
If Victor Frankl can have a good life in Auschwitz, then I can have a good life in the United States in 2023 and beyond.
I was talking to a good friend yesterday morning about our and other people’s attitudes to the world around us. We were both noting that some libertarian friends of ours, observing the various reductions in freedom in the United States and in the world generally, focused on these negatives and seemed in almost a perpetual state of despondency. I said that my view is that enough good things are happening, both on the freedom side and in life generally, that most of the time I’m the opposite of despondent.
Also, I said, I don’t know if the world will go from 40% crap to 60% crap or 80% crap. I also mentioned a mid-forties economist friend to whom I had said that and this young friend responded that it might even go to less crap, a distinct possibility. But whichever of those things happen, I said, I want to be around.
That reminded me of a book I finally read a few years ago after many people had recommended it to me over the years: Victor E. Frankl’s Man’s Search for Meaning. Frankl survived Auschwitz by, in part, maintaining a positive attitude. Yes, really.
One excerpt:
We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms–to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s way. (pp. 65-66)
I highly recommend Man’s Search for Meaning. It’s not quite as good as people over the years had led me to believe, but it’s 90% as good.
Addendum: I have another libertarian friend who’s about 10 years younger than me who sometimes says that he’s glad he won’t be around to see the mess 50 years from now. I’m the opposite: I would love to be around.
READER COMMENTS
Richard Fulmer
May 29 2023 at 3:03pm
One of the lessons Frankl learned from Auschwitz was that people who had a why to live would find a way.
Frankl was a psychiatrist who opened a practice after the war. In his book, he told the story of an elderly patient who, several years after his wife’s death, was still inconsolable.
Frankl asked him what it would have been like for his wife had he died first. The gentleman replied that it would have been devastating since she was dependent upon him for handling the family finances and affairs.
Frankl observed that the pain he was experiencing was the price he had to pay to save her from that. With that, his patient was able to deal with her death. He had found his “why.”
Ahmed Fares
May 29 2023 at 3:34pm
re: death by a thousand divinely ordained Covington scissors
—Ross Douthat (New York Times)
Incidentally, Covid-19 was another Covington scissor with an R-naught number right there in the middle between a bad flu and something much worse.
James Anderson Merritt
May 30 2023 at 5:27pm
Given the choice between death by scissor statement and death by Monty Python’s “World’s deadliest joke,” I think that I would prefer the latter.
steve
May 29 2023 at 10:23pm
There is a genre of survival books and maintaining a positive attitude, along with good leadership, is the commonality among people who survive awful, catastrophic events. Shackleton’s Endurance is my favorite and if you have not heartily recommend it. For myself, I am almost always optimistic. Things might be better or worse for a while but long term things tend to get better. (Maybe we get our flying cars in 50 years?)
Steve
robc
Jun 1 2023 at 12:00pm
I dont want flying cars. I have seen people try to drive in 2 dimensions.
Maybe autonomous flying cars, but lets see if we can get those worked out in 2D first also.
https://twitter.com/rawsalerts/status/1663945960546861065
MarkW
May 30 2023 at 9:03am
I think we need to distinguish between ‘crappy’ and ‘crappier’. In general, I take a Whiggish view of history — over long periods of time, things have gotten much better, and I expect they will continue to do so. At the same time, there have been fairly long periods of reversals, and we may be in one of those. Things do seem like they’re getting crappier. But, what decade in history would you rather be living than the 2020s? Maybe the 2010s (when we had nearly all of today’s stuff but culture seemed not quite so dumb and politics so polarized)? Maybe the 1990s (though at that point, you’re already giving up a lot of wonderful modern stuff). You wouldn’t want to go back very far though. It seems simultaneously true that we live at one of the best times in human history and also that things are getting worse. So, I guess, enjoy the first one and do what you can about the second without becoming a gloomy whiner.
I have to say that I’d like to be around for as many more decades as I can so long as I’m in good health. But I do have to admit the that the trend toward things getting worse is making me a little less wistful about missing things 50 years from now that I’m very unlikely to see.
David Seltzer
May 30 2023 at 5:17pm
Man’s search for meaning might be amended to some of us searching for meaning. I don’t mean pedantry here. In my individual experience, some returning from combat are searching for their humanity. Humanity lost in the fog of battle. When I despair the world, I remind myself of the Garden of the Righteous Nations at Yad Vashem. It honors non-Jews who risked their lives during the Holocaust to save Jews from extermination by the Nazis.
Thomas L Hutcheson
May 30 2023 at 8:58pm
I’m hanging on until I see Congress pass a tax on net emissions of CO2, then, “Nunc demittis.” 🙂
nobody.really
Jun 1 2023 at 4:46pm
Ecclesiastes 7:10
Noctes Atticae (Attic Nights), Vol. 1, by A. Cornelius Gellius, quoting Favorinus of Arelate (CE 85 – 155)
Adam Smith, The Wealth of Nations (1776), Book 2, Chp. 3.
David Hume
Alexis de Tocqueville
Henry Adams (1878)
Gilbert & Sullivan, The Mikado (1885) “I’ve Got a Little List”
Arthur Herman, The Idea of Decline in Western History (1997)
Arthur Lovejoy and George Boas, Primitivism and Related Ideas in Antiquity
Herbert Spencer, From Freedom to Bondage (1891)
Julian Simon
Jean Shepard (author of A Christmas Story), The Ferrari in the Bedroom (1986)
Michael W. Cox, Richard Alm, The Myths Of Rich And Poor: Why We’re Better Off Than We Think (2008)
Tyler Cowen
Maxwell Anderson, The New Yorker (May 8, 1948) at 26.
J. Scott Frampton
Jun 2 2023 at 8:09am
Great Posting David,
I am standing up and clapping. Also, the book recommendation is on my list.
Respectfully,
Scott
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