care of the
health, of the fortune, and of the rank and reputation of the
individual, though it is regarded as a most respectable and even,
in some degree, as an amiable and agreeable quality, yet it never
is considered as one, either of the most endearing, or of the
most ennobling of the virtues. It commands a certain cold esteem,
but seems not entitled to any very ardent love or admiration.
Wise and judicious conduct, when directed to greater and
nobler purposes than the care of the health, the fortune, the
rank and reputation of the individual, is frequently and very
properly called prudence. We talk of the prudence of the great
general, of the great statesman, of the great legislator.
Prudence is, in all these cases, combined with many greater and
more splendid virtues, with valour, with extensive and strong
benevolence, with a sacred regard to the rules of justice, and
all these supported by a proper degree of self-command. This
superior prudence, when carried to the highest degree of
perfection, necessarily supposes the art, the talent, and the
habit or disposition of acting with the most perfect propriety in
every possible circumstance and situation. It necessarily
supposes the utmost perfection of all the intellectual and of all
the moral virtues. It is the best head joined to the best heart.
It is the most perfect wisdom combined with the most perfect
virtue. It constitutes very nearly the character of the
Academical or Peripatetic sage, as the inferior prudence does
that of the Epicurean.
Mere imprudence, or the mere want of the capacity to take
care of one's-self, is, with the generous and humane, the object
of compassion; with those of less delicate sentiments, of
neglect, or, at worst, of contempt, but never of hatred or
indignation. When combined with other vices, however, it
aggravates in the highest degree the infamy and disgrace which
would otherwise attend them. The artful knave, whose dexterity
and address exempt him, though not from strong suspicions, yet
from punishment or distinct detection, is too often received in
the world with an indulgence which he by no means deserves. The
awkward and foolish one, who, for want of this dexterity and
address, is convicted and brought to punishment, is the object of
universal hatred, contempt, and derision. In countries where
great crimes frequently pass unpunished, the most atrocious
actions become almost familiar, and cease to impress the people
with that horror which is universally felt in countries where an
exact administration of justice takes place. The injustice is the
same in both countries; but the imprudence is often very
different. In the latter, great crimes are evidently great
follies. In the former, they are not always considered as such.
In Italy, during the greater part of the sixteenth century,
assassinations, murders, and even murders under trust, seem to
have been almost familiar among the superior ranks of people.
Caesar Borgia invited four of the little princes in his
neighbourhood, who all possessed little sovereignties, and
commanded little armies of their own, to a friendly conference at
Senigaglia, where, as soon as they arrived, he put them all to
death. This infamous action, though certainly not approved of
even in that age of crimes, seems to have contributed very little
to the discredit, and not in the least to the ruin of the
perpetrator. That ruin happened a few years after from causes
altogether disconnected with this crime. Machiavel, not indeed a
man of the nicest morality even for his own times, was resident,
as minister from the republic of Florence, at the court of Caesar
Borgia when this crime was committed. He gives a very particular
account of it, and in that pure, elegant, and simple language
which distinguishes all his writings. He talks of it very coolly;
is pleased with the address with which Caesar Borgia conducted
it; has much contempt for the dupery and weakness of the
sufferers; but no compassion for their miserable and untimely
death, and no sort of indignation at the cruelty and falsehood of
their murderer. The violence and injustice of great conquerors
are often regarded with foolish wonder and admiration; those of
petty thieves, robbers, and murderers, with contempt, hatred, and
even horror upon all occasions. The former, though they are a
hundred times more mischievous and destructive, yet when
successful, they often pass for deeds of the most heroic
magnanimity. The latter are always viewed with hatred and
aversion, as the follies, as well as the crimes, of the lowest
and most worthless of mankind. The injustice of the former is
certainly, at least, as great as that of the latter; but the
folly and imprudence are not near so great. A wicked and
worthless man of parts often goes through the world with much
more credit than he deserves. A wicked and worthless fool appears
always, of all mortals, the most hateful, as well as the most
contemptible. As prudence combined with other virtues,
constitutes the noblest; so imprudence combined with other vices,
constitutes the vilest of all characters.
Section II
Of the Character of the Individual, so far as it can affect the
Happiness of other People
The character of every individual, so far as it can affect
the happiness of other people, must do so by its disposition
either to hurt or to benefit them.
Proper resentment for injustice attempted, or actually
committed, is the only motive which, in the eyes of the impartial
spectator, can justify our hurting or disturbing in any respect
the happiness of our neighbour. To do so from any other motive is
itself a violation of the laws of justice, which force ought to
be employed either to restrain or to punish. The wisdom of every
state or commonwealth endeavours, as well as it can, to employ
the force of the society to restrain those who are subject to its
authority, from hurting or disturbing the happiness of one
another. The rules which it establishes for this purpose,
constitute the civil and criminal law of each particular state or
country. The principles upon which those rules either are, or
ought to be founded, are the subject of a particular science, of
all sciences by far the most important, but hitherto, perhaps,
the least cultivated, that of natural jurisprudence,. concerning
which it belongs not to our present subject to enter into any
detail. A sacred and religious regard not to hurt or disturb in
any respect the happiness of our neighbour, even in those cases
where no law can properly protect him, constitutes the character
of the perfectly innocent and just man; a character which, when
carried to a certain delicacy of attention, is always highly
respectable and even venerable for its own sake, and can scarce
ever fail to be accompanied with many other virtues, with great
feeling for other people, with great humanity and great
benevolence. It is a character sufficiently understood, and
requires no further explanation. In the present section I shall
only endeavour to explain the foundation of that order which
nature seems to have traced out for the distribution of our good
offices, or for the direction and employment of our very limited
powers of beneficence: first, towards individuals; and secondly,
towards societies.
The same unerring wisdom, it will be found, which regulates
every other part of her conduct, directs, in this respect too,
the order of her recommendations; which are always stronger or
weaker in proportion as our beneficence is more or less
necessary, or can be more or less useful.
Chap. I
Of the Order in which Individuals are recommended by Nature to our care and attention
Every man, as the Stoics used to say, is first and
principally recommended to his own care; and every man is
certainly, in every respect, fitter and abler to take care of
himself than of any other person. Every man feels his own
pleasures and his own pains more sensibly than those of other
people. The former are the original sensations; the latter the
reflected or sympathetic images of those sensations. The former
may be said to be the substance; the latter the shadow.
After himself, the members of his own family, those who
usually live in the same house with him, his parents, his
children, his brothers and sisters, are naturally the objects of
his warmest affections. They are naturally and usually the
persons upon whose happiness or misery his conduct must have the
greatest influence. He is more habituated to sympathize with
them. He knows better how every thing is likely to affect them,
and his sympathy with them is more precise and determinate, than
it can be with the greater part of other people. It approaches
nearer, in short, to what he feels for himself.
This sympathy too, and the affections which are founded on
it, are by nature more strongly directed towards his children
than towards his parents, and his tenderness for the former seems
generally a more active principle, than his reverence and
gratitude towards the latter. In the natural state of things, it
has already been observed, the existence of the child, for some
time after it comes into the world, depends altogether upon the
care of the parent; that of the parent does not naturally depend
upon the care of the child. In the eye of nature, it would seem,
a child is a more important object than an old man; and excites a
much more lively, as well as a much more universal sympathy. It
ought to do so. Every thing may be expected, or at least hoped,
from the child. In ordinary cases, very little can be either
expected or hoped from the old man. The weakness of childhood
interests the affections of the most brutal and hard-hearted. It
is only to the virtuous and humane, that the infirmities of old
age are not the objects of contempt and aversion. In ordinary
cases, an old man dies without being much regretted by any body.
Scarce a child can die without rending asunder the heart of
somebody.
The earliest friendships, the friendships which are naturally
contracted when the heart is most susceptible of that feeling,
are those among brothers and sisters. Their good agreement, while
they remain in the same family, is necessary for its tranquillity
and happiness. They are capable of giving more pleasure or pain
to one another than to the greater part of other people. Their
situation renders their mutual sympathy of the utmost importance
to their common happiness; and, by the wisdom of nature, the same
situation, by obliging them to accommodate to one another,
renders that sympathy more habitual, and thereby more lively,
more distinct, and more determinate.
The children of brothers and sisters are naturally connected
by the friendship which, after separating into different
families, continues to take place between their parents. Their
good agreement improves the enjoyment of that friendship; their
discord would disturb it. As they seldom live in the same family,
however, though of more importance to one another, than to the
greater part of other people, they are of much less than brothers
and sisters. As their mutual sympathy is less necessary, so it is
less habitual, and therefore proportionably weaker.
The children of cousins, being still less connected, are of
still less importance to one another; and the affection gradually
diminishes as the relation grows more and more remote.
What is called affection, is in reality nothing but habitual
sympathy. Our concern in the happiness or misery of those who are
the objects of what we call our affections; our desire to promote
the one, and to prevent the other; are either the actual feeling
of that habitual sympathy, or the necessary consequences of that
feeling. Relations being usually placed in situations which
naturally create this habitual sympathy, it is expected that a
suitable degree of affection should take place among them. We
generally find that it actually does take place; we therefore
naturally expect that it should; and we are, upon that account,
more shocked when, upon any occasion, we find that it does not.
The general rule is established, that persons related to one
another in a certain degree, ought always to be affected towards
one another in a certain manner, and that there is always the
highest impropriety, and sometimes even a sort of impiety, in
their being affected in a different manner. A parent without
parental tenderness, a child devoid of all filial reverence,
appear monsters, the objects, not of hatred only, but of horror.
Though in a particular instance, the circumstances which
usually produce those natural affections, as they are called,
may, by some accident, not have taken place, yet respect for the
general rule will frequently, in some measure, supply their
place, and produce something which, though not altogether the
same, may bear, however, a very considerable resemblance to those
affections. A father is apt to be less attached to a child, who,
by some accident, has been separated from him in its infancy, and
who does not return to him till it is grown up to manhood. The
father is apt to feel less paternal tenderness for the child; the
child, less filial reverence for the father. Brothers and
sisters, when they have been educated in distant countries, are
apt to feel a similar diminution of affection. With the dutiful
and the virtuous, however, respect for the general rule will
frequently produce something which, though by no means the same,
yet may very much resemble those natural affections. Even during
the separation, the father and the child, the brothers or the
sisters, are by no means indifferent to one another. They all
consider one another as persons to and from whom certain
affections are due, and they live in the hopes of being some time
or another in a situation to enjoy that friendship which ought
naturally to have taken place among persons so nearly connected.
Till they meet, the absent son, the absent brother, are
frequently the favourite son, the favourite brother. They have
never offended, or, if they have, it is so long ago, that the
offence is forgotten, as some childish trick not worth the
remembering. Every account they have heard of one another, if
conveyed by people of any tolerable good nature, has been, in the
highest degree, flattering and favourable. The absent son, the
absent brother, is not like other ordinary sons and brothers; but
an all-perfect son, an all-perfect brother; and the most romantic
hopes are entertained of the happiness to be enjoyed in the
friendship and conversation of such persons. When they meet, it
is often with so strong a disposition to conceive that habitual
sympathy which constitutes the family affection, that they are
very apt to fancy they have actually conceived it, and to behave
to one another as if they had. Time and experience, however, I am
afraid, too frequently undeceive them. Upon a more familiar
acquaintance, they frequently discover in one another habits,
humours, and inclinations, different from what they expected, to
which, from want of habitual sympathy, from want of the real
principle and foundation of what is properly called
family-affection, they cannot now easily accommodate themselves.
They have never lived in the situation which almost necessarily
forces that easy accommodation, and though they may now be
sincerely desirous to assume it, they have really become
incapable of doing so. Their familiar conversation and
intercourse soon become less pleasing to them, and, upon that
account, less frequent. They may continue to live with one
another in the mutual exchange of all essential good offices, and
with every other external appearance of decent regard. But that
cordial satisfaction, that delicious sympathy, that confidential
openness and ease, which naturally take place in the conversation
of those who have lived long and familiarly with one another, it
seldom happens that they can completely enjoy.
It is only, however, with the dutiful and the virtuous, that
the general rule has even this slender authority. With the
dissipated, the profligate, and the vain, it is entirely
disregarded. They are so far from respecting it, that they seldom
talk of it but with the most indecent derision. and an early and
long separation of this kind never fails to estrange them most
completely from one another. With such persons, respect for the
general rule can at best produce only a cold and affected
civility (a very slender semblance of real regard); and even
this, the slightest offence, the smallest opposition of interest,
commonly puts an end to altogether.
The education of boys at distant great schools, of young men
at distant colleges, of young ladies in distant nunneries and
boarding-schools, seems, in the higher ranks of life, to have
hurt most essentially the domestic morals, and consequently the
domestic happiness, both of France and England. Do you wish to
educate your children to be dutiful to their parents, to be kind
and affectionate to their brothers and sisters? put them under
the necessity of being dutiful children, of being kind and
affectionate brothers and sisters: educate them in your own
house. From their parent's house they may, with propriety and
advantage, go out every day to attend public schools: but let
their dwelling be always at home. Respect for you must always
impose a very useful restraint upon their conduct; and respect
for them may frequently impose no useless restraint upon your
own. Surely no acquirement, which can possibly be derived from
what is called a public education, can make any sort of
compensation for what is almost certainly and necessarily lost by
it. Domestic education is the institution of nature; public
education, the contrivance of man. It is surely unnecessary to
say, which is likely to be the wisest.
In some tragedies and romances, we meet with many beautiful
and interesting scenes, founded upon, what is called, the force
of blood, or upon the wonderful affection which near relations
are supposed to conceive for one another, even before they know
that they have any such connection. This force of blood, however,
I am afraid, exists no-where but in tragedies and romances. Even
in tragedies and romances, it is never supposed to take place
between any relations, but those who are naturally bred up in the
same house; between parents and children, between brothers and
sisters. To imagine any such mysterious affection between
cousins, or even between aunts or uncles, and nephews or nieces,
would be too ridiculous.
In pastoral countries, and in all countries where the
authority of law is not alone sufficient to give perfect security
to every member of the state, all the different branches of the
same family commonly chuse to live in the neighbourhood of one
another. Their association is frequently necessary for their
common defence. They are all, from the highest to the lowest, of
more or less importance to one another. Their concord strengthens
their necessary association; their discord always weakens, and
might destroy it. They have more intercourse with one another,
than with the members of any other tribe. The remotest members of
the same tribe claim some connection with one another; and, where
all other circumstances are equal, expect to be treated with more
distinguished attention than is due to those who have no such
pretensions. It is not many years ago that, in the Highlands of
Scotland, the Chieftain used to consider the poorest man of his
clan, as his cousin and relation. The same extensive regard to
kindred is said to take place among the Tartars, the Arabs, the
Turkomans, and, I believe, among all other nations who are nearly
in the same state of society in which the Scots Highlanders were
about the beginning of the present century.
In commercial countries, where the authority of law is always
perfectly sufficient to protect the meanest man in the state, the
descendants of the same family, having no such motive for keeping
together, naturally separate and disperse, as interest or
inclination may direct. They soon cease to be of importance to
one another; and, in a few generations, not only lose all care
about one another, but all remembrance of their common origin,
and of the connection which took place among their ancestors.
Regard for remote relations becomes, in every country, less and
less, according as this state of civilization has been longer and
more completely established. It has been longer and more
completely established in England than in Scotland; and remote
relations are, accordingly, more considered in the latter country
than in the former, though, in this respect, the difference
between the two countries is growing less and less every day.
Great lords, indeed, are, in every country, proud of remembering
and acknowledging their connection with one another, however
remote. The remembrance of such illustrious relations flatters
not a little the family pride of them all; and it is neither from
affection, nor from any thing which resembles affection, but from
the most frivolous and childish of all vanities, that this
remembrance is so carefully kept up. Should some more humble,
though, perhaps, much nearer kinsman, presume to put such great
men in mind of his relation to their family, they seldom fail to
tell him that they are bad genealogists, and miserably
ill-informed concerning their own family history. It is not in
that order, I am afraid, that we are to expect any extraordinary
extension of, what is called, natural affection.
I consider what is called natural affection as more the
effect of the moral than of the supposed physical connection
between the parent and the child. A jealous husband, indeed,
notwithstanding the moral connection, notwithstanding the child's
having been educated in his own house, often regards, with hatred
and aversion, that unhappy child which he supposes to be the
offspring of his wife's infidelity. It is the lasting monument of
a most disagreeable adventure; of his own dishonour, and of the
disgrace of his family.
Among well-disposed people, the necessity or conveniency of
mutual accommodation, very frequently produces a friendship not
unlike that which takes place among those who are born to live in
the same family. Colleagues in office, partners in trade, call
one another brothers; and frequently feel towards one another as
if they really were so. Their good agreement is an advantage to
all; and, if they are tolerably reasonable people, they are
naturally disposed to agree. We expect that they should do so;
and their disagreement is a sort of a small scandal. The Romans
expressed this sort of attachment by the word necessitudo, which,
from the etymology, seems to denote that it was imposed by the
necessity of the situation.
Even the trifling circumstance of living in the same
neighbourhood, has some effect of the same kind. We respect the
face of a man whom we see every day, provided he has never
offended us. Neighbours can be very convenient, and they can be
very troublesome, to one another. If they are good sort of
people, they are naturally disposed to agree. We expect their
good agreement; and to be a bad neighbour is a very bad
character. There are certain small good offices, accordingly,
which are universally allowed to be due to a neighbour in
preference to any other person who has no such connection.
This natural disposition to accommodate and to assimilate, as
much as we can, our own sentiments, principles, and feelings, to
those which we see fixed and rooted in the persons whom we are
obliged to live and converse a great deal with, is the cause of
the contagious effects of both good and bad company. The man who
associates chiefly with the wise and the virtuous, though he may
not himself become either wise or virtuous, cannot help
conceiving a certain respect at least for wisdom and virtue; and
the man who associates chiefly with the profligate and the
dissolute, though he may not himself become profligate and
dissolute, must soon lose, at least, all his original abhorrence
of profligacy and dissolution of manners. The similarity of
family characters, which we so frequently see transmitted through
several successive generations, may, perhaps, be partly owing to
this disposition, to assimilate ourselves to those whom we are
obliged to live and converse a great deal with. The family
character, however, like the family countenance, seems to be
owing, not altogether to the moral, but partly too to the
physical connection. The family countenance is certainly
altogether owing to the latter.
But of all attachments to an individual, that which is
founded altogether upon the esteem and approbation of his good
conduct and behaviour, confirmed by much experience and long
acquaintance, is, by far, the most respectable. Such friendships,
arising not from a constrained sympathy, not from a sympathy
which has been assumed and rendered habitual for the sake of
conveniency and accommodation; but from a natural sympathy, from
an involuntary feeling that the persons to whom we attach
ourselves are the natural and proper objects of esteem and
approbation; can exist only among men of virtue. Men of virtue
only can feel that entire confidence in the conduct and behaviour
of one another, which can, at all times, assure them that they
can never either offend or be offended by one another. Vice is
always capricious: virtue only is regular and orderly. The
attachment which is founded upon the love of virtue, as it is
certainly, of all attachments, the most virtuous; so it is
likewise the happiest, as well as the most permanent and secure.
Such friendships need not be confined to a single person, but may
safely embrace all the wise and virtuous, with whom we have been
long and intimately acquainted, and upon whose wisdom and virtue
we can, upon that account, entirely depend. They who would
confine friendship to two persons, seem to confound the wise
security of friendship with the jealousy and folly of love. The
hasty, fond, and foolish intimacies of young people, founded,
commonly, upon some slight similarity of character, altogether
unconnected with good conduct, upon a taste, perhaps, for the
same studies, the same amusements, the same diversions, or upon
their agreement in some singular principle or opinion, not
commonly adopted; those intimacies which a freak begins, and
which a freak puts an end to, how agreeable soever they may
appear while they last, can by no means deserve the sacred and
venerable name of friendship.
Of all the persons, however, whom nature points out for our
peculiar beneficence, there are none to whom it seems more
properly directed than to those whose beneficence we have
ourselves already experienced. Nature, which formed men for that
mutual kindness, so necessary for their happiness, renders every
man the peculiar object of kindness, to the persons to whom he
himself has been kind. Though their gratitude should not always
correspond to his beneficence, yet the sense of his merit, the
sympathetic gratitude of the impartial spectator, will always
correspond to it. The general indignation of other people,
against the baseness of their ingratitude, will even, sometimes,
increase the general sense of his merit. No benevolent man ever
lost altogether the fruits of his benevolence. If he does not
always gather them from the persons from whom he ought to have
gathered them, he seldom fails to gather them, and with a tenfold
increase, from other people. Kindness is the parent of kindness;
and if to be beloved by our brethren be the great object of our
ambition, the surest way of obtaining it is, by our conduct to
show that we really love them.
After the persons who are recommended to our beneficence,
either by their connection with ourselves, by their personal
qualities, or by their past services, come those who are pointed
out, not indeed to, what is called, our friendship, but to our
benevolent attention and good offices; those who are
distinguished by their extraordinary situation; the greatly
fortunate and the greatly unfortunate, the rich and the powerful,
the poor and the wretched. The distinction of ranks, the peace
and order of society, are, in a great measure, founded upon the
respect which we naturally conceive for the former. The relief
and consolation of human misery depend altogether upon our
compassion for the latter. The peace and order of society, is of
more importance than even the relief of the miserable. Our
respect for the great, accordingly, is most apt to offend by its
excess; our fellow-feeling for the miserable, by its defect.
Moralists exhort us to charity and compassion. They warn us
against the fascination of greatness. This fascination, indeed,
is so powerful, that the rich and the great are too often
preferred to the wise and the virtuous. Nature has wisely judged
that the distinction of ranks, the peace and order of society,
would rest more securely upon the plain and palpable difference
of birth and fortune, than upon the invisible and often uncertain
difference of wisdom and virtue. The undistinguishing eyes of the
great mob of mankind can well enough perceive the former: it is
with difficulty that the nice discernment of the wise and the
virtuous can sometimes distinguish the latter. In the order of
all those recommendations, the benevolent wisdom of nature is
equally evident.
It may, perhaps, be unnecessary to observe, that the
combination of two, or more, of those exciting causes of
kindness, increases the kindness. The favour and partiality
which, when there is no envy in the case, we naturally bear to
greatness, are much increased when it is joined with wisdom and
virtue. If, notwithstanding that wisdom and virtue, the great man
should fall into those misfortunes, those dangers and distresses,
to which the most exalted stations are often the most exposed, we
are much more deeply interested in his fortune than we should be
in that of a person equally virtuous, but in a more humble
situation. The most interesting subjects of tragedies and
romances are the misfortunes of virtuous and magnanimous kings
and princes. If, by the wisdom and manhood of their exertions,
they should extricate themselves from those misfortunes, and
recover completely their former superiority and security, we
cannot help viewing them with the most enthusiastic and even
extravagant admiration. The grief which we felt for their
distress, the joy which we feel for their prosperity, seem to
combine together in enhancing that partial admiration which we
naturally conceive both for the station and the character.
When those different beneficent affections happen to draw
different ways, to determine by any precise rules in what cases
we ought to comply with the one, and in what with the other, is,
perhaps, altogether impossible. In what cases friendship ought to
yield to gratitude, or gratitude to friend, ship. in what cases
the strongest of all natural affections ought to yield to a
regard for the safety of those superiors upon whose safety often
depends that of the whole society; and in what cases natural
affection may, without impropriety, prevail over that regard;
must be left altogether to the decision of the man within the
breast, the supposed impartial spectator, the great judge and
arbiter of our conduct. If we place ourselves completely in his
situation, if we really view ourselves with his eyes, and as he
views us, and listen with diligent and reverential attention to
what he suggests to us, his voice will never deceive us. We shall
stand in need of no casuistic rules to direct our conduct. These
it is often impossible to accommodate to all the different shades
and gradations of circumstance, character, and situation, to
differences and distinctions which, though not imperceptible,
are, by their nicety and delicacy, often altogether undefinable.
In that beautiful tragedy of Voltaire, the Orphan of China, while
we admire the magnanimity of Zamti, who is willing to sacrifice
the life of his own child, in order to preserve that of the only
feeble remnant of his ancient sovereigns and masters; we not only
pardon, but love the maternal tenderness of Idame, who, at the
risque of discovering the important secret of her husband,
reclaims her infant from the cruel hands of the Tartars, into
which it had been delivered.
Chap. II
Of the order in which Societies are by nature recommended to our
Beneficence
The same principles that direct the order in which
individuals are recommended to our beneficence, direct that
likewise in which societies are recommended to it. Those to which
it is, or may be of most importance, are first and principally
recommended to it.
The state or sovereignty in which we have been born and
educated, and under the protection of which we continue to live,
is, in ordinary cases, the greatest society upon whose happiness
or misery, our good or bad conduct can have much influence. It is
accordingly, by nature, most strongly recommended to us. Not only
we ourselves, but all the objects of our kindest affections, our
children, our parents, our relations, our friends, our
benefactors, all those whom we naturally love and revere the
most, are commonly comprehended within it; and their prosperity
and safety depend in some measure upon its prosperity and safety.
It is by nature, therefore, endeared to us, not only by all our
selfish, but by all our private benevolent affections. Upon
account of our own connexion with it, its prosperity and glory
seem to reflect some sort of honour upon ourselves. When we
compare it with other societies of the same kind, we are proud of
its superiority, and mortified in some degree, if it appears in
any respect below them. All the illustrious characters which it
has produced in former times (for against those of our own times
envy may sometimes prejudice us a little), its warriors, its
statesmen, its poets, its philosophers, and men of letters of all
kinds; we are disposed to view with the most partial admiration,
and to rank them (sometimes most unjustly) above those of all
other nations. The patriot who lays down his life for the safety,
or even for the vain-glory of this society, appears to act with
the most exact propriety. He appears to view himself in the light
in which the impartial spectator naturally and necessarily views
him, as but one of the multitude, in the eye of that equitable
judge, of no more consequence than any other in it, but bound at
all times to sacrifice and devote himself to the safety, to the
service, and even to the glory of the greater number. But though
this sacrifice appears to be perfectly just and proper, we know
how difficult it is to make it, and how few people are capable of
making it. His conduct, therefore, excites not only our entire
approbation, but our highest wonder and admiration, and seems to
merit all the applause which can be due to the most heroic
virtue. The traitor, on the contrary, who, in some peculiar
situation, fancies he can promote his own little interest by
betraying to the public enemy that of his native country. who,
regardless of the judgment of the man within the breast, prefers
himself, in this respect so shamefully and so basely, to all
those with whom he has any connexion; appears to be of all
villains the most detestable.
The love of our own nation often disposes us to view, with
the most malignant jealousy and envy, the prosperity and
aggrandisement of any other neighbouring nation. Independent and
neighbouring nations, having no common superior to decide their
disputes, all live in continual dread and suspicion of one
another. Each sovereign, expecting little justice from his
neighbours, is disposed to treat them with as little as he
expects from them. The regard for the laws of nations, or for
those rules which independent states profess or pretend to think
themselves bound to observe in their dealings with one another,
is often very little more than mere pretence and profession. From
the smallest interest, upon the slightest provocation, we see
those rules every day, either evaded or directly violated without
shame or remorse. Each nation foresees, or imagines it foresees,
its own subjugation in the increasing power and aggrandisement of
any of its neighbours; and the mean principle of national
prejudice is often founded upon the noble one of the love of our
own country. The sentence with which the elder Cato is said to
have concluded every speech which he made in the senate, whatever
might be the subject, 'It is my opinion likewise that Carthage
ought to be destroyed,' was the natural expression of the savage
patriotism of a strong but coarse mind, enraged almost to madness
against a foreign nation from which his own had suffered so much.
The more humane sentence with which Scipio Nasica is said to have
concluded all his speeches, 'It is my opinion likewise that
Carthage ought not to be destroyed,' was the liberal expression
of a more enlarged and enlightened mind, who felt no aversion to
the prosperity even of an old enemy, when reduced to a state
which could no longer be formidable to Rome. France and England
may each of them have some reason to dread the increase of the
naval and military power of the other; but for either of them to
envy the internal happiness and prosperity of the other, the
cultivation of its lands, the advancement of its manufactures,
the increase of its commerce, the security and number of its
ports and harbours, its proficiency in all the liberal arts and
sciences, is surely beneath the dignity of two such great
nations. These are all real improvements of the world we live in.
Mankind are benefited, human nature is ennobled by them. In such
improvements each nation ought, not only to endeavour itself to
excel, but from the love of mankind, to promote, instead of
obstructing the excellence of its neighbours. These are all
proper objects of national emulation, not of national prejudice
or envy.
The love of our own country seems not to be derived from the
love of mankind. The former sentiment is altogether independent
of the latter, and seems sometimes even to dispose us to act
inconsistently with it. France may contain, perhaps, near three
times the number of inhabitants which Great Britain contains. In
the great society of mankind, therefore, the prosperity of France
should appear to be an object of much greater importance than
that of Great Britain. The British subject, however, who, upon
that account, should prefer upon all occasions the prosperity of
the former to that of the latter country, would not be thought a
good citizen of Great Britain. We do not love our country merely
as a part of the great society of mankind: we love it for its own
sake, and independently of any such consideration. That wisdom
which contrived the system of human affections, as well as that
of every other part of nature, seems to have judged that the
interest of the great society of mankind would be best promoted
by directing the principal attention of each individual to that
particular portion of it, which was most within the sphere both
of his abilities and of his understanding.
National prejudices and hatreds seldom extend beyond
neighbouring nations. We very weakly and foolishly, perhaps, call
the French our natural enemies; and they perhaps, as weakly and
foolishly, consider us in the same manner. Neither they nor we
bear any sort of envy to the prosperity of China or Japan. It
very rarely happens, however, that our good-will towards such
distant countries can be exerted with much effect.
The most extensive public benevolence which can commonly be
exerted with any considerable effect, is that of the statesmen,
who project and form alliances among neighbouring or not very
distant nations, for the preservation either of, what is called,
the balance of power, or of the general peace and tranquillity of
the states within the circle of their negotiations. The
statesmen, however, who plan and execute such treaties, have
seldom any thing in view, but the interest of their respective
countries. Sometimes, indeed, their views are more extensive. The
Count d'Avaux, the plenipotentiary of France, at the treaty of
Munster, would have been willing to sacrifice his life (according
to the Cardinal de Retz, a man not over-credulous in the virtue
of other people) in order to have restored, by that treaty, the
general tranquillity of Europe. King William seems to have had a
real zeal for the liberty and independency of the greater part of
the sovereign states of Europe; which, perhaps, might be a good
deal stimulated by his particular aversion to France, the state
from which, during his time, that liberty and independency were
principally in danger. Some share of the same spirit seems to
have descended to the first ministry of Queen Anne.
Every independent state is divided into many different orders
and societies, each of which has its own particular powers,
privileges, and immunities. Every individual is naturally more
attached to his own particular order or society, than to any
other. His own interest, his own vanity the interest and vanity
of many of his friends and companions, are commonly a good deal
connected with it. He is ambitious to extend its privileges and
immunities. He is zealous to defend them against the
encroachments of every other order or society.
Upon the manner in which any state is divided into the
different orders and societies which compose it, and upon the
particular distribution which has been made of their respective
powers, privileges, and immunities, depends, what is called, the
constitution of that particular state.
Upon the ability of each particular order or society to
maintain its own powers, privileges, and immunities, against the
encroachments of every other, depends the stability of that
particular constitution. That particular constitution is
necessarily more or less altered, whenever any of its subordinate
parts is either raised above or depressed below whatever had been
its former rank and condition.
All those different orders and societies are dependent upon
the state to which they owe their security and protection. That
they are all subordinate to that state, and established only in
subserviency to its prosperity and preservation, is a truth
acknowledged by the most partial member of every one of them. It
may often, however, be hard to convince him that the prosperity
and preservation of the state require any diminution of the
powers, privileges, and immunities of his own particular order or
society. This partiality, though it may sometimes be unjust, may
not, upon that account, be useless. It checks the spirit of
innovation. It tends to preserve whatever is the established
balance among the different orders and societies into which the
state is divided; and while it sometimes appears to obstruct some
alterations of government which may be fashionable and popular at
the time, it contributes in reality to the stability and
permanency of the whole system.
The love of our country seems, in ordinary cases, to involve
in it two different principles; first, a certain respect and
reverence for that constitution or form of government which is
actually established; and secondly, an earnest desire to render
the condition of our fellow-citizens as safe, respectable, and
happy as we can. He is not a citizen who is not disposed to
respect the laws and to obey the civil magistrate; and he is
certainly not a good citizen who does not wish to promote, by
every means in his power, the welfare of the whole society of his
fellow-citizens.
In peaceable and quiet times, those two principles generally
coincide and lead to the same conduct. The support of the
established government seems evidently the best expedient for
maintaining the safe, respectable, and happy situation of our
fellow-citizens; when we see that this government actually
maintains them in that situation. But in times of public
discontent, faction, and disorder, those two different principles
may draw different ways, and even a wise man may be disposed to
think some alteration necessary in that constitution or form of
government, which, in its actual condition, appears plainly
unable to maintain the public tranquillity. In such cases,
however, it often requires, perhaps, the highest effort of
political wisdom to determine when a real patriot ought to
support and endeavour to re-establish the authority of the old
system, and when he ought to give way to the more daring, but
often dangerous spirit of innovation.
Foreign war and civil faction are the two situations which
afford the most splendid opportunities for the display of public
spirit. The hero who serves his country successfully in foreign
war gratifies the wishes of the whole nation, and is, upon that
account, the object of universal gratitude and admiration. In
times of civil discord, the leaders of the contending parties,
though they may be admired by one half of their fellow-citizens,
are commonly execrated by the other. Their characters and the
merit of their respective services appear commonly more doubtful.
The glory which is acquired by foreign war is, upon this account,
almost always more pure and more splendid than that which can be
acquired in civil faction.
The leader of the successful party, however, if he has
authority enough to prevail upon his own friends to act with
proper temper and moderation (which he frequently has not), may
sometimes render to his country a service much more essential and
important than the greatest victories and the most extensive
conquests. He may re-establish and improve the constitution, and
from the very doubtful and ambiguous character of the leader of a
party, he may assume the greatest and noblest of all characters,
that of the reformer and legislator of a great state; and, by the
wisdom of his institutions, secure the internal tranquillity and
happiness of his fellow-citizens for many succeeding generations.
Amidst the turbulence and disorder of faction, a certain
spirit of system is apt to mix itself with that public spirit
which is founded upon the love of humanity, upon a real
fellow-feeling with the inconveniencies and distresses to which
some of our fellow-citizens may be exposed. This spirit of system
commonly takes the direction of that more gentle public spirit;
always animates it, and often inflames it even to the madness of
fanaticism. The leaders of the discontented party seldom fail to
hold out some plausible plan of reformation which, they pretend,
will not only remove the inconveniencies and relieve the
distresses immediately complained of, but will prevent, in all
time coming, any return of the like inconveniencies and
distresses. They often propose, upon this account, to new-model
the constitution, and to alter, in some of its most essential
parts, that system of government under which the subjects of a
great empire have enjoyed, perhaps, peace, security, and even
glory, during the course of several centuries together. The great
body of the party are commonly intoxicated with the imaginary
beauty of this ideal system, of which they have no experience,
but which has been represented to them in all the most dazzling
colours in which the eloquence of their leaders could paint it.
Those leaders themselves, though they originally may have meant
nothing but their own aggrandisement, become many of them in time
the dupes of their own sophistry, and are as eager for this great
reformation as the weakest and foolishest of their followers.
Even though the leaders should have preserved their own heads, as
indeed they commonly do, free from this fanaticism, yet they dare
not always disappoint the expectation of their followers; but are
often obliged, though contrary to their principle and their
conscience, to act as if they were under the common delusion. The
violence of the party, refusing all palliatives, all
temperaments, all reasonable accommodations, by requiring too
much frequently obtains nothing; and those inconveniencies and
distresses which, with a little moderation, might in a great
measure have been removed and relieved, are left altogether
without the hope of a remedy.
The man whose public spirit is prompted altogether by
humanity and benevolence, will respect the established powers and
privileges even of individuals, and still more those of the great
orders and societies, into which the state is divided. Though he
should consider some of them as in some measure abusive, he will
content himself with moderating, what he often cannot annihilate
without great violence. When he cannot conquer the rooted
prejudices of the people by reason and persuasion, he will not
attempt to subdue them by force; but will religiously observe
what, by Cicero, is justly called the divine maxim of Plato,
never to use violence to his country no more than to his parents.
He will accommodate, as well as he can, his public arrangements
to the confirmed habits and prejudices of the people; and will
remedy as well as he can, the inconveniencies which may flow from
the want of those regulations which the people are averse to
submit to. When he cannot establish the right, he will not
disdain to ameliorate the wrong; but like Solon, when he cannot
establish the best system of laws, he will endeavour to establish
the best that the people can bear.
The man of system, on the contrary, is apt to be very wise in
his own conceit; and is often so enamoured with the supposed
beauty of his own ideal plan of government, that he cannot suffer
the smallest deviation from any part of it. He goes on to
establish it completely and in all its parts, without any regard
either to the great interests, or to the strong prejudices which
may oppose it. He seems to imagine that he can arrange the
different members of a great society with as much ease as the
hand arranges the different pieces upon a chess-board. He does
not consider that the pieces upon the chess-board have no other
principle of motion besides that which the hand impresses upon
them; but that, in the great chess-board of human society, every
single piece has a principle of motion of its own, altogether
different from that which the legislature might chuse to impress
upon it. If those two principles coincide and act in the same
direction, the game of human society will go on easily and
harmoniously, and is very likely to be happy and successful. If
they are opposite or different, the game will go on miserably,
and the society must be at all times in the highest degree of
disorder.
Some general, and even systematical, idea of the perfection
of policy and law, may no doubt be necessary for directing the
views of the statesman. But to insist upon establishing, and upon
establishing all at once, and in spite of all opposition, every
thing which that idea may seem to require, must often be the
highest degree of arrogance. It is to erect his own judgment into
the supreme standard of right and wrong. It is to fancy himself
the only wise and worthy man in the commonwealth, and that his
fellow-citizens should accommodate themselves to him and not he
to them. It is upon this account, that of all political
speculators, sovereign princes are by far the most dangerous.
This arrogance is perfectly familiar to them. They entertain no
doubt of the immense superiority of their own judgment. When such
imperial and royal reformers, therefore, condescend to
contemplate the constitution of the country which is committed to
their government, they seldom see any thing so wrong in it as the
obstructions which it may sometimes oppose to the execution of
their own will. They hold in contempt the divine maxim of Plato,
and consider the state as made for themselves, not themselves for
the state. The great object of their reformation, therefore, is
to remove those obstructions; to reduce the authority of the
nobility; to take away the privileges of cities and provinces,
and to render both the greatest individuals and the greatest
orders of the state, as incapable of opposing their commands, as
the weakest and most insignificant.
Chap. III
Of universal Benevolence
Though our effectual good offices can very seldom be extended
to any wider society than that of our own country; our good-will
is circumscribed by no boundary, but may embrace the immensity of
the universe. We cannot form the idea of any innocent and
sensible being, whose happiness we should not desire, or to whose
misery, when distinctly brought home to the imagination, we
should not have some degree of aversion. The idea of a
mischievous, though sensible, being, indeed, naturally provokes
our hatred: but the ill-will which, in this case, we bear to it,
is really the effect of our universal benevolence. It is the
effect of the sympathy which we feel with the misery and
resentment of those other innocent and sensible beings, whose
happiness is disturbed by its malice.
This universal benevolence, how noble and generous soever,
can be the source of no solid happiness to any man who is not
thoroughly convinced that all the inhabitants of the universe,
the meanest as well as the greatest, are under the immediate care
and protection of that great, benevolent, and all-wise Being, who
directs all the movements of nature; and who is determined, by
his own unalterable perfections, to maintain in it, at all times,
the greatest possible quantity of happiness. To this universal
benevolence, on the contrary, the very suspicion of a fatherless
world, must be the most melancholy of all reflections; from the
thought that all the unknown regions of infinite and
incomprehensible space may be filled with nothing but endless
misery and wretchedness. All the splendour of the highest
prosperity can never enlighten the gloom with which so dreadful
an idea must necessarily over-shadow the imagination; nor, in a
wise and virtuous man, can all the sorrow of the most afflicting
adversity ever dry up the joy which necessarily springs from the
habitual and thorough conviction of the truth of the contrary
system.
The wise and virtuous man is at all times willing that his
own private interest should be sacrificed to the public interest
of his own particular order or society. He is at all times
willing, too, that the interest of this order or society should
be sacrificed to the greater interest of the state or
sovereignty, of which it is only a subordinate part. He should,
therefore, be equally willing that all those inferior interests
should be sacrificed to the greater interest of the universe, to
the interest of that great society of all sensible and
intelligent beings, of which God himself is the immediate
administrator and director. If he is deeply impressed with the
habitual and thorough conviction that this benevolent and
all-wise Being can admit into the system of his government, no
partial evil which is not necessary for the universal good, he
must consider all the misfortunes which may befal himself, his
friends, his society, or his country, as necessary for the
prosperity of the universe, and therefore as what he ought, not
only to submit to with resignation, but as what he himself, if he
had known all the connexions and dependencies of things, ought
sincerely and devoutly to have wished for.
Nor does this magnanimous resignation to the will of the
great Director of the universe, seem in any respect beyond the
reach of human nature. Good soldiers, who both love and trust
their general, frequently march with more gaiety and alacrity to
the forlorn station, from which they never expect to return, than
they would to one where there was neither difficulty nor danger.
In marching to the latter, they could feel no other sentiment
than that of the dulness of ordinary duty: in marching to the
former, they feel that they are making the noblest exertion which
it is possible for man to make. They know that their general
would not have ordered them upon this station, had it not been
necessary for the safety of the army, for the success of the war.
They cheerfully sacrifice their own little systems to the
prosperity of a greater system. They take an affectionate leave
of their comrades, to whom they wish all happiness and success;
and march out, not only with submissive obedience, but often with
shouts of the most joyful exultation, to that fatal, but splendid
and honourable station to which they are appointed. No conductor
of an army can deserve more unlimited trust, more ardent and
zealous affection, than the great Conductor of the universe. In
the greatest public as well as private disasters, a wise man
ought to consider that he himself, his friends and countrymen,
have only been ordered upon the forlorn station of the universe;
that had it not been necessary for the good of the whole, they
would not have been so ordered; and that it is their duty, not
only with humble resignation to submit to this allotment, but to
endeavour to embrace it with alacrity and joy. A wise man should
surely be capable of doing what a good soldier holds himself at
all times in readiness to do.
The idea of that divine Being, whose benevolence and wisdom
have, from all eternity, contrived and conducted the immense
machine of the universe, so as at all times to produce the
greatest possible quantity of happiness, is certainly of all the
objects of human contemplation by far the most sublime. Every
other thought necessarily appears mean in the comparison. The man
whom we believe to be principally occupied in this sublime
contemplation, seldom fails to be the object of our highest
veneration; and though his life should be altogether
contemplative, we often regard him with a sort of religious
respect much superior to that with which we look upon the most
active and useful servant of the commonwealth. The Meditations of
Marcus Antoninus, which turn principally upon this subject, have
contributed more, perhaps, to the general admiration of his
character, than all the different transactions of his just,
merciful, and beneficent reign.
The administration of the great system of the universe,
however, the care of the universal happiness of all rational and
sensible beings, is the business of God and not of man. To man is
allotted a much humbler department, but one much more suitable to
the weakness of his powers, and to the narrowness of his
comprehension; the care of his own happiness, of that of his
family, his friends, his country: that he is occupied in
contemplating the more sublime, can never be an excuse for his
neglecting the more humble department; and he must not expose
himself to the charge which Avidius Cassius is said to have
brought, perhaps unjustly, against Marcus Antoninus; that while
he employed himself in philosophical speculations, and
contemplated the prosperity of the universe, he neglected that of
the Roman empire. The most sublime speculation of the
contemplative philosopher can scarce compensate the neglect of
the smallest active duty.
Section III
Of Self-command
The man who acts according to the rules of perfect prudence,
of strict justice, and of proper benevolence, may be said to be
perfectly virtuous. But the most perfect knowledge of those rules
will not alone enable him to act in this manner: his own passions
are very apt to mislead him; sometimes to drive him and sometimes
to seduce him to violate all the rules which he himself, in all
his sober and cool hours, approves of. The most perfect
knowledge, if it is not supported by the most perfect
self-command, will not always enable him to do his duty.
Some of the best of the ancient moralists seem to have
considered those passions as divided into two different classes:
first, into those which it requires a considerable exertion of
self-command to restrain even for a single moment; and secondly,
into those which it is easy to restrain for a single moment, or
even for a short period of time; but which, by their continual
and almost incessant solicitations, are, in the course of a life,
very apt to mislead into great deviations.
Fear and anger, together with some other passions which are
mixed or connected with them, constitute the first class. The
love of ease, of pleasure, of applause, and of many other selfish
gratifications, constitute the second. Extravagant fear and
furious anger, it is often difficult to restrain even for a
single moment. The love of ease, of pleasure, of applause, and
other selfish gratifications, it is always easy to restrain for a
single moment, or even for a short period of time; but, by their
continual solicitations, they often mislead us into many
weaknesses which we have afterwards much reason to be ashamed of.
The former set of passions may often be said to drive, the
latter, to seduce us from our duty. The command of the former
was, by the ancient moralists above alluded to, denominated
fortitude, manhood, and strength of mind; that of the latter,
temperance, decency, modesty, and moderation.
The command of each of those two sets of passions,
independent of the beauty which it derives from its utility; from
its enabling us upon all occasions to act according to the
dictates of prudence, of justice, and of proper benevolence; has
a beauty of its own, and seems to deserve for its own sake a
certain degree of esteem and admiration. In the one case, the
strength and greatness of the exertion excites some degree of
that esteem and admiration. In the other, the uniformity, the
equality and unremitting steadiness of that exertion.
The man who, in danger, in torture, upon the approach of
death, preserves his tranquillity unaltered, and suffers no word,
no gesture to escape him which does not perfectly accord with the
feelings of the most indifferent spectator, necessarily commands
a very high degree of admiration. If he suffers in the cause of
liberty and justice, for the sake of humanity and the love of his
country, the most tender compassion for his sufferings, the
strongest indignation against the injustice of his persecutors,
the warmest sympathetic gratitude for his beneficent intentions,
the highest sense of his merit, all join and mix themselves with
the admiration of his magnanimity, and often inflame that
sentiment into the most enthusiastic and rapturous veneration.
The heroes of ancient and modern history, who are remembered with
the most peculiar favour and affection, are, many of them, those
who, in the cause of truth, liberty, and justice, have perished
upon the scaffold, and who behaved there with that ease and
dignity which became them. Had the enemies of Socrates suffered
him to die quietly in his bed, the glory even of that great
philosopher might possibly never have acquired that dazzling
splendour in which it has been beheld in all succeeding ages. In
the english history, when we look over the illustrious heads
which have been engraven by Vertue and Howbraken, there is scarce
any body, I imagine, who does not feel that the axe, the emblem
of having been beheaded, which is engraved under some of the most
illustrious of them. under those of the Sir Thomas Mores, of the
Rhaleighs, the Russels, the Sydneys, etc. sheds a real dignity
and interestingness over the characters to which it is affixed,
much superior to what they can derive from all the futile
ornaments of heraldry, with which they are sometimes accompanied.
Nor does this magnanimity give lustre only to the characters
of innocent and virtuous men. It draws some degree of favourable
regard even upon those of the greatest criminals; and when a
robber or highwayman is brought to the scaffold, and behaves
there with decency and firmness, though we perfectly approve of
his punishment, we often cannot help regretting that a man who
possessed such great and noble powers should have been capable of
such mean enormities.
War is the great school both for acquiring and exercising
this species of magnanimity. Death, as we say, is the king of
terrors; and the man who has conquered the fear of death, is not
likely to lose his presence of mind at the approach of any other
natural evil. In war, men become Familiar with death, and are
thereby necessarily cured of that superstitious horror with which
it is viewed by the weak and unexperienced. They consider it
merely as the loss of life, and as no further the object of
aversion than as life may happen to be that of desire. They learn
from experience, too, that many seemingly great dangers are not
so great as they appear; and that, with courage, activity, and
presence of mind, there is often a good probability of
extricating themselves with honour from situations where at first
they could see no hope. The dread of death is thus greatly
diminished; and the confidence or hope of escaping it, augmented.
They learn to expose themselves to danger with less reluctance.
They are less anxious to get out of it, and less apt to lose
their presence of mind while they are in it. It is this habitual
contempt of danger and death which ennobles the profession of a
soldier, and bestows upon it, in the natural apprehensions of
mankind, a rank and dignity superior to that of any other
profession. The skilful and successful exercise of this
profession, in the service of their country, seems to have
constituted the most distinguishing feature in the character of
the favourite heroes of all ages.
Great warlike exploit, though undertaken contrary to every
principle of justice, and carried on without any regard to
humanity, sometimes interests us, and commands even some degree
of a certain sort of esteem for the very worthless characters
which conduct it. We are interested even in the exploits of the
Buccaneers; and read with some sort of esteem and admiration, the
history of the most worthless men, who, in pursuit of the most
criminal purposes, endured greater hardships, surmounted greater
difficulties, and encountered greater dangers, than, perhaps, any
which the ordinary course of history gives an account of.
The command of anger appears upon many occasions not less
generous and noble than that of fear. The proper expression of
just indignation composes many of the most splendid and admired
passages both of ancient and modern eloquence. The Philippics of
Demosthenes, the Catalinarians of Cicero, derive their whole
beauty from the noble propriety with which this passion is
expressed. But this just indignation is nothing but anger
restrained and properly attempered to what the impartial
spectator can enter into. The blustering and noisy passion which
goes beyond this, is always odious and offensive, and interests
us, not for the angry man, but for the man with whom he is angry.
The nobleness of pardoning appears, upon many occasions, superior
even to the most perfect propriety of resenting. When either
proper acknowledgments have been made by the offending party; or,
even without any such acknowledgments, when the public interest
requires that the most mortal enemies should unite for the
discharge of some important duty, the man who can cast away all
animosity, and act with confidence and cordiality towards the
person who had most grievously offended him, seems justly to
merit our highest admiration.
The command of anger, however, does not always appear in such
splendid colours. Fear is contrary to anger, and is often the
motive which restrains it; and in such cases the meanness of the
motive takes away all the nobleness of the restraint. Anger
prompts to attack, and the indulgence of it seems sometimes to
shew a sort of courage and superiority to fear. The indulgence of
anger is sometimes an object of vanity. That of fear never is.
Vain and weak men, among their inferiors, or those who dare not
resist them, often affect to be ostentatiously passionate, and
fancy that they show, what is called, spirit in being so. A bully
tells many stories of his own insolence, which are not true, and
imagines that he thereby renders himself, if not more amiable and
respectable, at least more formidable to his audience. Modern
manners, which, by favouring the practice of duelling, may be
said, in some cases, to encourage private revenge, contribute,
perhaps, a good deal to render, in modern times, the restraint of
anger by fear still more contemptible than it might otherwise
appear to be. There is always something dignified in the command
of fear, whatever may be the motive upon which it is founded. It
is not so with the command of anger. Unless it is founded
altogether in the sense of decency, of dignity, and propriety, it
never is perfectly agreeable.
To act according to the dictates of prudence, of justice, and
proper beneficence, seems to have no great merit where there is
no temptation to do otherwise. But to act with cool deliberation
in the midst of the greatest dangers and difficulties; to observe
religiously the sacred rules of justice in spite both of the
greatest interests which might tempt, and the greatest injuries
which might provoke us to violate them; never to suffer the
benevolence of our temper to be damped or discouraged by the
malignity and ingratitude of the individuals towards whom it may
have been exercised; is the character of the most exalted wisdom
and virtue. Self-command is not only itself a great virtue, but
from it all the other virtues seem to derive their principal
lustre.
The command of fear, the command of anger, are always great
and noble powers. When they are directed by justice and
benevolence, they are not only great virtues, but increase the
splendour of those other virtues. They may, however, sometimes be
directed by very different motives; and in this case, though
still great and respectable, they may be excessively dangerous.
The most intrepid valour may be employed in the cause of the
greatest injustice. Amidst great provocations, apparent
tranquillity and good humour may sometimes conceal the most
determined and cruel resolution to revenge. The strength of mind
requisite for such dissimulation, though always and necessarily
contaminated by the baseness of falsehood, has, however, been
often much admired by many people of no contemptible judgment.
The dissimulation of Catharine of Medicis is often celebrated by
the profound historian Davila; that of Lord Digby, afterwards
Earl of Bristol, by the grave and conscientious Lord Clarendon;
that of the first Ashley Earl of Shaftesbury, by the judicious Mr
. Locke. Even Cicero seems to consider this deceitful character,
not indeed as of the highest dignity, but as not unsuitable to a
certain flexibility of manners, which, he thinks, may,
notwithstanding, be, upon the whole, both agreeable and
respectable. He exemplifies it by the characters of Homer's
Ulysses, of the Athenian Themistocles, of the Spartan Lysander,
and of the Roman Marcus Crassus. This character of dark and deep
dissimulation occurs most commonly in times of great public
disorder; amidst the violence of faction and civil war. When law
has become in a great measure impotent, when the most perfect
innocence cannot alone insure safety, regard to self-defence
obliges the greater part of men to have recourse to dexterity, to
address, and to apparent accommodation to whatever happens to be,
at the moment, the prevailing party. This false character, too,
is frequently accompanied with the coolest and most determined
courage. The proper exercise of it supposes that courage, as
death is commonly the certain consequence of detection. It may be
employed indifferently, either to exasperate or to allay those
furious animosities of adverse factions which impose the
necessity of assuming it; and though it may sometimes be useful,
it is at least equally liable to be excessively pernicious.
The command of the less violent and turbulent passions seems
much less liable to be abused to any pernicious purpose.
Temperance, decency, modesty, and moderation, are always amiable,
and can seldom be directed to any bad end. It is from the
unremitting steadiness of those gentler exertions of
self-command, that the amiable virtue of chastity, that the
respectable virtues of industry and frugality, derive all that
sober lustre which attends them. The conduct of all those who are
contented to walk in the humble paths of private and peaceable
life, derives from the same principle the greater part of the
beauty and grace which belong to it; a beauty and grace, which,
though much less dazzling, is not always less pleasing than those
which accompany the more splendid actions of the hero, the
statesman, or the legislator.
After what has already been said, in several different parts
of this discourse, concerning the nature of self-command, I judge
it unnecessary to enter into any further detail concerning those
virtues. I shall only observe at present, that the point of
propriety, the degree of any passion which the impartial
spectator approves of, is differently situated in different
passions. In some passions the excess is less disagreeable than
the defect; and in such passions the point of propriety seems to
stand high, or nearer to the excess than to the defect. In other
passions, the defect is less disagreeable than the excess; and in
such passions the point of propriety seems to stand low, or
nearer to the defect than to the excess. The former are the
passions which the spectator is most, the latter, those which he
is least disposed to sympathize with. The former, too, are the
passions of which the immediate feeling or sensation is agreeable
to the person principally concerned; the latter, those of which
it is disagreeable. It may be laid down as a general rule, that
the passions which the spectator is most disposed to sympathize
with, and in which, upon that account, the point of propriety may
be said to stand high, are those of which the immediate feeling
or sensation is more or less agreeable to the person principally
concerned: and that, on the contrary, the passions which the
spectator is least disposed to sympathize with, and in which,
upon that account, the point of propriety may be said to stand
low, are those of which the immediate feeling or sensation is
more or less disagreeable, or even painful, to the person
principally concerned. This general rule, so far as I have been
able to observe, admits not of a single exception. A few examples
will at once, both sufficiently explain it and demonstrate the
truth of it.
The disposition to the affections which tend to unite men in
society, to humanity, kindness, natural affection, friendship,
esteem, may sometimes be excessive. Even the excess of this
disposition, however, renders a man interesting to every body.
Though we blame it, we still regard it with compassion, and even
with kindness, and never with dislike. We are more sorry for it
than angry at it. To the person himself, the indulgence even of
such excessive affections is, upon many occasions, not only
agreeable, but delicious. Upon some occasions, indeed, especially
when directed, as is too often the case, towards unworthy
objects, it exposes him to much real and heartfelt distress. Even
upon such occasions, however, a well-disposed mind regards him
with the most exquisite pity, and feels the highest indignation
against those who affect to despise him for his weakness and
imprudence. The defect of this disposition, on the contrary, what
is called hardness of heart, while it renders a man insensible to
the feelings and distresses of other people, renders other people
equally insensible to his; and, by excluding him from the
friendship of all the world, excludes him from the best and most
comfortable of all social enjoyments.
The disposition to the affections which drive men from one
another, and which tend, as it were, to break the bands of human
society; the disposition to anger, hatred, envy, malice, revenge;
is, on the contrary, much more apt to offend by its excess than
by its defect. The excess renders a man wretched and miserable in
his own mind, and the object of hatred, and sometimes even of
horror, to other people. The defect is very seldom complained of.
It may, however, be defective. The want of proper indignation is
a most essential defect in the manly character, and, upon many
occasions, renders a man incapable of protecting either himself
or his friends from insult and injustice. Even that principle, in
the excess and improper direction of which consists the odious
and detestable passion of envy, may be defective. Envy is that
passion which views with malignant dislike the superiority of
those who are really entitled to all the superiority they
possess. The man, however, who, in matters of consequence, tamely
suffers other people, who are entitled to no such superiority, to
rise above him or get before him, is justly condemned as
mean-spirited. This weakness is commonly founded in indolence,
sometimes in good nature, in an aversion to opposition, to bustle
and solicitation, and sometimes, too, in a sort of ill-judged
magnanimity, which fancies that it can always continue to despise
the advantage which it then despises, and, therefore, so easily
gives up. Such weakness, however, is commonly followed by much
regret and repentance; and what had some appearance of
magnanimity in the beginning frequently gives place to a most
malignant envy in the end, and to a hatred of that superiority,
which those who have once attained it, may often become really
entitled to, by the very circumstance of having attained it. In
order to live comfortably in the world, it is, upon all
occasions, as necessary to defend our dignity and rank, as it is
to defend our life or our fortune.
Our sensibility to personal danger and distress, like that to
personal provocation, is much more apt to offend by its excess
than by its defect. No character is more contemptible than that
of a coward; no character is more admired than that of the man
who faces death with intrepidity, and maintains his tranquillity
and presence of mind amidst the most dreadful dangers. We esteem
the man who supports pain and even torture with manhood and
firmness; and we can have little regard for him who sinks under
them, and abandons himself to useless outcries and womanish
lamentations. A fretful temper, which feels, with too much
sensibility, every little cross accident, renders a man miserable
in himself and offensive to other people. A calm one, which does
not allow its tranquillity to be disturbed, either by the small
injuries, or by the little disasters incident to the usual course
of human affairs; but which, amidst the natural and moral evils
infesting the world, lays its account and is contented to suffer
a little from both, is a blessing to the man himself, and gives
ease and security to all his companions.
Our sensibility, however, both to our own injuries and to our
own misfortunes, though generally too strong, may likewise be too
weak. The man who feels little for his own misfortunes must
always feel less for those of other people, and be less disposed
to relieve them. The man who has little resentment for the
injuries which are done to himself, must always have less for
those which are done to other people, and be less disposed either
to protect or to avenge them. A stupid insensibility to the
events of human life necessarily extinguishes all that keen and
earnest attention to the propriety of our own conduct, which
constitutes the real essence of virtue. We can feel little
anxiety about the propriety of our own actions, when we are
indifferent about the events which may result from them. The man
who feels the full distress of the calamity which has befallen
him, who feels the whole baseness of the injustice which has been
done to him, but who feels still more strongly what the dignity
of his own character requires; who does not abandon himself to
the guidance of the undisciplined passions which his situation
might naturally inspire; but who governs his whole behaviour and
conduct according to those restrained and corrected emotions
which the great inmate, the great demi-god within the breast
prescribes and approves of; is alone the real man of virtue, the
only real and proper object of love, respect, and admiration.
Insensibility and that noble firmness, that exalted self-command,
which is founded in the sense of dignity and propriety, are so
far from being altogether the same, that in proportion as the
former takes place, the merit of the latter is, in many cases,
entirely taken away.
But though the total want of sensibility to personal injury,
to personal danger and distress, would, in such situations, take
away the whole merit of self-command, that sensibility, however,
may very easily be too exquisite, and it frequently is so. When
the sense of propriety, when the authority of the judge within
the breast, can control this extreme sensibility, that authority
must no doubt appear very noble and very great. But the exertion
of it may be too fatiguing; it may have too much to do. The
individual, by a great effort, may behave perfectly well. But the
contest between the two principles, the warfare within the
breast, may be too violent to be at all consistent with internal
tranquillity and happiness. The wise man whom Nature has endowed
with this too exquisite sensibility, and whose too lively
feelings have not been sufficiently blunted and hardened by early
education and proper exercise, will avoid, as much as duty and
propriety will permit, the situations for which he is not
perfectly fitted. The man whose feeble and delicate constitution
renders him too sensible to pain, to hardship, and to every sort
of bodily distress, should not wantonly embrace the profession of
a soldier. The man of too much sensibility to injury, should not
rashly engage in the contests of faction. Though the sense of
propriety should be strong enough to command all those
sensibilities, the composure of the mind must always be disturbed
in the struggle. In this disorder the judgment cannot always
maintain its ordinary acuteness and precision; and though he may
always mean to act properly, he may often act rashly and
imprudently, and in a manner which he himself will, in the
succeeding part of his life, be for ever ashamed of. A certain
intrepidity, a certain firmness of nerves and hardiness of
constitution, whether natural or acquired, are undoubtedly the
best preparatives for all the great exertions of self-command.
Though war and faction are certainly the best schools for
forming every man to this hardiness and firmness of temper,
though they are the best remedies for curing him of the opposite
weaknesses, yet, if the day of trial should happen to come before
he has completely learned his lesson, before the remedy has had
time to produce its proper effect, the consequences might not be
agreeable.
Our sensibility to the pleasures, to the amusements and
enjoyments of human life, may offend, in the same manner, either
by its excess or by its defect. Of the two, however, the excess
seems less disagreeable than the defect. Both to the spectator
and to the person principally concerned, a strong propensity to
joy is certainly more pleasing than a dull insensibility to the
objects of amusement and diversion. We are charmed with the
gaiety of youth, and even with the playfulness of childhood: but
we soon grow weary of the flat and tasteless gravity which too
frequently accompanies old age. When this propensity, indeed, is
not restrained by the sense of propriety, when it is unsuitable
to the time or to the place, to the age or to the situation of
the person, when, to indulge it, he neglects either his interest
or his duty; it is justly blamed as excessive, and as hurtful
both to the individual and to the society. In the greater part of
such cases, however, what is chiefly to be found fault with is,
not so much the strength of the propensity to joy, as the
weakness of the sense of propriety and duty. A young man who has
no relish for the diversions and amusements that are natural and
suitable to his age, who talks of nothing but his book or his
business, is disliked as formal and pedantic; and we give him no
credit for his abstinence even from improper indulgences, to
which he seems to have so little inclination.
The principle of self-estimation may be too high, and it may
likewise be too low. It is so very agreeable to think highly, and
so very disagreeable to think meanly of ourselves, that, to the
person himself, it cannot well be doubted, but that some degree
of excess must be much less disagreeable than any degree of
defect. But to the impartial spectator, it may perhaps be
thought, things must appear quite differently, and that to him,
the defect must always be less disagreeable than the excess. And
in our companions, no doubt, we much more frequently complain of
the latter than of the former. When they assume upon us, or set
themselves before us, their self-estimation mortifies our own.
Our own pride and vanity prompt us to accuse them of pride and
vanity, and we cease to be the impartial spectators of their
conduct. When the same companions, however, suffer any other man
to assume over them a superiority which does not belong to him,
we not only blame them, but often despise them as mean-spirited.
When, on the contrary, among other people, they push themselves a
little more forward, and scramble to an elevation
disproportioned, as we think, to their merit, though we may not
perfectly approve of their conduct, we are often, upon the whole,
diverted with it; and, where there is no envy in the case, we are
almost always much less displeased with them, than we should have
been, had they suffered themselves to sink below their proper
station.
In estimating our own merit, in judging of our own character
and conduct, there are two different standards to which we
naturally compare them. The one is the idea of exact propriety
and perfection, so far as we are each of us capable of
comprehending that idea. The other is that degree of
approximation to this idea which is commonly attained in the
world, and which the greater part of our friends and companions,
of our rivals and competitors, may have actually arrived at. We
very seldom (I am disposed to think, we never) attempt to judge
of ourselves without giving more or less attention to both these
different standards. But the attention of different men, and even
of the same man at different times, is often very unequally
divided between them; and is sometimes principally directed
towards the one, and sometimes towards the other.
So far as our attention is directed towards the first
standard, the wisest and best of us all, can, in his own
character and conduct, see nothing but weakness and imperfection;
can discover no ground for arrogance and presumption, but a great
deal for humility, regret and repentance. So far as our attention
is directed towards the second, we may be affected either in the
one way or in the other, and feel ourselves, either really above,
or really below, the standard to which we compare ourselves.
The wise and virtuous man directs his principal attention to
the first standard; the idea of exact propriety and perfection.
There exists in the mind of every man, an idea of this kind,
gradually formed from his observations upon the character and
conduct both of himself and of other people. It is the slow,
gradual, and progressive work of the great demigod within the
breast, the great judge and arbiter of conduct. This idea is in
every man more or less accurately drawn, its colouring is more or
less just, its outlines are more or less exactly designed,
according to the delicacy and acuteness of that sensibility, with
which those observations were made, and according to the care and
attention employed in making them. In the wise and virtuous man
they have been made with the most acute and delicate sensibility,
and the utmost care and attention have been employed in making
them. Every day some feature is improved; every day some blemish
is corrected. He has studied this idea more than other people, he
comprehends it more distinctly, he has formed a much more correct
image of it, and is much more deeply enamoured of its exquisite
and divine beauty. He endeavours as well as he can, to assimilate
his own character to this archetype of perfection. But he
imitates the work of a divine artist, which can never be
equalled. He feels the imperfect success of all his best
endeavours, and sees, with grief and affliction, in how many
different features the mortal copy falls short of the immortal
original. He remembers, with concern and humilation, how often,
from want of attention, from want of judgment, from want of
temper, he has, both in words and actions, both in conduct and
conversation, violated the exact rules of perfect propriety; and
has so far departed from that model, according to which he wished
to fashion his own character and conduct. When he directs his
attention towards the second standard, indeed, that degree of
excellence which his friends and acquaintances have commonly
arrived at, he may be sensible of his own superiority. But, as
his principal attention is always directed towards the first
standard, he is necessarily much more humbled by the one
comparison, than he ever can be elevated by the other. He is
never so elated as to look down with insolence even upon those
who are really below him. He feels so well his own imperfection,
he knows so well the difficulty with which he attained his own
distant approximation to rectitude, that he cannot regard with
contempt the still greater imperfection of other people. Far from
insulting over their inferiority, he views it with the most
indulgent commiseration, and, by his advice as well as example,
is at all times willing to promote their further advancement. If,
in any particular qualification, they happen to be superior to
him (for who is so perfect as not to have many superiors in many
different qualifications?), far from envying their superiority,
he, who knows how difficult it is to excel, esteems and honours
their excellence, and never fails to bestow upon it the full
measure of applause which it deserves. His whole mind, in short,
is deeply impressed, his whole behaviour and deportment are
distinctly stamped with the character of real modesty; with that
of a very moderate estimation of his own merit, and, at the same
time, of a full sense of the merit of other people.
In all the liberal and ingenious arts, in painting, in
poetry, in music, in eloquence, in philosophy, the great artist
feels always the real imperfection of his own best works, and is
more sensible than any man how much they fall short of that ideal
perfection of which he has formed some conception, which he
imitates as well as he can, but which he despairs of ever
equalling. It is the inferior artist only, who is ever perfectly
satisfied with his own performances. He has little conception of
this ideal perfection, about which he has little employed his
thoughts; and it is chiefly to the works of other artists, of,
perhaps, a still lower order, that he deigns to compare his own
works. Boileau, the great French poet (in some of his works,
perhaps not inferior to the greatest poet of the same kind,
either ancient or modern), used to say, that no great man was
ever completely satisfied with his own works. His acquaintance
Santeuil (a writer of Latin verses, and who, on account of that
schoolboy accomplishment, had the weakness to fancy himself a
poet), assured him, that he himself was always completely
satisfied with his own. Boileau replied, with, perhaps, an arch
ambiguity, that he certainly was the only great man that ever was
so. Boileau, in judging of his own works, compared them with the
standard of ideal perfection, which, in his own particular branch
of the poetic art, he had, I presume, meditated as deeply, and
conceived as distinctly, as it is possible for man to conceive
it. Santeuil, in judging of his own works, compared them, I
suppose, chiefly to those of the other Latin poets of his own
time, to the greater part of whom he was certainly very far from
being inferior. But to support and finish off, if I may say so,
the conduct and conversation of a whole life to some resemblance
of this ideal perfection, is surely much more difficult than to
work up to an equal resemblance any of the productions of any of
the ingenious arts. The artist sits down to his work undisturbed,
at leisure, in the full possession and recollection of all his
skill, experience, and knowledge. The wise man must support the
propriety of his own conduct in health and in sickness, in
success and in disappointment, in the hour of fatigue and drowsy
indolence, as well as in that of the most awakened attention. The
most sudden and unexpected assaults of difficulty and distress
must never surprise him. The injustice of other people must never
provoke him to injustice. The violence of faction must never
confound him. All the hardships and hazards of war must never
either dishearten or appal him.
Of the persons who, in estimating their own merit, in judging
of their own character and conduct, direct by far the greater
part of their attention to the second standard, to that ordinary
degree of excellence which is commonly attained by other people,
there are some who really and justly feel themselves very much
above it, and who, by every intelligent and impartial spectator,
are acknowledged to be so. The attention of such persons,
however, being always principally directed, not to the standard
of ideal, but to that of ordinary perfection, they have little
sense of their own weaknesses and imperfections; they have little
modesty; are often assuming, arrogant, and presumptuous; great
admirers of themselves, and great contemners of other people.
Though their characters are in general much less correct, and
their merit much inferior to that of the man of real and modest
virtue; yet their excessive presumption, founded upon their own
excessive self-admiration, dazzles the multitude, and often
imposes even upon those who are much superior to the multitude.
The frequent, and often wonderful, success of the most ignorant
quacks and imposters, both civil and religious, sufficiently
demonstrate how easily the multitude are imposed upon by the most
extravagant and groundless pretensions. But when those
pretensions are supported by a very high degree of real and solid
merit, when they are displayed with all the splendour which
ostentation can bestow upon them, when they are supported by high
rank and great power, when they have often been successfully
exerted, and are, upon that account, attended by the loud
acclamations of the multitude; even the man of sober judgment
often abandons himself to the general admiration. The very noise
of those foolish acclamations often contributes to confound his
understanding, and while he sees those great men only at a
certain distance, he is often disposed to worship them with a
sincere admiration, superior even to that with which they appear
to worship themselves. When there is no envy in the case, we all
take pleasure in admiring, and are, upon that account, naturally
disposed, in our own fancies, to render complete and perfect in
every respect the characters which, in many respects, are so very
worthy of admiration. The excessive self-admiration of those
great men is well understood, perhaps, and even seen through,
with some degree of derision, by those wise men who are much in
their familiarity, and who secretly smile at those lofty
pretensions, which, by people at a distance, are often regarded
with reverence, and almost with adoration. Such, however, have
been, in all ages, the greater part of those men who have
procured to themselves the most noisy fame, the most extensive
reputation; a fame and reputation, too, which have often
descended to the remotest posterity.
Great success in the world, great authority over the
sentiments and opinions of mankind, have very seldom been
acquired without some degree of this excessive self-admiration.
The most splendid characters, the men who have performed the most
illustrious actions, who have brought about the greatest
revolutions, both in the situations and opinions of mankind; the
most successful warriors, the greatest statesmen and legislators,
the eloquent founders and leaders of the most numerous and most
successful sects and parties; have many of them been, not more
distinguished for their very great merit, than for a degree of
presumption and self-admiration altogether disproportioned even
to that very great merit. This presumption was, perhaps,
necessary, not only to prompt them to undertakings which a more
sober mind would never have thought of, but to command the
submission and obedience of their followers to support them in
such undertakings. When crowned with success, accordingly, this
presumption has often betrayed them into a vanity that approached
almost to insanity and folly. Alexander the Great appears, not
only to have wished that other people should think him a God, but
to have been at least very well disposed to fancy himself such.
Upon his death-bed, the most ungodlike of all situations, he
requested of his friends that, to the respectable list of
Deities, into which himself had long before been inserted, his
old mother Olympia might likewise have the honour of being added.
Amidst the respectful admiration of his followers and disciples,
amidst the universal applause of the public, after the oracle,
which probably had followed the voice of that applause, had
pronounced him the wisest of men, the great wisdom of Socrates,
though it did not suffer him to fancy himself a God, yet was not
great enough to hinder him from fancying that he had secret and
frequent intimations from some invisible and divine Being. The
sound head of Caesar was not so perfectly sound as to hinder him
from being much pleased with his divine genealogy from the
goddess Venus; and, before the temple of this pretended
great-grandmother, to receive, without rising from his seat, the
Roman Senate, when that illustrious body came to present him with
some decrees conferring upon him the most extravagant honours.
This insolence, joined to some other acts of an almost childish
vanity, little to be expected from an understanding at once so
very acute and comprehensive, seems, by exasperating the public
jealousy, to have emboldened his assassins, and to have hastened
the execution of their conspiracy. The religion and manners of
modern times give our great men little encouragement to fancy
themselves either Gods or even Prophets. Success, however, joined
to great popular favour, has often so far turned the heads of the
greatest of them, as to make them ascribe to themselves both an
importance and an ability much beyond what they really possessed;
and, by this presumption, to precipitate themselves into many
rash and sometimes ruinous adventures. It is a characteristic
almost peculiar to the great Duke of Marlborough, that ten years
of such uninterrupted and such splendid success as scarce any
other general could boast of, never betrayed him into a single
rash action, scarce into a single rash word or expression. The
same temperate coolness and self-command cannot, I think, be
ascribed to any other great warrior of later times; not to Prince
Eugene, not to the late King of Prussia, not to the great Prince
of Conde, not even to Gustavus Adolphus. Turrenne seems to have
approached the nearest to it; but several different transactions
of his life sufficiently demonstrate that it was in him by no
means so perfect as in the great Duke of Marlborough.
In the humble project of private life, as well as in the
ambitious and proud pursuit of high stations, great abilities and
successful enterprise, in the beginning, have frequently
encouraged to undertakings which necessarily led to bankruptcy
and ruin in the end.
The esteem and admiration which every impartial spectator
conceives for the real merit of those spirited, magnanimous, and
high-minded persons, as it is a just and well-founded sentiment,
so it is a steady and permanent one, and altogether independent
of their good or bad fortune. It is otherwise with that
admiration which he is apt to conceive for their excessive
self-estimation and presumption. While they are successful,
indeed, he is often perfectly conquered and overborne by them.
Success covers from his eyes, not only the great imprudence, but
frequently the great injustice of their enterprises; and, far
from blaming this defective part of their character, he often
views it with the most enthusiastic admiration. When they are
unfortunate, however, things change their colours and their
names. What was before heroic magnanimity, resumes its proper
appellation of extravagant rashness and folly; and the blackness
of that avidity and injustice, which was before hid under the
splendour of prosperity, comes full into view, and blots the
whole lustre of their enterprise. Had Caesar, instead of gaining,
lost the battle of Pharsalia, his character would, at this hour,
have ranked a little above that of Catiline, and the weakest man
would have viewed his enterprise against the laws of his country
in blacker colours, than, perhaps, even Cato, with all the
animosity of a party-man, ever viewed it at the time. His real
merit, the justness of his taste, the simplicity and elegance of
his writings, the propriety of his eloquence, his skill in war,
his resources in distress, his cool and sedate judgment in
danger, his faithful attachment to his friends, his unexampled
generosity to his enemies, would all have been acknowledged; as
the real merit of Catiline, who had many great qualities, is
acknowledged at this day. But the insolence and injustice of his
all-grasping ambition would have darkened and extinguished the
glory of all that real merit. Fortune has in this, as well as in
some other respects already mentioned, great influence over the
moral sentiments of mankind, and, according as she is either
favourable or adverse, can render the same character the object,
either of general love and admiration, or of universal hatred and
contempt. This great disorder in our moral sentiments is by no
means, however, without its utility; and we may on this, as well
as on many other occasions, admire the wisdom of God even in the
weakness and folly of man. Our admiration of success is founded
upon the same principle with our respect for wealth and
greatness, and is equally necessary for establishing the
distinction of ranks and the order of society. By this admiration
of success we are taught to submit more easily to those
superiors, whom the course of human affairs may assign to us; to
regard with reverence, and sometimes even with a sort of
respectful affection, that fortunate violence which we are no
longer capable of resisting; not only the violence of such
splendid characters as those of a Caesar or an Alexander, but
often that of the most brutal and savage barbarians, of an
Attila, a Gengis, or a Tamerlane. To all such mighty conquerors
the great mob of mankind are naturally disposed to look up with a
wondering, though, no doubt, with a very weak and foolish
admiration. By this admiration, however, they are taught to
acquiesce with less reluctance under that government which an
irresistible force imposes upon them, and from which no
reluctance could deliver them.
Though in prosperity, however, the man of excessive
self-estimation may sometimes appear to have some advantage over
the man of correct and modest virtue; though the applause of the
multitude, and of those who see them both only at a distance, is
often much louder in favour of the one than it ever is in favour
of the other; yet, all things fairly computed, the real balance
of advantage is, perhaps in all cases, greatly in favour of the
latter and against the former. The man who neither ascribes to
himself, nor wishes that other people should ascribe to him, any
other merit besides that which really belongs to him, fears no
humiliation, dreads no detection; but rests contented and secure
upon the genuine truth and solidity of his own character. His
admirers may neither be very numerous nor very loud in their
applauses; but the wisest man who sees him the nearest and who
knows him the best, admires him the most. To a real wise man the
judicious and well-weighed approbation of a single wise man,
gives more heartfelt satisfaction than all the noisy applauses of
ten thousand ignorant though enthusiastic admirers. He may say
with Parmenides, who, upon reading a philosophical discourse
before a public assembly at Athens, and observing, that, except
Plato, the whole company had left him, continued,
notwithstanding, to read on, and said that Plato alone was
audience sufficient for him.
It is otherwise with the man of excessive self-estimation.
The wise men who see him the nearest, admire him the least.
Amidst the intoxication of prosperity, their sober and just
esteem falls so far short of the extravagance of his own
self-admiration, that he regards it as mere malignity and envy.
He suspects his best friends. Their company becomes offensive to
him. He drives them from his presence, and often rewards their
services, not only with ingratitude, but with cruelty and
injustice. He abandons his confidence to flatterers and traitors,
who pretend to idolize his vanity and presumption; and that
character which in the beginning, though in some respects
defective, was, upon the whole, both amiable and respectable,
becomes contemptible and odious in the end. Amidst the
intoxication of prosperity, Alexander killed Clytus, for having
preferred the exploits of his father Philip to his own; put
Calisthenes to death in torture, for having refused to adore him
in the Persian manner; and murdered the great friend of his
father, the venerable Parmenio, after having, upon the most
groundless suspicions, sent first to the torture and afterwards
to the scaffold the only remaining son of that old man, the rest
having all before died in his own service. This was that Parmenio
of whom Philip used to say, that the Athenians were very
fortunate who could find ten generals every year, while he
himself, in the whole course of his life, could never find one
but Parmenio. It was upon the vigilance and attention of this
Parmenio that he reposed at all times with confidence and
security, and, in his hours of mirth and jollity, used to say,
Let us drink, my friends, we may do it with safety, for Parmenio
never drinks. It was this same Parmenio, with whose presence and
counsel, it had been said, Alexander had gained all his
victories; and without whose presence and counsel, he had never
gained a single victory. The humble, admiring, and flattering
friends, whom Alexander left in power and authority behind him,
divided his empire among themselves, and after having thus robbed
his family and kindred of their inheritance, put, one after
another, every single surviving individual of them, whether male
or female, to death.
We frequently, not only pardon, but thoroughly enter into and
sympathize with the excessive self-estimation of those splendid
characters in which we observe a great and distinguished
superiority above the common level of mankind. We call them
spirited, magnanimous, and high-minded; words which all involve
in their meaning a considerable degree of praise and admiration.
But we cannot enter into and sympathize with the excessive
self-estimation of those characters in which we can discern no
such distinguished superiority. We are disgusted and revolted by
it; and it is with some difficulty that we can either pardon or
suffer it: We call it pride or vanity; two words, of which the
latter always, and the former for the most part, involve in their
meaning a considerable degree of blame.
Those two vices, however, though resembling, in some
respects, as being both modifications of excessive
self-estimation, are yet, in many respects, very different from
one another.
The proud man is sincere, and, in the bottom of his heart, is
convinced of his own superiority; though it may sometimes be
difficult to guess upon what that conviction is founded. He
wishes you to view him in no other light than that in which, when
he places himself in your situation, he really views himself. He
demands no more of you than, what he thinks, justice. If you
appear not to respect him as he respects himself, he is more
offended than mortified, and feels the same indignant resentment
as if he had suffered a real injury. He does not even then,
however, deign to explain the grounds of his own pretensions. He
disdains to court your esteem. He affects even to despise it, and
endeavours to maintain his assumed station, not so much by making
you sensible of his superiority, as of your own meanness. He
seems to wish, not so much to excite your esteem for himself as
to mortify that for yourself.
The vain man is not sincere, and, in the bottom of his heart,
is very seldom convinced of that superiority which he wishes you
to ascribe to him. He wishes you to view him in much more
splendid colours than those in which, when he places himself in
your situation, and supposes you to know all that he knows, he
can really view himself. When you appear to view him, therefore,
in different colours, perhaps in his proper colours, he is much
more mortified than offended. The grounds of his claim to that
character which he wishes you to ascribe to him, he takes every
opportunity of displaying, both by the most ostentatious and
unnecessary exhibition of the good qualities and accomplishments
which he possesses in some tolerable degree, and sometimes even
by false pretensions to those which he either possesses in no
degree, or in so very slender a degree that he may well enough be
said to possess them in no degree. Far from despising your
esteem, he courts it with the most anxious assiduity. Far from
wishing to mortify your self-estimation, he is happy to cherish
it, in hopes that in return you will cherish his own. He flatters
in order to be flattered. He studies to please, and endeavours to
bribe you into a good opinion of him by politeness and
complaisance, and sometimes even by real and essential good
offices, though often displayed, perhaps, with unnecessary
ostentation.
The vain man sees the respect which is paid to rank and
fortune, and wishes to usurp this respect, as well as that for
talents and virtues. His dress, his equipage, his way of living,
accordingly, all announce both a higher rank and a greater
fortune than really belong to him; and in order to support this
foolish imposition for a few years in the beginning of his life,
he often reduces himself to poverty and distress long before the
end of it. As long as he can continue his expence, however, his
vanity is delighted with viewing himself, not in the light in
which you would view him if you knew all that he knows; but in
that in which, he imagines, he has, by his own address, induced
you actually to view him. Of all the illusions of vanity this is,
perhaps, the most common. Obscure strangers who visit foreign
countries, or who, from a remote province, come to visit, for a
short time, the capital of their own country, most frequently
attempt to practise it. The folly of the attempt, though always
very great and most unworthy of a man of sense, may not be
altogether so great upon such as upon most other occasions. If
their stay is short, they may escape any disgraceful detection;
and, after indulging their vanity for a few months or a few
years, they may return to their own homes, and repair, by future
parsimony, the waste of their past profusion.
The proud man can very seldom be accused of this folly. His
sense of his own dignity renders him careful to preserve his
independency, and, when his fortune happens not to be large,
though he wishes to be decent, he studies to be frugal and
attentive in all his expences. The ostentatious expence of the
vain man is highly offensive to him. It outshines, perhaps, his
own. It provokes his indignation as an insolent assumption of a
rank which is by no means due; and he never talks of it without
loading it with the harshest and severest reproaches.
The proud man does not always feel himself at his ease in the
company of his equals, and still less in that of his superiors.
He cannot lay down his lofty pretensions, and the countenance and
conversation of such company overawe him so much that he dare not
display them. He has recourse to humbler company, for which he
has little respect, which he would not willingly chuse; and which
is by no means agreeable to him; that of his inferiors, his
flatterers, and dependants. He seldom visits his superiors, or,
if he does, it is rather to show that he is entitled to live in
such company, than for any real satisfaction that he enjoys in
it. It is as Lord Clarendon says of the Earl of Arundel, that he
sometimes went to court, because he could there only find a
greater man than himself; but that he went very seldom, because
he found there a greater man than himself.
It is quite otherwise with the vain man. He courts the
company of his superiors as much as the proud man shuns it. Their
splendour, he seems to think, reflects a splendour upon those who
are much about them. He haunts the courts of kings and the levees
of ministers, and gives himself the air of being a candidate for
fortune and preferment, when in reality he possesses the much
more precious happiness, if he knew how to enjoy it, of not being
one. He is fond of being admitted to the tables of the great, and
still more fond of magnifying to other people the familiarity
with which he is honoured there. He associates himself, as much
as he can, with fashionable people, with those who are supposed
to direct the public opinion, with the witty, with the learned,
with the popular; and he shuns the company of his best friends
whenever the very uncertain current of public favour happens to
run in any respect against them. With the people to whom he
wishes to recommend himself, he is not always very delicate about
the means which he employs for that purpose; unnecessary
ostentation, groundless pretensions, constant assentation,
frequently flattery, though for the most part a pleasant and a
sprightly flattery, and very seldom the gross and fulsome
flattery of a parasite. The proud man, on the contrary, never
flatters, and is frequently scarce civil to any body.
Notwithstanding all its groundless pretensions, however,
vanity is almost always a sprightly and a gay, and very often a
good-natured passion. Pride is always a grave, a sullen, and a
severe one. Even the falsehoods of the vain man are all innocent
falsehoods, meant to raise himself, not to lower other people. To
do the proud man justice, he very seldom stoops to the baseness
of falsehood. When he does, however, his falsehoods are by no
means so innocent. They are all mischievous, and meant to lower
other people. He is full of indignation at the unjust
superiority, as he thinks it, which is given to them. He views
them with malignity and envy, and, in talking of them, often
endeavours, as much as he can, to extenuate and lessen whatever
are the grounds upon which their superiority is supposed to be
founded. Whatever tales are circulated to their disadvantage,
though he seldom forges them himself, yet he often takes pleasure
in believing them, is by no means unwilling to repeat them, and
even sometimes with some degree of exaggeration. The worst
falsehoods of vanity are all what we call white lies: those of
pride, whenever it condescends to falsehood, are all of the
opposite complexion.
Our dislike to pride and vanity generally disposes us to rank
the persons whom we accuse of those vices rather below than above
the common level. In this judgment, however, I think, we are most
frequently in the wrong, and that both the proud and the vain man
are often (perhaps for the most part) a good deal above it;
though not near so much as either the one really thinks himself,
or as the other wishes you to think him. If we compare them with
their own pretensions, they may appear the just objects of
contempt. But when we compare them with what the greater part of
their rivals and competitors really are, they may appear quite
otherwise, and very much above the common level. Where there is
this real superiority, pride is frequently attended with many
respectable virtues; with truth, with integrity, with a high
sense of honour, with cordial and steady friendship, with the
most inflexible firmness and resolution. Vanity, with many
amiable ones; with humanity, with politeness, with a desire to
oblige in all little matters, and sometimes with a real
generosity in great ones; a generosity, however, which it often
wishes to display in the most splendid colours that it can. By
their rivals and enemies, the French, in the last century, were
accused of vanity; the Spaniards, of pride; and foreign nations
were disposed to consider the one as the more amiable; the other,
as the more respectable people.
The words vain and vanity are never taken in a good sense. We
sometimes say of a man, when we are talking of him in good
humour, that he is the better for his vanity, or that his vanity
is more diverting than offensive; but we still consider it as a
foible and a ridicule in his character.
The words proud and pride, on the contrary, are sometimes
taken in a good sense. We frequently say of a man, that he is too
proud, or that he has too much noble pride, ever to suffer
himself to do a mean thing. Pride is, in this case, confounded
with magnanimity. Aristotle, a Philosopher who certainly knew the
world, in drawing the character of the magnanimous man, paints
him with many features which, in the two last centuries, were
commonly ascribed to the Spanish character: that he was
deliberate in all his resolutions; slow, and even tardy, in all
his actions; that his voice was grave, his speech deliberate, his
step and motion slow; that he appeared indolent and even
slothful, not at all disposed to bustle about little matters, but
to act with the most determined and vigorous resolution upon all
great and illustrious occasions; that he was not a lover of
danger, or forward to expose himself to little dangers, but to
great dangers; and that, when he exposed himself to danger, he
was altogether regardless of his life.
The proud man is commonly too well contented with himself to
think that his character requires any amendment. The man who
feels himself all-perfect, naturally enough despises all further
improvement. His self-sufficiency and absurd conceit of his own
superiority, commonly attend him from his youth to his most
advanced age; and he dies, as Hamlet says, with all his sins upon
his head, unanointed, unanealed.
It is frequently otherwise with the vain man. The desire of
the esteem and admiration of other people, when for qualities and
talents which are the natural and proper objects of esteem and
admiration, is the real love of true glory; a passion which, if
not the very best passion of human nature, is certainly one of
the best. Vanity is very frequently no more than an attempt
prematurely to usurp that glory before it is due. Though your
son, under five-and-twenty years of age, should be but a coxcomb;
do not, upon that account, despair of his becoming, before he is
forty, a very wise and worthy man, and a real proficient in all
those talents and virtues to which, at present, he may only be an
ostentatious and empty pretender. The great secret of education
is to direct vanity to proper objects. Never suffer him to value
himself upon trivial accomplishments. But do not always
discourage his pretensions to those that are of real importance.
He would not pretend to them if he did not earnestly desire to
possess them. encourage this desire; afford him every means to
facilitate the acquisition; and do not take too much offence,
although he should sometimes assume the air of having attained it
a little before the time.
Such, I say, are the distinguishing characteristics of pride
and vanity, when each of them acts according to its proper
character. But the proud man is often vain; and the vain man is
often proud. Nothing can be more natural than that the man, who
thinks much more highly of himself than he deserves, should wish
that other people should think still more highly of him: or that
the man, who wishes that other people should think more highly of
him than he thinks of himself, should, at the same time, think
much more highly of himself than he deserves. Those two vices
being frequently in the same character, the characteristics of
both are necessarily confounded; and we sometimes find the
superficial and impertinent ostentation of vanity joined to the
most malignant and derisive insolence of pride. We are sometimes,
upon that account, at a loss how to rank a particular character,
or whether to place it among the proud or among the vain.
Men of merit considerably above the common level, sometimes
under-rate as well as over-rate themselves. Such characters,
though not very dignified, are often, in private society, far
from being disagreeable. His companions all feel themselves much
at their ease in the society of a man so perfectly modest and
unassuming. If those companions, however, have not both more
discernment and more generosity than ordinary, though they may
have some kindness for him, they have seldom much respect; and
the warmth of their kindness is very seldom sufficient to
compensate the coldness of their respect. Men of no more than
ordinary discernment never rate any person higher than he appears
to rate himself. He seems doubtful himself, they say, whether he
is perfectly fit for such a situation or such an office; and
immediately give the preference to some impudent blockhead who
entertains no doubt about his own qualifications. Though they
should have discernment, yet, if they want generosity, they never
fail to take advantage of his simplicity, and to assume over him
an impertinent superiority which they are by no means entitled
to. His good-nature may enable him to bear this for some time;
but he grows weary at last, and frequently when it is too late,
and when that rank, which he ought to have assumed, is lost
irrecoverably, and usurped, in consequence of his own
backwardness, by some of his more forward, though much less
meritorious companions. A man of this character must have been
very fortunate in the early choice of his companions, if, in
going through the world, he meets always with fair justice, even
from those whom, from his own past kindness, he might have some
reason to consider as his best friends; and a youth, too
unassuming and too unambitious, is frequently followed by an
insignificant, complaining, and discontented old age.
Those unfortunate persons whom nature has formed a good deal
below the common level, seem sometimes to rate themselves still
more below it than they really are. This humility appears
sometimes to sink them into idiotism. Whoever has taken the
trouble to examine idiots with attention, will find that, in many
of them, the faculties of the understanding are by no means
weaker than in several other people, who, though acknowledged to
be dull and stupid, are not, by any body, accounted idiots. Many
idiots, with no more than ordinary education, have been taught to
read, write, and account tolerably well. Many persons, never
accounted idiots, notwithstanding the most careful education, and
notwithstanding that, in their advanced age, they have had spirit
enough to attempt to learn what their early education had not
taught them, have never been able to acquire, in any tolerable
degree, any one of those three accomplishments. By an instinct of
pride, however, they set themselves upon a level with their
equals in age and situation; and, with courage and firmness,
maintain their proper station among their companions. By an
opposite instinct, the idiot feels himself below every company
into which you can introduce him. Ill-usage, to which he is
extremely liable, is capable of throwing him into the most
violent fits of rage and fury. But no good usage, no kindness or
indulgence, can ever raise him to converse with you as your
equal. If you can bring him to converse with you at all, however,
you will frequently find his answers sufficiently pertinent, and
even sensible. But they are always stamped with a distinct
consciousness of his own great inferiority. He seems to shrink
and, as it were, to retire from your look and conversation; and
to feel, when he places himself in your situation, that,
notwithstanding your apparent condescension, you cannot help
considering him as immensely below you. Some idiots, perhaps the
greater part, seem to be so, chiefly or altogether, from a
certain numbness or torpidity in the faculties of the
understanding. But there are others, in whom those faculties do
not appear more torpid or benumbed than in many other people who
are not accounted idiots. But that instinct of pride, necessary
to support them upon an equality with their brethren, seems
totally wanting in the former and not in the latter.
That degree of self-estimation, therefore, which contributes
most to the happiness and contentment of the person himself,
seems likewise most agreeable to the impartial spectator. The man
who esteems himself as he ought, and no more than he ought,
seldom fails to obtain from other people all the esteem that he
himself thinks due. He desires no more than is due to him, and he
rests upon it with complete satisfaction.
The proud and the vain man, on the contrary, are constantly
dissatisfied. The one is tormented with indignation at the unjust
superiority, as he thinks it, of other people. The other is in
continual dread of the shame which, he foresees, would attend
upon the detection of his groundless pretensions. Even the
extravagant pretensions of the man of real magnanimity, though,
when supported by splendid abilities and virtues, and, above all,
by good fortune, they impose upon the multitude, whose applauses
he little regards, do not impose upon those wise men whose
approbation he can only value, and whose esteem he is most
anxious to acquire. He feels that they see through, and suspects
that they despise his excessive presumption; and he often suffers
the cruel misfortune of becoming, first the jealous and secret,
and at last the open, furious, and vindictive enemy of those very
persons, whose friendship it would have given him the greatest
happiness to enjoy with unsuspicious security.
Though our dislike to the proud and the vain often disposes
us to rank them rather below than above their proper station,
yet, unless we are provoked by some particular and personal
impertinence, we very seldom venture to use them ill. In common
cases, we endeavour, for our own ease, rather to acquiesce, and,
as well as we can, to accommodate ourselves to their folly. But,
to the man who under-rates himself, unless we have both more
discernment and more generosity than belong to the greater part
of men, we seldom fail to do, at least, all the injustice which
he does to himself, and frequently a great deal more. He is not
only more unhappy in his own feelings than either the proud or
the vain, but he is much more liable to every sort of ill-usage
from other people. In almost all cases, it is better to be a
little too proud, than, in any respect, too humble; and, in the
sentiment of self-estimation, some degree of excess seems, both
to the person and to the impartial spectator, to be less
disagreeable than any degree of defect.
In this, therefore, as well as in every other emotion,
passion, and habit, the degree that is most agreeable to the
impartial spectator is likewise most agreeable to the person
himself; and according as either the excess or the defect is
least offensive to the former, so, either the one or the other is
in proportion least disagreeable to the latter.
Conclusion of the Sixth Part
Concern for our own happiness recommends to us the virtue of
prudence: concern for that of other people, the virtues of
justice and beneficence; of which, the one restrains us from
hurting, the other prompts us to promote that happiness.
Independent of any regard either to what are, or to what ought to
be, or to what upon a certain condition would be, the sentiments
of other people, the first of those three virtues is originally
recommended to us by our selfish, the other two by our benevolent
affections. Regard to the sentiments of other people, however,
comes afterwards both to enforce and to direct the practice of
all those virtues; and no man during, either the whole of his
life, or that of any considerable part of it, ever trod steadily
and uniformly in the paths of prudence, of justice, or of proper
beneficence, whose conduct was not principally directed by a
regard to the sentiments of the supposed impartial spectator, of
the great inmate of the breast, the great judge and arbiter of
conduct. If in the course of the day we have swerved in any
respect from the rules which he prescribes to us; if we have
either exceeded or relaxed in our frugality; if we have either
exceeded or relaxed in our industry; if, through passion or
inadvertency, we have hurt in any respect the interest or
happiness of our neighbour; if we have neglected a plain and
proper opportunity of promoting that interest and happiness; it
is this inmate who, in the evening, calls us to an account for
all those omissions and violations, and his reproaches often make
us blush inwardly both for our folly and inattention to our own
happiness, and for our still greater indifference and
inattention, perhaps, to that of other people.
But though the virtues of prudence, justice, and beneficence,
may, upon different occasions, be recommended to us almost
equally by two different principles; those of self-command are,
upon most occasions, principally and almost entirely recommended
to us by one; by the sense of propriety, by regard to the
sentiments of the supposed impartial spectator. Without the
restraint which this principle imposes, every passion would, upon
most occasions, rush headlong, if I may say so, to its own
gratification. Anger would follow the suggestions of its own
fury; fear those of its own violent agitations. Regard to no time
or place would induce vanity to refrain from the loudest and most
impertinent ostentation; or voluptuousness from the most open,
indecent, and scandalous indulgence. Respect for what are, or for
what ought to be, or for what upon a certain condition would be,
the sentiments of other people, is the sole principle which, upon
most occasions, overawes all those mutinous and turbulent
passions into that tone and temper which the impartial spectator
can enter into and sympathize with.
Upon some occasions, indeed, those passions are restrained,
not so much by a sense of their impropriety, as by prudential
considerations of the bad consequences which might follow from
their indulgence. In such cases, the passions, though restrained,
are not always subdued, but often remain lurking in the breast
with all their original fury. The man whose anger is restrained
by fear, does not always lay aside his anger, but only reserves
its gratification for a more safe opportunity. But the man who,
in relating to some other person the injury which has been done
to him, feels at once the fury of his passion cooled and becalmed
by sympathy with the more moderate sentiments of his companion,
who at once adopts those more moderate sentiments, and comes to
view that injury, not in the black and atrocious colours in which
he had originally beheld it, but in the much milder and fairer
light in which his companion naturally views it; not only
restrains, but in some measure subdues, his anger. The passion
becomes really less than it was before, and less capable of
exciting him to the violent and bloody revenge which at first,
perhaps, he might have thought of inflicting.
Those passions which are restrained by the sense of
propriety, are all in some degree moderated and subdued by it.
But those which are restrained only by prudential considerations
of any kind, are, on the contrary, frequently inflamed by the
restraint, and sometimes (long after the provocation given, and
when nobody is thinking about it) burst out absurdly and
unexpectedly, and with tenfold fury and violence.
Anger, however, as well as every other passion, may, upon
many occasions, be very properly restrained by prudential
considerations. Some exertion of manhood and self-command is even
necessary for this sort of restraint; and the impartial spectator
may sometimes view it with that sort of cold esteem due to that
species of conduct which he considers as a mere matter of vulgar
prudence; but never with that affectionate admiration with which
he surveys the same passions, when, by the sense of propriety,
they are moderated and subdued to what he himself can readily
enter into. In the former species of restraint, he may frequently
discern some degree of propriety, and, if you will, even of
virtue; but it is a propriety and virtue of a much inferior order
to those which he always feels with transport and admiration in
the latter.
The virtues of prudence, justice, and beneficence, have no
tendency to produce any but the most agreeable effects. Regard to
those effects, as it originally recommends them to the actor, so
does it afterwards to the impartial spectator. In our approbation
of the character of the prudent man, we feel, with peculiar
complacency, the security which he must enjoy while he walks
under the safeguard of that sedate and deliberate virtue. In our
approbation of the character of the just man, we feel, with equal
complacency, the security which all those connected with him,
whether in neighbourhood, society, or business, must derive from
his scrupulous anxiety never either to hurt or offend. In our
approbation of the character of the beneficent man, we enter into
the gratitude of all those who are within the sphere of his good
offices, and conceive with them the highest sense of his merit.
In our approbation of all those virtues, our sense of their
agreeable effects, of their utility, either to the person who
exercises them, or to some other persons, joins with our sense of
their propriety, and constitutes always a considerable,
frequently the greater part of that approbation.
But in our approbation of the virtues of self-command,
complacency with their effects sometimes constitutes no part, and
frequently but a small part, of that approbation. Those effects
may sometimes be agreeable, and sometimes disagreeable; and
though our approbation is no doubt stronger in the former case,
it is by no means altogether destroyed in the latter. The most
heroic valour may be employed indifferently in the cause either
of justice or of injustice; and though it is no doubt much more
loved and admired in the former case, it still appears a great
and respectable quality even in the latter. In that, and in all
the other virtues of self-command, the splendid and dazzling
quality seems always to be the greatness and steadiness of the
exertion, and the strong sense of propriety which is necessary in
order to make and to maintain that exertion. The effects are too
often but too little regarded.